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    Default Positive Experiences with Escorting

    I have only had negative experiences with escorting - the first time as a customer walking in to a bare low-end apartment, a mattress in one room, a kid in another, a window with a view of a brick wall, a fragile, nervous woman, and on the other wall an unfinished painted window of what should be an island in the sun, never finished like an escape to paradise out of reach. I felt ill. What I was doing was wrong. The only pleasant moment was talking to her about her painted window and art.

    The second experience was different. It was a mid-range hotel, comfortable, laughter, felt like spring break, there was a lot of talking and hanging out, and I would say everything was a lot of fun and I had a great time. But she had family issues she was struggling to resolve, yet making no headway, and her sugar daddy turned into a stalker and was sending her death threats from multiple phone numbers. I shared with her my own experiences with a stalker and I confronted hers in an attempt to end it. Stalkers are awful, a kind of madness of pent up hurt and rage and an inability to understand reason. I really don't know how to deal with them to this day. Mine went away and hopefully hers did too.

    So, both customer experiences were bad. I didn't feel like my business did them any good. Both, I gave 40-50% more to than what was asked. The second one noticed and was grateful, but I don't know how much it really helped.

    Then over the years, a few of the dancers I've known turned to escorting and that moment coincided with the problems of their partners, family, alcohol, drugs or gambling addictions, or legal problems, getting more severe and out of control. I tried to help two of them, but they refused my help or took my money yet their situation did not improve. One of these led to an argument where I was told my help wasn't wanted and to mind my own business. All but one of these escorts I lost contact with, and the one I still keep in touch with may be doing good, I want her to be, but I'm afraid to ask.

    So, I went on a venom spilled rant in the customer section about how I thought the extra-escort end of the industry was awful and johns shouldn't support it, but do because it keeps prices down. But, that is all I have seen.

    I was asked to come here to get educated. And I do want some positive feedback about the lighter side of business I have not seen.

    So, how can someone going into escorting improve their lives with the business? What positive impacts has it done?
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    Default Re: Positive Experiences with Escorting

    Your question by its very nature calls for a myriad of responses. I've lost track of how many times I have posted that "escorting is NOT for everybody" ; encouraging anyone considering it to research , READ , think and then think some more BEFORE doing it.

    Can it be exploitative ? Of course. One of many reasons why I continually counsel caution and care.
    It can also be very rewarding from a financial pov and can also result in meeting some very nice people. IT DEPENDS on a multiplicity of factors that for the most part have been discussed here by some ladies who choose to follow the profession in question.

    Do some women regret doing it ? Yes. Just like some ladies regret doing porn and maybe even stripping.

    I think what it boils down to is risk avoidance ( screen out the creeps , cheapskates and other losers ) and risk minimization. Part of that is the lady making sure that she is strong enough and secure enough to handle everything that goes with being an escort. There can be SOME "glamour" in it ( for want of a better word ) but I have repeatedly posted that there isn't much and for most escorts very little to NONE. The ladies that last and make escorting a "career" have come to terms with the business and treat it like a BUSINESS , even a "profession". For the most part I do NOT feel sorry for them and I doubt that they think anyone else should feel sorry . They do what they do . They do it well and have been very successful.

    Obviously I am talking about the middle and higher end of the escorting biz. At the low end is a LOT of stuff that most of us don't even want to think about. The women tend to have a LOT of personal problems and most of them should NOT be escorting. Most probably need therapy. THAT is where we see a lot of exploitation , bad customers and all sorts of related unpleasantness.

    The other side of the coin is that if you feel uncomfortable about seeing an escort - DON'T.
    If you feel guilty about it - see a shrink or at least learn to leave your guilt behind.

    I'm not going to discuss my own personal experiences on a public board but I will say that I do know some guys who see escorts. Some of them have basic rules that minimize their chances of feeling bad about it e.g. they won't see any women under 21 ; they will bail out on anyone with any kind of drug use or dug problem ; they won't deal with pimps and the like.

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    Default Re: Positive Experiences with Escorting

    @Doc The market segment you shop will probably color your experience. You might have a better time if you meet a lady in the mid to upper range. And by that I don't mean just pricing, but also branding.

    How does the lady present herself? Does she seem healthy in mind and body? This business isn't for the simple-minded or the weak-hearted. The ones that navigate successfully are already savvy or they quickly learn to be that way.

    As far as entering this business I've no regrets. What I do regret is not starting earlier. Glamour aside, the business has advanced my life in real, measurable ways. The most obvious effects being greater financial stability as well as improved business and personal skills.

    By meeting successful people I've seen up close that there's so much more to life and work. This pushes me to better myself and I've been saving with an eye towards progressing my vanilla career. I couldn't reach my goals as quickly through my day job alone.

    The price? Having to lead a double life and the stress that entails, but I'm willing to pay it.
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    Default Re: Positive Experiences with Escorting

    >I've lost track of how many times I have posted that "escorting is NOT for everybody" ; encouraging anyone considering it to research , READ , think and then think some more BEFORE doing it.

    i think this could be said of a lot of things. Med school is also not for everybody, just as an example.

    I've had similar experiences as Aether and I've been escorting for about 3 years. I also have a vanilla job that is my passion but pays for shit. Escorting allows me to have savings, pay down debt and generally live a more pleasant life than without it. Escorting has put me in situations and with people that I wouldn't have had access to otherwise. I also met several men who are very financially successful and were generous with their advice. I'll always be very grateful for that.

    I'll also second Aether's point: the ladies at the mid to high range live a very different life than the girls at the lower end.
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    [email protected] Taylorgrrl Advice and mentoring from successful clients are some of the very best perks of the job.

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