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    Duh Should I take him seriously or not? (Nite Flirt)

    Hi everyone just looking for some advice all replies are greatly appreciated!

    I joined Nite Flirt a few months ago it took me about a week to start getting calls. Now I'm doing pretty good on nite flirt. I got a call from a customer who talked to me for about 100+ minutes and purchased one of my goodie bags . He didn't cum on the phone or anything like that he was just talking to me about becoming one of my slaves and how he wants me to do complete domination with him. I am new to the whole domination thing but, I am a dominant person. I'm still taking the time to research everything and so far I'm doing pretty well with it. After we got off of the phone he went to my website and filled out my slave application and then from there I emailed him letting him know that I accepted his application. I gave him all the rules and all the things that I expect from my slaves and since we live in the same state he is also interested in live sessions. I have a personal number that I have strictly for texting/calling my slaves whenever I want to check in on them off of nite flirt or reward them with a free personal conversation if they have been spending a lot of money on me.

    We have been texting here and there and I had a free 20 minute conversation with him one time to go over his application a little bit more in depth. On my application I have an option for slaves to choose how much they are going to be able to spend on me a week. he chose the smallest amount which was $50. He his looking for a personal slave relationship with me and I explained to him that I understand what he expects but that he needs to understand that even though I enjoy what I do I do get paid for my services especially in the beginning . The only time I don't mind doing things for free is if its a slave that is always sending me tributes or spoiling me with gifts because it evens itself out. He told me that he selected $50 because one week that may be all he can give me but the next week he maybe able to send me a thousand. He said that he is the sales manager(or something like that) of a construction company, he rents out a couple of apartments/homes, and dabbles in other things.

    Also while we were on the phone I heard him pressing key pads on something and I asked him what he was doing and he told me that he had forgot his pod (or something like that) and that he was manually punching in his code to his house to open the gates because he lives in a gated community. Then in the same sentence he turns around says his wife just had expensive surgery, that he had to pay a lot in taxes this year, and that he is working on getting his money back right. I kind of took that as a red flag because he just sat there on the phone with me for over a hundred minutes spending more than a hundred dollars but then he in the same breath he says he is basically broke? Its been about 5 days since he spent money on me. So yesterday I text him and told him that I needed his assistance and to send me $40 dollars just as a test to see what he would do. He replied back to me saying that he is ashamed to say this but he will not have any money till Friday and that he hopes that I will understand.

    I told him that I was disappointed with him and that I hope that he does not try to make this a consistent thing. Then this morning he text me and said that he was so happy to find me on Nite Flirt and talk to me and that I'm really the type of mistress that he wants, and he really wants to be my slave, and that he is disappointed with himself that he couldn't assist me when I needed, and that he hopes that he didn't jump into being my slave to soon because of the financial challenges he is having with work and taxes and for me to have a great day.

    I don't know if he should be taken seriously or if he is just a scammer who likes to pay a lot of money at first and then try to get services for free afterwards. I'm not feeling ripped off yet because I when we did text it was very few texts everyday and it was him checking in with me and I only spoke to him for free one time to go over his application and discuss a few things, and that call didn't last nearly as long as his call with me on Nite Flirt. I haven't responded to him yet beause I want some advice first. Thanks

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    Default Re: Should I take him seriously or not? (Nite Flirt)

    Letting them contact you outside the site is opening yourself up to freeloading. I never ever communicate unless they are paying. I guess if it works for you go ahead but in my experience it cuts off the flow of money and attracts broke guys.

    I even charge them for email responses with pay-to-view through Niteflirt, just a dollar but that shows me they have at least some money in their account and reinforces that interaction with me is valuable and not free.


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    You right I'm not going to do anything for free anymore I'm going to make them pay me for everything even if it is a small amount. Thanks for your advice!

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    Default Re: Should I take him seriously or not? (Nite Flirt)

    Girl cease all outside contact with that guy. He was working you. I hope this special number you have has a block feature? I would block him right away on there and then make him tip for the privilege of speaking to me again. Don't block him on NF just yet. Because after all he DID spend a great deal of money. And he will spend again if you play it correctly. BTW what you are doing in regards to giving out personal info and having them tip you every week for special perks is kinda toeing the line. Be careful with that. Like don't send out emails through NF talking about that. Sometimes other flirts end up on your list and you may have missed one. They will turn you in and if there is a phone number or information talking about offsite contact on the website...again someone may turn you in if you link to that site from your NF listing. The rules on that site are arbitrary and can depend on whomever gets the complaint on that given day. To be honest I couldn't care less about traffic leaks on that site. Just cover your ass. But yes that guy should be paying you for every bit of attention from you. I've had this happen to me when I first started and then I figured it out along the way. Basically I looked at how much time I spent on setting up the call or session and then compared that to how much money he actually spent. I about lost my shit when I did the math. Especially when I had guys who will talk to me for hours and never want anything for free. We finish up the session and they go on with their lives. I get an occasional text saying "Happy Easter" "Happy Birthday" etc etc. Sending a text to entice them to call is a great way to keep in contact and I do it with google voice,skype and yahoo. But no back and forth crap. And they must have spent a substantial amount of money to get that perk. Not just one or two calls. But many.

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    Default Re: Should I take him seriously or not? (Nite Flirt)

    Oh also the other day I got a guy on NF who said "I want you to use and abuse me" but he didn't call? Like WTF? So I sent him a $20 ptv with just these two words "Good Boy". And guess what? He paid for that. No description of the ptv just a decimal and those two words once he paid for it. He still hasnt called but he left me great feedback on that ptv. I wish all the sites had a pay to view email system.

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    Default Re: Should I take him seriously or not? (Nite Flirt)

    How does this pay you view email thing work on NF, I thought it was just for videos

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    Wow I've had a couple of guys write me stories but I always write back and tell them to give me a call of course they never do. But after I took your advice I texted him and said that he is to have no further contact with me until he pays up. When Friday came he sent a tribute for $125. We never sent emails through Nite Flirt I have my email listed as a method of contact on my website and when a guy has to fill out my slave application they are required to give me their email so I contact them through email outside of Nite Flirt to discuss their application and that's usually when clients start asking me about other stuff besides Nite Flirt .
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    Default Re: Should I take him seriously or not? (Nite Flirt)

    Sweet Candy, some guys have written me stories as well. Usually, I block them because I do not have time for stupidity. Never send email through Niteflirt unless their your regular clients.PhatGirlDynomite knows her stuff


    Quote Originally Posted by SweetCandy View Post
    Wow I've had a couple of guys write me stories but I always write back and tell them to give me a call of course they never do. But after I took your advice I texted him and said that he is to have no further contact with me until he pays up. When Friday came he sent a tribute for $125. We never sent emails through Nite Flirt I have my email listed as a method of contact on my website and when a guy has to fill out my slave application they are required to give me their email so I contact them through email outside of Nite Flirt to discuss their application and that's usually when clients start asking me about other stuff besides Nite Flirt from.
    Last edited by DonaDiabla; 04-21-2014 at 06:01 AM.

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