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    Default can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I'm curious. Also if not what about a woman who is not yet transgender not yet fully female? I'm just curious because I read a thread on this type of thing.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I mean, probably not, but all clubs are different so you never know until you ask the manager at a specific club.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    I mean, probably not, but all clubs are different so you never know until you ask the manager at a specific club.
    So which would a woman like that go to?

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I imagine if the club was willing and the club was topless then a transgender woman could very well be a dancer.
    However, SC management are a fickle bunch so it would take a woman of confidence to approach them about this.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I've never experienced a vagina check at a strip club so if you can hide it well and it isn't a nude club, it shouldn't be an issue.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Sorry double post
    Last edited by Nickirose20; 04-18-2014 at 03:44 PM.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    a big cilt is nowhere near the same thing as being a pre-op trans person. there are girl with pussies that hang down that get hired, guys love big labia in my experience.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I don't know, if it was bikini/topless I guess you could lie and hide it. Most of the managers I've worked with were not the most progressive and accepting of trangsgender people, though!

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    yeah, I mean, so long as you pass in a thong or similar and NEVER tell anyone (because I feel that would put your safety in jeopardy) then I say go for it!

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I've never experienced a vagina check at a strip club so if you can hide it well and it isn't a nude club, it shouldn't be an issue.
    I'm not trans myself. I just have a big clitoris so I was curious because I knew it probably be the same thing. Anyhow thanks for your advice.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nickirose20 View Post
    I'm not trans myself. I just have a big clitoris so I was curious because I knew it probably be the same thing. Anyhow thanks for your advice.
    You've got to be kidding! Seriously?

    You can't compare a big clitoris to being a preop transgender person.


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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    You've got to be kidding! Seriously?

    You can't compare a big clitoris to being a preop transgender person.
    Yeah, that's incredibly offensive. I'm bowing out of this thread now because I can't be nice to someone as ignorant as the OP.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    a big cilt is nowhere near the same thing as being a pre-op trans person. there are girl with pussies that hang down that get hired, guys love big labia in my experience.
    When I say big I meant abnormally. That's why I said not fully female but not trans. I mean like 1.5-2 inches.

    I said not female fully or trans originally if you get what I mean. Outside of the normal range.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    Yeah, that's incredibly offensive. I'm bowing out of this thread now because I can't be nice to someone as ignorant as the OP.
    Sorry I was talking about genital abnormalities.

    I didn't know transwoman weren't included. I've talked to many who felt the same. Either way didn't mean to offend anyone I originally said someone who wasn't fully female nor transgender in my details. It is sometimes hard to address these subjects it's a tad touchy I'm sorry.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Sorry double post.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Oh, I thought you were trans. Well, you're fine. If you're that worried about it, just wear two thongs to press your clit down more fully. Or work in an all nude club-- men like ALL sorts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BANHammerGoddess View Post
    yeah, I mean, so long as you pass in a thong or similar and NEVER tell anyone (because I feel that would put your safety in jeopardy) then I say go for it!
    Yeah I can so i guess it's not a big deal. It's just that I applied to a club and they're a nude club. Like I'm comfortable as myself. But I'm like idk if I have a shot. Or not. Tbh.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    oooooh--
    okay, so there's a difference between huge clit/labia and then like "largest clit."

    Does it look like a mini-peen?

    I'd be a little worried working nude from guys getting the wrong idea and then getting ugly about it.

    For others: google "largest clit" and then look at the pictures.

    So does it look clit-like in the average sense, or does it look like a mini-peen? Because my advice changes between "wear a thong or two and tell no one" versus, flaunt it loud and proud, since mini-peen-like clits might cause some confusion with a lot of men (though be HUGE in the fetish realm.)

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by MarvelGirl View Post
    I've never experienced a vagina check at a strip club so if you can hide it well and it isn't a nude club, it shouldn't be an issue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BANHammerGoddess View Post
    oooooh--
    okay, so there's a difference between huge clit/labia and then like "largest clit."

    Does it look like a mini-peen?

    I'd be a little worried working nude from guys getting the wrong idea and then getting ugly about it.

    For others: google "largest clit" and then look at the pictures.

    So does it look clit-like in the average sense, or does it look like a mini-peen? Because my advice changes between "wear a thong or two and tell no one" versus, flaunt it loud and proud, since mini-peen-like clits might cause some confusion with a lot of men (though be HUGE in the fetish realm.)
    No I don't have anything hanging like large labia. It's simply my clit that sticks out. Like a penis. But there's very little different between penises and clits besides the size.

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    Mind Blowing Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Wut?? Really..


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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I smell a troll. Hope mods remove this thread.

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    if it looks like a penis, then i would not work at a nude club unless you are prepared for some possibly very hurtful comments from customers..i know it takes a thick skin to work in this industry, and i'm not trying to be mean, but that's just the truth of it. could you maybe get vaginoplasty if it bothers you a lot?

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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Wut?? Really..
    Quote Originally Posted by wednesday86 View Post
    I smell a troll. Hope mods remove this thread.


    Yeah I'm not troll but I think being intersex obviously isn't that well understood here. I should have not inquired I'm sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    if it looks like a penis, then i would not work at a nude club unless you are prepared for some possibly very hurtful comments from customers..i know it takes a thick skin to work in this industry, and i'm not trying to be mean, but that's just the truth of it. could you maybe get vaginoplasty if it bothers you a lot?
    Well it doesn't bother me physically. I am content with my outer appearance.

    I guess I shouldn't have even tried to apply. I don't feel insecure about it as long as I'm allowed to dance I wouldn't have any problems with insults I have a thick skin. I just was wondering because like I said I applied to pts and was wondering if I had a chance even though I have to be in my birthday suit. I'm comfortable with it just not sure about others.

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