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    You have received sm very good responses in this thread. I am going to be very blunt tho, & say that your friend who 'hooked you up' is an idiot, & I think this guy needs to go. After reading thru all three pages of this thread, this is one of your statements that sticks out in flashing, radioactive-red type:

    'He keeps saying he does not date strippers or porn stars'

    To me, that is the statement of a guy who does not see sex-industry workers as human beings. It is the mentality that a (female) sex worker is not a full human being, but a pussy, & YOUR pussy belongs to HIM. I see this from customers in the club so much & it makes me sick. The core causes of his insecurity are really beside the point in this case, b/c the result is that he would rather see you slaving for min wage from a mgr, who from your posts it sounds like you would be foolish to relax your guard around, instead of you making however many $100s a day/wk/whatever from the safety & comfort of your own home. But then, in your most recent post you described him ready to flip his shit b/c of mounting bills that can't be covered by this shit min wage job.

    I have seen your other threads abt this guy, & from where I am sitting it sounds like he wants it both ways. That is not fair to you. One of the other girls suggested his behaviour is more like that of a pimp than a loving, supportive SO, & based of what you have written abt him I am inclined to agree. He wants you to work 3x as hard either juggling both camming & this gas station gig, or giving up camming completely for a vanilla job, when just sticking w/ camming would be not only less stressful ON YOU but immensely more efficient.

    If you are wanting to have a vanilla job on the side, w/ or w/o the possibility of transitioning completely into that from camming, I say go for it. But don't go for it this way, w/ a dead-end, unsafe, financially inefficient ... servitude? That is abt the most charitable word I can think of for your gas station arrangement.

    That's my $.02 + interest re: your SO.

    As to your friend, NVR take financial advice from sm1 who has nvr had to make do for themselves. Even if she 'hooked you up' w/ the best of intentions, this leads me to that other radioactive stand-out statement: 'get on the mgr's good side' for phone, computer, goodies, whateverthefuckelse. Doesn't sound to me like she has a whole helluva lot of real-world sense, & in any case, she is not Paying Your Bills.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BellaK View Post
    I agree with all the ladies that you should quit one way or the other. Also, don't feel bad about quitting a job ever either. You have to do whats right for YOU! You are "at -will". The day the gas station decides its your last day it would be, and they won't feel a thing (I've seen a 7 months pregnant woman who just bought a house get fired before TRUTH) Plus,wouldn't need to give a reason. Going forward you do not have to put them on a resume, because you have to give employers permission to do background checks on the ones you supply. Also, be prepared to fill in any time gaps with a very good excuse as well. lol..... If you ever care to go back vanilla.

    You will free that job up to someone who may really need it (everyone can't/won't cam).....look at it that way if you need to feel better and free yourself.
    Ditto...
    I lost my job last year (after 25+ years with company)- reason "at will". I worked last month doing same type of work that was supposed to be for at least 6 months-"at will" they over hired. I am learning it is best to control you own destiny vs killing yourself at work for other's. I don't make nearly as much camming (so far) but I will keep trying.

    Gaps in employment history- I use my "caring for my elderly parents" to explain time gaps. No one has ever questioned that reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophieL View Post
    Ditto...
    I lost my job last year (after 25+ years with company)- reason "at will". I worked last month doing same type of work that was supposed to be for at least 6 months-"at will" they over hired. I am learning it is best to control you own destiny vs killing yourself at work for other's. I don't make nearly as much camming (so far) but I will keep trying.

    Gaps in employment history- I use my "caring for my elderly parents" to explain time gaps. No one has ever questioned that reason.

    Yeah, that "at will" crap is REAL. Keep at it!!! I have worked and come back to camming before. It is slow at first, but it will pick up. Definitely save when its good, like anything. I think being consistent has helped me a lot, regs knowing I will be back tomorrow for sure or the next. Good Luck! :-))
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    just wanted to say i quit my shitty fast food vanilla job today! who hooo!
    going back to stripping and camming full time

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    ...do you really think this guy should be your fiance??? Cooooss if I was getting married to someone there would be no dicking around crap like " I don't date pornstars/strippers so be a gas junky instead!"

    ...sorry I am VERY confused and sorto f appalled by this. Like wtf get your life together and ditch the loser and the lame job geez.... ><

    ...sorry...ugh...

    ANYWAYS I know income... serious quit the gas bar job. THE WORST JOB EVER. It is boring it drains your creativity and EVERYONE blames you for gas prices you have NO control of. Wouldn't you rather be loved and adores online than treated like shit in your real job? ack
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    UPDATE: I quit today! My fiance finally said he didn't care. He just wants me to be happy.. I was going to quit today either way though.

    Now camming isn't coming as easily as I'm used to. My placement isn't awful. I'm still on page one, but no one's buying.. wahhh


    "We must try not to sink beneath out anguish, but battle on." - Albus Dumbledore


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