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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    True Story: I once had a 'happy ending' massage, with a legit massage guy
    I find it completely unacceptable that you do not provide a detailed story for that post

    very very wrong

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    If men didn't cheat, escorts would lose 75% of their business.
    100% agree, sad to know that women are not aware of this, and if we complain they say we are psycho's.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    So what I"m seeing here, is that you were more or less happy in this relationship for years (implied, as you make it sound like it's been years and you don't mention problems until this), during which he occasionally got jerked off at a MP. You entered into a pattern of manipulative behavior (your words, not mine) to wrest information from his friends (psycho much?) and in retaliation for getting the occasional handjob, went out and fuked a bunch of guys and videotaped it - because clearly, you're the one in the right here, and tis was taking the high road.

    Based on everything the OP has posted thus far, I am not the least bit surprised her SO was looking elsewhere for relaxation and release.
    Why are you blaming me? you don't like me because i am intelligent and sharp and i am not letting my guard down? if i would be a gf living in fairytale i would have never found out about my bf's hobby. I offer him everything in bed so you are a typical hypocrite.

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    Quote Originally Posted by reversecowgirl View Post
    The part that sticks out to me the most here, (and lots of it doesn't seem to make any sense whatsoever) is that you are pissed to hell and back about your bf getting hand jobs enough to break up with him and get revenge, yet you are totally making sure to keep the man's face out of the video that you USED to get bf back? The whole fucking thing stinks to me. And If I was your bf, I'd be looking for hand jobs too.
    What if my BF will beat that guy up?

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    Quote Originally Posted by safado View Post
    How did you come up with your user name? I find it really funny since mamasan is what they call the house mother at massage parlors. lol
    I KNOW THAT! i became kinda obsessed with MP's so i made up this name. I totally despise of these places, you can tel by my username too, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Oh they understand, otherwise they wouldn't keep that shit to them self. Now if the roles were reversed, that shit wouldn't be acceptable.

    OP has every right to be upset that her man was doing something she didn't know about and was not ok with. I think she should've dumped him asap tho. As for the revenge video, hey... if it'll make her feel better then kuddos. Well deserved to a cheating fucker. Lol.
    THANK YOU for being understanding, i agree they are all fucking hypocrites with double standards, stupid fuckers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasan01
    Why are you blaming me? you don't like me because i am intelligent and sharp and i am not letting my guard down? if i would be a gf living in fairytale i would have never found out about my bf's hobby. I offer him everything in bed so you are a typical hypocrite.
    You certainly do present yourself as intelligent, witty, and completely together, and all of the behavior you have described here only serves to further that image. My bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    Well, this post really reminds me of one of the clients I had. He went to an erotic massage parlor for the first time two years ago, it was a birthday gift from his friends. His first experience was with me and ever since, he's become addicted and told me he's been visiting other salons, seeing other girls and he named some places where I know the girls offer full service and not only a handjob.

    He liked to talk, the first time we met he asked if I have a boyfriend and he was a really nice guy... Then he mentioned that he has a girlfriend. I was really new to the business so I asked him: But why do you come here if you have a girlfriend? I don't think he understood that it is something that would bother his girlfriend and that it is considered cheating. He asked me: Do you think it would bother her if she knew? I replied : Well, if I had a boyfriend I wouldn't want him to go to an erotic massage salon... We then changed subject.

    He repeated a couple of times and after 1 year without seeing him, he came back to see me. We had some conversation, and then he asks me the same question he did two years ago... : Do you think it's something that would bother my girlfriend if I tell her I like going to places like these? I answered: I think it would be preferable if you don't tell her. (It wasn't my job to lecture him...)

    No woman would be happy to know their boyfriend is paying another girl to give them a handjob, or for sex. But it seems like some guys have trouble understanding that in our point of view...
    BASTARD! my BF is probably the same! do you still see that guy? do you know if she found out? you should have told him the truth! for some reason i don't despise women like you who work at Massage parlors, but you probably get a lot of men who are married and in relationships who suffer from double standards, kind of brakes my heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasan01 View Post
    THANK YOU for being understanding, i agree they are all fucking hypocrites with double standards, stupid fuckers.
    I think we can all agree your BF is a lying, disrespectful, piece of shit. Had he told you that was his thing in the beginning, fine. He didn't, so he is an asshole.

    If I were you, just lose all contact with him and just move on. Silent treatment is the best revenge.

    Good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasan01 View Post
    100% agree, sad to know that women are not aware of this, and if we complain they say we are psycho's.
    Oh, they are aware, or suspicious; that's why it's still 'illegal', but rarely enforced. Business, the government and law enforcement still want them and their buddies to be able to cheat on their wives, but for no one to know about it, so they make prostitution illegal to keep it a secret, but never crack down on it in order to keep escorts out there. Without escorts, they'd have to take the chance of picking up a one night stand or sleeping with someone they know, both of who may very well rat them out or make their lives difficult.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Doc Holliday View Post
    Oh, they are aware, or suspicious; that's why it's still 'illegal', but rarely enforced. Business, the government and law enforcement still want them and their buddies to be able to cheat on their wives, but for no one to know about it, so they make prostitution illegal to keep it a secret, but never crack down on it in order to keep escorts out there. Without escorts, they'd have to take the chance of picking up a one night stand or sleeping with someone they know, both of who may very well rat them out or make their lives difficult.

