
Originally Posted by
shanna dior
As a foreigner, you have the easiest segue into a topic that often turns into a goldmine for building rapport and keeping things flirty: travel! Try and get them going about a sexy trip they've taken, an exotic location they've visited, they're favourite place to travel to, a naughty encounter they've had on a business trip, a hot woman they met in some far off place, etc. Ask where the sexiest woman are, where they've had the hottest lap dance, or where outside of the UK they've had sex, etc., etc. This is my go-to topic since I'm a big traveler and find that so many strip club patrons are as well (be it for business or pleasure).
Other good topics: music (if they're really into a band/genre, getting them talking about live shows, etc. can be great), food (since you're not from around there, ask for a recommendation of their favourite place to eat and then segue into sexy culinary talk), and movies/tv/video games (especially if there's a hot chick in them that you can bring up because it keeps it flirtier than date talk normally is on these topics).
Regardless of topic, always be redirecting the conversation to them. Don't elaborate too much on their questions (I know you get a lot about what brings you to the UK, etc.), but give them a quick answer and turn it back to them immediately with a related question. Avoid yes/no things since you want to get them talking.
Above all, work the body language! You can talk about mundane, regular date topics without getting friend zoned if you keep the body language flirty: play with their hair, rub their thigh/arm/shoulders/chest, look into their eyes and then glance down at their lips and then look back into their eyes with a coy smile, mirror their body language, sling a leg over theirs, just always be touching them and look interested in whatever they're saying (eye contact + constant nodding + smiles). Doesn't matter what they actually say or if you understand it -- "Oh wow, you send all the performance emails for the NHS? That's so interesting! Do you ever get any naughty replies?" No worries if you get things wrong -- you're cute and foreign and don't know any better! And you can always ask follow up questions to understand/get them talking.
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