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    Angry Extra Girl moved in on my lap dance!?

    I don't mind a little competition at work, like if I go to the bathroom or do a stage set I fully expect a girl to try and sweet talk my customer. What I do not expect is a girl to show up while im giving a string of lap dances and start trying to offer sexual favors to my customer WHILE IM DANCING ON HIM. The bitch sat there and watched him spend $100 on me. Literally sat there letting him touch her all over (I mean all over) for free. Im knew she was dirty but not rude. I don't know if I should inform a manager because im not a snitch but its been 72 hours and im still pissed.

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    Default Re: Extra Girl moved in on my lap dance!?

    Same sort of thing happened to me. There was a bachelor party and I was talking to the bachelor. Did a few dances for him and up walks two very known extras girls. One was turned away. Another STARTS TALKING TO THE BACHELOR WHILE WE'RE TALKING. So I'm like ok maybe she's just friendly. I did another dance for him and was called on stage. Seriously 2 minutes later they were up in a VIP room. Like seriously? Not only was it a thirsty move but so fucking rude. She pitched her nasty ass extras menu to the rest of the gang and when I went on stage she grabbed 2 other extras girls and they took the group upstairs. My club survives off of extras girls. So if I were to say something they'd probably tell me I need to get with the program ��

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    I would just let it go. She will eventually piss off the wrong person and get what's coming to her, and that way you won't have to be involved at all. I like watching girls like this because sooner or later they push the envelope too far and get their ass kicked in one way or another.
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    i wouldn't say anything to her 3 days after she did it, but if she does it again i would DEFINITELY tell her to step the hell off in no uncertain terms.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misssincere View Post
    My club survives off of extras girls. So if I were to say something they'd probably tell me I need to get with the program ��
    This has been said to me before, and I have almost been fired for pitching a fit about it.
    Curiosity skilled the cat.

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    Tell the manager as soon as it happens. If she does it again. It's his job to straighten that bitch up.

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    I have complained to a manager and/or confronted the girl while it was happened. But now, it's like hitting a puppy for shitting on the rug 3 days ago. Next time, I would tell her immediately and pointedly that I won't tolerate such a thing.

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    I agree with what everyone else is saying, just let it go but tell her if it happens again, if she doesnt listen then go to the manager.

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    2 minutes later they were up in a VIP room. Like seriously? Not only was it a thirsty move but so fucking rude. She pitched her nasty ass extras menu to the rest of the gang and when I went on stage she grabbed 2 other extras girls and they took the group upstairs. My club survives off of extras girls. So if I were to say something they'd probably tell me I need to get with the program
    yet again, welcome to the 'new normal'. Indeed many clubs now depend on the additional revenues generated by 'extras' girls to remain in the black. As such, some clubs are beginning to view 'clean' dancers as a lost business opportunity ... i.e. if the 'clean' dancer were to be replaced with an 'extras' girl, the club would earn additional revenues ( based on the 'extras' dancer's higher rate of private dance sales, from which the club collects its 'cut' ), while the club would still be able to transfer essentially all negative consequences to the 'extras' dancers ' ( honest, officer I had no idea what was going on back there !' ). Thus attempting to complain to club management about 'extras' girls may only place a 'clean' dancer one step closer to the door.

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    I had something similar happen just 3 days ago- I was dancing on this guy in the corner, and miss rude is doing a dance on another guy. She starts talking to my customer as I am dancing on him, and while she is dancing on his friend, and says "youre next!!"
    Then some random 20 mins later, he and I are going to a different part of the room to dance in, and she turns around while straddling her customer, shouts at him, hey! dont forget your next ok!!
    Affectivly ruining my hustle and money for that dude. He was very shy and young, and was like, WEll I am going to dance with her. Then we can get a vip dance, I promise." WTF. they say, the customers are never YOURS, but still that was a bitch move and totally vicioius.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pink_bunny View Post
    I had something similar happen just 3 days ago- I was dancing on this guy in the corner, and miss rude is doing a dance on another guy. She starts talking to my customer as I am dancing on him, and while she is dancing on his friend, and says "youre next!!"
    Then some random 20 mins later, he and I are going to a different part of the room to dance in, and she turns around while straddling her customer, shouts at him, hey! dont forget your next ok!!
    Affectivly ruining my hustle and money for that dude. He was very shy and young, and was like, WEll I am going to dance with her. Then we can get a vip dance, I promise." WTF. they say, the customers are never YOURS, but still that was a bitch move and totally vicioius.
    I am normally very strongly against shit-talking coworkers to customers, but this might be a time I am inclined to make an exception. The slag is actively, not passively, fking w/ your income. At the very least I would comment on how terrible her 'service' actually is since she is actively trying to hook other prospects when she should be focused on just his friend.

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    @ Aslinn you have a lot of restraint. More than I would have.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    @ Aslinn you have a lot of restraint. More than I would have.
    I only have restraint because if I go to jail I have to explain to who picks me up why I was at a titty bar lol.

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    Sucks to hear that. Yes some dancers are true bitches that only care about themselves and have no problems f*cking other people over.

    If you can let it go then do that so it won't affect your money. Otherwise if she keeps doing it then, fight fire with fire. If you see an opportunity to cut in on her dances then do that.

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    Something like that happened to me. I was talking to this group off guys that weren't sure about getting VIPS and eventually decided against the price...This chick comes out of nowhere in her bikini [we are not allowed to not be covered up on the floor] legs spread eagle sitting down while I'm talking and whispers something into the guys ear and their off. I was so pissed off the next day she pulls the same thing but I warned the guy she was a shark and he came up to me and was like you're right about her and spent money on me ^_^ she sat there and pouted like the bitch she is!!! VICTORY!!
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    Yea, sorry that happened to you


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    I'd say something to management if it happens again. It's only a matter of time before she messes with the wrong dancer and gets her ass kicked.

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    ^^^ Again, before bringing such matters to the attention of club management, you really need to have a 'read' on club management's attitude ... as well as understanding the possibility that an 'extras' dancer may be providing more revenue for the club than you are !!! In some situations, indirectly reminding club management that you aren't willing to provide the same 'extras', thus aren't willing to generate the same amount of revenues for the club as the 'extras' dancer you're complaining about, could do more harm to you than to the 'extras' dancer.

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    It's all about how management is approached. Playing up the fact that dancer conflict doesn't mesh with customer comfort, without going into detail, or even mentioning the extras, gets management thinking about the customer and not about the extras.

    Dealing with situations like this is all about the politics.

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