You have received sm very good responses in this thread. I am going to be very blunt tho, & say that your friend who 'hooked you up' is an idiot, & I think this guy needs to go. After reading thru all three pages of this thread, this is one of your statements that sticks out in flashing, radioactive-red type:
'He keeps saying he does not date strippers or porn stars'
To me, that is the statement of a guy who does not see sex-industry workers as human beings. It is the mentality that a (female) sex worker is not a full human being, but a pussy, & YOUR pussy belongs to HIM. I see this from customers in the club so much & it makes me sick. The core causes of his insecurity are really beside the point in this case, b/c the result is that he would rather see you slaving for min wage from a mgr, who from your posts it sounds like you would be foolish to relax your guard around, instead of you making however many $100s a day/wk/whatever from the safety & comfort of your own home. But then, in your most recent post you described him ready to flip his shit b/c of mounting bills that can't be covered by this shit min wage job.
I have seen your other threads abt this guy, & from where I am sitting it sounds like he wants it both ways. That is not fair to you. One of the other girls suggested his behaviour is more like that of a pimp than a loving, supportive SO, & based of what you have written abt him I am inclined to agree. He wants you to work 3x as hard either juggling both camming & this gas station gig, or giving up camming completely for a vanilla job, when just sticking w/ camming would be not only less stressful ON YOU but immensely more efficient.
If you are wanting to have a vanilla job on the side, w/ or w/o the possibility of transitioning completely into that from camming, I say go for it. But don't go for it this way, w/ a dead-end, unsafe, financially inefficient ... servitude? That is abt the most charitable word I can think of for your gas station arrangement.
That's my $.02 + interest re: your SO.
As to your friend, NVR take financial advice from sm1 who has nvr had to make do for themselves. Even if she 'hooked you up' w/ the best of intentions, this leads me to that other radioactive stand-out statement: 'get on the mgr's good side' for phone, computer, goodies, whateverthefuckelse. Doesn't sound to me like she has a whole helluva lot of real-world sense, & in any case, she is not Paying Your Bills.



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