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    New member here..but long time lurker. I've learned alot from reading your posts and I say thankya.

    There's this guy who comes into our club about 1-2 times a week. He doesn't look like a PL. He's a handsome somewhat well-dressed non-PL (early 30s?)... so far as I can tell.

    He and I have had a few conversations, but he's very hard to sell too. He tends to be very quickly dismissive, or he'll sit and have conversations.

    He always tips all of the girls on stage. He never stands at the stage to get a dance, he simply throws down 5-10 dollars then walks back to his seat. Several girls mentioned that when they went and sat with him, he said he wasn't interested and gave them 5-10 bucks.

    He's become something of an enigma in our club. He does go back to the VIP rarely, but when he does, two other girls said he cut the dance half way early and tipped them twice the amount of the dance.

    I guess I'm asking because I feel like I have a connection with him, and he obviously has some money to throw around. He seems respectful of the club (he doesn't just sit and stare, and gets up and tips) but he is difficult to pin down. I've had a long conversation with him (15 mins) and other times, and just tips me and sort of sends me away. What kind of guy is this? Since he's not particular to any one girl, is there a way to make him a regular? I can't guess how much he drops each time, but it seems like a decent amount, and he's a 2x a week regular.

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    It is 0400 & been a long nite for me, but my thoughts:

    He is sm1 who goes to the SC for his own simple entertainment, which seems to be mainly stage-focused. He is respectful of you guys' job as evidenced by tipping every1 who goes onstage, but any variances from his normal behaviour, will be more abt a 'mood thing' than anything else. Kinda like when I would go to my favourite bar wherever I was living(have not found a favourite here yet) & I would go for my usual 2 beers & a chat w/ my favourite bartender. I am not normally a hard-liquor drinker, but every once in a while you might be able to talk me into it. Beyond that, you could try to sell me the moon & planets (or just a LD hehe) on a silver platter & I would probably just slip you a few $$ to go away. Doesn't mean I don't like you.

    If he is not linked to any particular girl then I guess just be friendly to him when he is there. An aggressive sell will shut him down right away. Maybe ask him if you can come back if you need sm where to sit & look busy for a min. That is a line I use in many situations. If he agrees then you may eventually find yourself the recipient of his unicorn VIP.

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    Thanks for the reply .. Everything you said makes since in this context...

    I guess I'm just curious about him because even in my 2 years of dancing I've yet to see a guy like this. He doesn't seem like a lonely loser...and on a couple of occasions we've had a conversation where he was funny mad not bashful.

    on the other hand it is weird walking up to a guy who will just give you 5 bucks to walk away. Part of me sees him as a challenge...and part of me thinks he might be up to something...just a strange guy.

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    He could well be up to smtg - I did consider that possibility while formulating my response but figure it may be going a bit outside the scope. Consider this tho - do you really want to be getting into mind/$$ games
    W/ sm1 who is 'up to smtg?' Not that most customers & dancers aren't, we all have an agenda, but for the time being I think the customer has the upper hand here.

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    What would he be up to? A cop? One girl said she walked away from him because she got that sense. But we run a clean club so I'm not really convinced a guy would come in for twice a week for two months as some sort of sting.

    I wouldn't call it a crush, I don't tend to get those on customers, but the dude is interesting. He makes interesting convo when he's in the mood, but on other days he's very dismissive. It's become something of a game where we watch an out of town dancer approach him..he says 2 words without looking at her...gives her a few bucks and she walks off.

    A few days he came in and just played on his phone 2 hours and left. Wtf?

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    He could be a cop. Sometimes when they do "investigations" they will do things similar to what you described.

    If that's not the case it sounds like he's really just there for entertainment. There are a lot of guys out there who just love to watch girls on stage.

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    Does he say something directly like "i'd rather hang out alone" and tip you, or does he say "i don't get dances" or "here's a tip for your time?" I had a customer once tell me he doesn't get dances. I said that's cool and kept talking to him for 2 more minutes. Then he grabbed my hand and led me to the dance area. I would try talking to this guy as a friend, without the intention of making money, just tonsee what happens. If he gives you money, act confused or put off and say you just wanted to chat.

    He may be looking for someone he can have a real conversation with, and your club sounds pretty high hustle. I.e., no chatting without pay. If he got to know you on a more friendly basis, he might be more soendy.

    He could also just have no desire to get his penis hard for a tease. At least he tips! So many of that type don't.

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    I had a one like this. In general, he was a weird guy, but a total sweetie. He went to Afganistan and just came back odd. Totally able to function (he made a shit ton of $ at his job), fun to be around, could be the life of the party, just odd. He tipped all the girls that would sit with him, randomly go to stage. He didn't mind the "Wanna dance?" gals, he understood that everyone was there to make their money, but he was trying to find a girl he could have a normal, real, intelligent conversation with. Actually, it didn't have to be super intelligent, my first conversation with him started because of his Batman wallet, it just happened to turn toward investing. He liked that I didn't pretend to be interested in things he said. After a drink I'd ask him if he wanted a dance. If he said no, he would buy me another drink, I'd talk with him a bit longer and then tell him "I don't wanna leave, but a gal needs to make some money". Then he would either go in back for dances or tip me and say "Good luck". It was worth the time if he didn't buy dances just because he was fun to talk with and take a break with. I miss him...

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    My club has a lot of guys like this. The bar is near a middle class neighborhood, and is convenient to freeway access, so we get a lot of guys who just come in for a pint and some conversation. I can think of 6-7 of these non-PL types who come in every week. They just like the SC atmosphere more than a traditional pub. Most tip at the stage and rarely buy dances. I like these guys because if I'm not getting anywhere with the real customers, they are nice to chill with for a while. I can usually count on one or two who are willing to buy dancers drinks. There is one guy who I flirt madly with, and he likes to sit in the middle of room where the other customers can see me showering attention on him. This usually gets the ball rolling as far as dance sales because the guys on the fence decide they want what that guy is having.

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    I've had this kind of guy and actually dated him for a while.

    What's his deal?

    My guy was a former SC bouncer/ nightclub bartender who now runs his own company. He had a lot of female friends in the business so he completely understood that we girls weren't pieces of meat or sex toys. He could also see through even the best hustlers at my clubs. I dunno about your regular but another thing was that my guy would never watch the dancers when they were on stage. He'd always be sweet to all the girls but always super respectful too.

    To top it all off, what really got me for him, (and I never fall for a guy) was that he bought a VIP dance from me but once we got into the room he told me he just wanted to talk to me. We joked around for a little bit and he paid for the dance (that I didn't do) and tipped me triple. I could never figure him out.

    Anyway, we ended up dating for a few months and he was always a sweetheart to me.

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