    Most wives have no idea that they are getting cheated on, i find it really sad.

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    Default Re: OK, do many men cheat with sex workers?

    I would leave my bf if he cheated on me, no revenge (well maybe afterwards lol). It can happen he could get attracted by somebody else, and start flirting, I would feel so annoyed but if he doesn't act on it and stop the flirt I would forgive him. If it happens often I would def leave him. I'm a fucking flirt myself, but I just don't act on it.

    But how do you stop somebody to fall in love with somebody else? I'm not going to follow him everywhere to stop that from happening. I would be sad for sure, but if he was respectful to me, I wouldn't be mad. Well, maybe at the beginning bc i'm a vindictive bitch, but I know it'll go away.
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    Default Re: OK, do many men cheat with sex workers?

    btw, who cares if it's with a sex worker or a girl he meets in a club?¿ his intentions are clear.
    "Speak to me of universal laws: the whores hustle and the hustlers whore."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaii View Post
    I would leave my bf if he cheated on me, no revenge (well maybe afterwards lol). It can happen he gets attracted by somebody else, and started flirting, I would feel so annoyed but if he doesn't act on it and stop the flirt I would forgive him. If it happens often I would def leave him. I'm a fucking flirt, but I just don't act on it.

    But how do you stop somebody to fall in love with somebody else? I'm not going to follow him everywhere to stop that from happening. I would be sad for sure, but if he was respectful to me, I wouldn't be mad. Well, maybe at the beginning bc i'm a vindictive bitch, but I know it'll go away.

    Trust me cheating at a massage parlors is totally different, you won't get rid of imagining your bf getting washed by a old Asian lady lol.

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    Default Re: OK, do many men cheat with sex workers?

    Is anyone here going to point out to the OP that every study ever conducted confirms that women cheat more than men..?

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    Default Re: OK, do many men cheat with sex workers?

    ^ very true. i think both men and women cheat. but yes men cheat with sex workers all the time, but that's no excuse. its not ingrained in a man to cheat, its not like you are born with a cheating nature and a penis for god's sake. women cheat just as much or more..
    your boyfriend is a complete asshole. no excuse for him. but i don't feel like the revenge is classy or will make you feel any better. just walk away

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasan01 View Post
    Trust me cheating at a massage parlors is totally different, you won't get rid of imagining your bf getting washed by a old Asian lady lol.
    Wut if that's what he's into?


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    Quote Originally Posted by oldster View Post
    I find it completely unacceptable that you do not provide a detailed story for that post

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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasan01 View Post
    Most wives have no idea that they are getting cheated on, i find it really sad.
    Most people can't handle reality. They would rather be continually lied to than have to fathom the truth.

    How many people actually believe the media and think its real life? How many rando men off the internet think they have a chance with models? How many people believe celebrity gossip that is obviously made up for publicity (all publicity is good publicity, and there is no such thing as bad publicity)? How many people believe that sex tapes are actually leaked, despite signed consent forms and 2257 documents being required for their release? How many people actually believe that you can become wealthy without being a successful entrepreneur / business owner, or being born into money? How many people believe that aliens and ghosts don't exist when there is so much documented proof, as well as documents and videos from other countries' governments confirming their existence? Most people live in lala land. A land that is not reality.

    So I'm pretty sure its no more sad than a lot of other things in this world. They wouldn't even believe you if you told them.

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    Girl, your boyfriend is just a dick and you need to walk away. Your relationship sounds a bit shitty anyways. Seriously, you care if he cheats with a sex worker or not!!! Seriously, I believe you sound kind of bitter because he cheat on you. He is just a fucking stupid guy and you need to upgrade to a real man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    Is anyone here going to point out to the OP that every study ever conducted confirms that women cheat more than men..?
    i actually read quite a few articles that said both sexes cheat equally, just women are more quiet about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mamasan01 View Post
    Most wives have no idea that they are getting cheated on, i find it really sad.
    Or some chicks do not care because their husbands or boyfriends control the finances and the money in the relationship. What I find really sad is that you are letting this guy take too much from you. There are billions of men on earth yet you are talking about this shitty guy like he has an almighty cock. We get that you are mad but he is an asshole who no one should cry bitter tears over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87
    but i don't feel like the revenge is classy or will make you feel any better. just walk away
    How dare you imply the OP isn't classy. She's witty, intelligent, completely self aware, and give her man evrything he could ever want in bed. Haven't you been paying attention?

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    Default Re: OK, do many men cheat with sex workers?

    I don't understand how someone thinks that letting a random person put their dick in them is "revenge" or getting one up on their cheating spouse or whatever. It just makes you every bit as bad as they are.

    Congratulations, OP! You're a cheater now, too.
    All those awful things you've been thinking about your SO... that he's disgusting? An asshole? A piece of shit? Selfish? Those all apply to you just as much as him. Enjoy your trophy video.


    I really want to hear the Whirlerz story, too. For the record.
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    Great Pun!

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