http://www.vice.com/read/financial-d...pensive-fetish
I love fetishes. But this sounds like every custy on some level. Have you encountered this in the club? Or is this just a cam girl thing?



http://www.vice.com/read/financial-d...pensive-fetish
I love fetishes. But this sounds like every custy on some level. Have you encountered this in the club? Or is this just a cam girl thing?
Last edited by Doc Holliday; 04-08-2014 at 10:44 AM.
Nope silly, its just a persona that entertains the masses, yourself included. - KS_Stevia
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(everything I post should be considered a work of fiction)










I didn't read the link, but I've run across that in phone sex.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt




It's mostly an online thing.




It's real and the guys who are serious about it are absolutely nothing like the average strip club customer or escorting client.
I used to have a client who would pay me to come to his hotel room and smack him around while I took money out of his wallet and poured the entire mini bar into the sink. I'd flush the candy and nuts and stuff down the toilet. All while telling him how much everything cost and laughing about how I was just throwing his money away. He would sit there and cry.
He must have enjoyed it though because he was a repeat client for a few years.



How does that work? I mean do you discuss specific actions or is it just I'm going to come over, take your money, and make you do what I say?
Is this hustle used on custies in strip clubs? Are the guys who fall for dancers and live to spend not submissive and could you play into that role, be their goddess on a pedestal who must be taken care of? Or the opposite, the guys wishing to be dominate and spend money to feel important, could you play the part of the down on her luck dancer who's never seen so much money before?? Of course both are false, but customers come in with their own pre-conceived idea of what dancers are anyway, why not feed him his own bullshit and get him spending over it?
Nope silly, its just a persona that entertains the masses, yourself included. - KS_Stevia
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(everything I post should be considered a work of fiction)





Doc Holiday,
Actually....financial domination is usually an online or phone fetish. It is booming in virtual worlds such as second life where many people great money off of this fetish.




With the real life client I had, he contacted my pro-domme persona and just said that he liked to be humiliated. When I got there I started insulting him and watching his reactions to see what he was really into. Often the humiliation guys don't want to come right out and say exactly what they like. I had some experience with financial domination through phone sex so when I picked up on that, I went with it.
I've used it in strip clubs, not often but if I pick up on that while talking to him I will get rude and demand money and it works very well if that's what the guy is into. I've also played the small town, naive country girl and the woe is me bit with customers if I think they'll respond well to that.
I know every girl works it a little differently but to me that's what the job is. You figure out which approach will get the money out of the customer and you take it. I've never felt dishonest while doing it because I'm selling a fantasy. I don't feel even slightly bad about lying to a customer because, as far as I'm concerned, that's my job. If they want a dirty girl from a rich family who only strips because she's an exhibitionist, then that's what I am. If they want a farm girl who moved to the big city and had to start stripping just to pay the rent, then I'll be that.





Hi
I can only speak for myself, but true FinDomguys are rare. I have two and am extremely grateful for them. That said, many guys in the web community pretend to be into it. Which means nothing to me until I actually see money lol. Most guys just like to play the role, which is very shortlived.





It's by no means only an online thing, that's just the fastest way to find them. I know too many girls that are too good at finding them IRL, lol.
To answer your Q Doc - I don't get it either, but it IS a thing, and the guys that are really into it are REALLY into it. I have seen men bankrupt their very successful businesses over this particular "kink" - and LOVE it. In that regard, it's just like a drug or gambling addiction. I think it's related to gambling most closely; although I don't understand the "high" (gamblers are ostensibly playing for the high they get from winning), they both seem to stay addicted through the losses. "And the only time that he's satisfied/is when he's down, and drunk..."
You may have more of a point than you realize. Strip clubs could be considered a kind of "casino" for certain types of customers. The gamble of course being: they spend money and hope they get to take home the dancer. Heck, there are probably strip club customers out there who are financial "fetishists" who don't even know it. In my opinion there is a very thin line between gambling, financial fetish, and a habitual strip club customer spending irresponsibly. All three involve many of the same emotional/psychological "highs".





Almost Jaded. you are correct! Many ladies including my mother find men into this kink in real life. However, I do not believe it is related to gambling but a wealth complex. I believe that many of these rich men secretly feel guilty about making a good salary. A mistress is there in order to take the edge off because money seems to haunt them. However, I mostly find it to be better online/phone findom slaves than in real life. But I am still a findom newbie and still learning.



I'm cheap and I laugh at the idea of it all, but all I know is if I walked into a strip club and ran into this chick...
she'd own me.
Nope silly, its just a persona that entertains the masses, yourself included. - KS_Stevia
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(everything I post should be considered a work of fiction)





Well, Doc, the SC's are your oyster..
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
its real. i've been into it for years. I even had a findom relationship with a dancer on here. most girls in the club can read me and know i'm into it. it's very real, and yes, it's very expensive. there are also a lot of flakes in this fetish too that just fantasize about it and once they cum, put their walllet away
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