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    So... I started dancing last night, and it did not go over as well as I would have liked. I only made about $200 after tip-outs. The problem I kept running into was that the customers were too respectful towards me... Several customers made comments about me being more of potential wife material than someone they'd be lusting after. I dunno what to do... what are some "sexy" things to do and say? One of the girls I work with told me to act slutty and horny, but I'm afraid of sending the wrong signals. I certainly don't want them thinking that I'd be willing to let them touch me/ be willing to do extras. Any advice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kyaaa View Post
    Oh, something i did tonight when a guy wanted to give me his number i said 'we can't accept numbers when there's so many people/cameras watching. i'll only accept it if you hide it in a tip.' So he gave me $10. Ha.
    Now that's thinking green!

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    Default Re: How to be less "respectable"?

    I looked at that, but it seems to be more about appearance than actions. I don't think it's my appearance, I think it's the way I act. I end up talking too much and I don't talk sexually enough. I was more hoping for advice on how to act/what to say. Thank you though.

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    ^^$200 first night is pretty bad ass! Talking dirty, acting slutty doesn't give the guy any right to expect you to go past your comfort zone.

    Reread the thread I posted. There is stuff in there about thinking sexy/naughty thoughts. You don't have to act slutty, a the right come fuck me look can be enough.
    Looking slutty can take the wholesomeness away, you put the right idea in the guys head and his other head with open up his wallet. Men are visual give them the right eye candy and things do get a little easier.

    Also check out the talk less hustle thread.
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...closing-a-sale
    Quote Originally Posted by Kyaaa View Post
    Oh, something i did tonight when a guy wanted to give me his number i said 'we can't accept numbers when there's so many people/cameras watching. i'll only accept it if you hide it in a tip.' So he gave me $10. Ha.
    Now that's thinking green!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Heels & Pearls View Post
    I end up talking too much and I don't talk sexually enough. I was more hoping for advice on how to act/what to say.
    Well, what are you currently talking about? I don't talk particularly sexually when interacting with my clients and I don't think it's necessary to act super raunchy to make money in most cases. I try not to have a mundane conversation, but it would be really helpful if you could share the gist of your conversations. Generally good topics include travel, music, and other fun/exciting activities.

    I find I also do better the less I talk and the more I guide the conversation. Let the customer do the talking -- everyone's favourite sound is their own voice, and he's definitely not there to listen to a monologue. Ask questions until you find something that sparks his interest and gets him going, then guide the conversation in a positive way (ie. get him to say yes or nod a lot since that sets him up to say yes to dances), injecting a few flirty remarks (and flirty touches) to remind him that he's in a strip club and he wants to see you naked, and then after 1-3 songs (depending on club culture), tell him it's time to really get to know each other and go for a few dances.

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    Default Re: How to be less "respectable"?

    You might be a little like me ( more natural look ) . Play up your makeup and just do MORE of everything in the club. More makeup, lashes, more BLING. The girl next door can be ok, but if you feel like you want to kick it up a notch, get into the presentation a bit more.

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    Default Re: How to be less "respectable"?

    It's probably a mix of your hustle and your appearance, to be honest. But without more details about your appearance, club, and hustle, it's impossible for us to truly help.

    There's been an interesting influx of threads like this one lately. Vague situation described by new member asking for specific hustle help. We need details!!!

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    do you watch porn? I find watching how those ladies act before they do the deed helps a lot!
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    3 song rule.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
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    Default Re: How to be less "respectable"?

    $200 on your first night is pretty good. It took me about a year to consistently make more than that.

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    Default Re: How to be less "respectable"?

    Quote Originally Posted by kissykins View Post
    ^^$200 first night is pretty bad ass!
    Agreed! Unless you are in San Francisco or NYC, this is a pretty good night!

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    Jiggle, jiggle, giggle. Works for me all the time.
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