I have only had negative experiences with escorting - the first time as a customer walking in to a bare low-end apartment, a mattress in one room, a kid in another, a window with a view of a brick wall, a fragile, nervous woman, and on the other wall an unfinished painted window of what should be an island in the sun, never finished like an escape to paradise out of reach. I felt ill. What I was doing was wrong. The only pleasant moment was talking to her about her painted window and art.
The second experience was different. It was a mid-range hotel, comfortable, laughter, felt like spring break, there was a lot of talking and hanging out, and I would say everything was a lot of fun and I had a great time. But she had family issues she was struggling to resolve, yet making no headway, and her sugar daddy turned into a stalker and was sending her death threats from multiple phone numbers. I shared with her my own experiences with a stalker and I confronted hers in an attempt to end it. Stalkers are awful, a kind of madness of pent up hurt and rage and an inability to understand reason. I really don't know how to deal with them to this day. Mine went away and hopefully hers did too.
So, both customer experiences were bad. I didn't feel like my business did them any good. Both, I gave 40-50% more to than what was asked. The second one noticed and was grateful, but I don't know how much it really helped.
Then over the years, a few of the dancers I've known turned to escorting and that moment coincided with the problems of their partners, family, alcohol, drugs or gambling addictions, or legal problems, getting more severe and out of control. I tried to help two of them, but they refused my help or took my money yet their situation did not improve. One of these led to an argument where I was told my help wasn't wanted and to mind my own business. All but one of these escorts I lost contact with, and the one I still keep in touch with may be doing good, I want her to be, but I'm afraid to ask.
So, I went on a venom spilled rant in the customer section about how I thought the extra-escort end of the industry was awful and johns shouldn't support it, but do because it keeps prices down. But, that is all I have seen.
I was asked to come here to get educated. And I do want some positive feedback about the lighter side of business I have not seen.
So, how can someone going into escorting improve their lives with the business? What positive impacts has it done?



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