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    Default Re: can transgender women non-post op dance at the same clubs?

    I don't understand... do you have a longer clit because you're taking testosterone as a pre-op or you were born that way? You seriously can't compare the two situations-- a transgender person still has the male facial features to combat. This thread is weird?

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    If you are lucky enough to have one by you, work an urban club that's bikini. I don't do lap dances at my club and never go topless and wear elaborate and complicated outfits. Shit I don't even wear a thong. My best moneymaker outfit is a body suit with slits up and down the sides. It would be easy to hide deformities with outfits like that. Also in these clubs guys are more focused on if you can dance and all about the ass. You wouldn't have to worry about lap dances or guys accidentally touching you down there or feeling it. So if you have one by you, I suggest you check it out. To be honest, I'm pretty sure there's some at my club who used to be male before they went to DR lol but don't be so self conscious. Men seriously love everything.

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    This just sounds too far fetched. I know some women have larger than average clits but never heard of one that looks like a penis. I'm sure this is possible but can't imagine common. In reality the op thinks her clit is larger than average but probably really not.

    Anyway, to answer the question about pre op, if a dancer looks like a woman then she can probably dance at a club, assuming it's not nude. If she looks like a man in drag then likely not. One club I danced at dealt with this actually where a pre op came into audition but still looked like a man and apparently still was biologically. Even though this wasn't a nude club (it was topless)the dancer was not hired. The chest incidentally still looked like a male chest. At another club apparently one of the dancers was a post op and you couldn't tell. She was beautiful and made lots of money.

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    MMkay. I totally thought my clit was so weird and abnormal and I googled myself into a state of genital-shame before I started dancing. Then I started dancing, and realized that not only do about half the other girls have clits similar to mine, they're labia poke out in different ways too! "Baby" vaginas occur less frequently on adult women - where all the innards are tucked into a little slit.
    Is your "problem" that the hood of your clitoris is visible outside of your labia majora? If so, that's a 100% normal vagina. That is my vagina. I wanna say that, hood and all, my clit is about the thickness of my pinky finger and maybe a couple of inches "long", although is doesn't hang like a dick would because it is attached to the labes. I rarely hear vagina comments at work, and if I do, it's something along the lines of how cute it is.
    I think this might be something you've blown out of proportion in your mind. Have you been diagnosed by a doctor as intersex? I honestly thought I had this crazy, huge, abnormal, freakish clit until I started dancing and then I saw that I was not alone by a long shot....
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    Quote Originally Posted by audrey_k View Post
    I don't understand... do you have a longer clit because you're taking testosterone as a pre-op or you were born that way? You seriously can't compare the two situations-- a transgender person still has the male facial features to combat. This thread is weird?
    I have masculine traits too just not to the same extent. Among transwoman it is thought that I am too transgender. I have like big shoulders narrow hips and my natural voice is a boy's and I don't have high cheekbones with very little fat on my face and square jaw. But I'm small with big boobs and have full lips small nose and large eyes. I can create the Barbie type look easily. I can even feign a light Barbie type voice. I'm not taking T I was born this way but I've been able in my youth to change in the girl's room without any hassle. It's just I know some people can be jerks you know? And a get the tranny comment often usually in a way to diss. But then in an honest way with other transwomen. But I get that while fully dressed. Idk if this would be over the top too much considering? or not?

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    If you are lucky enough to have one by you, work an urban club that's bikini. I don't do lap dances at my club and never go topless and wear elaborate and complicated outfits. Shit I don't even wear a thong. My best moneymaker outfit is a body suit with slits up and down the sides. It would be easy to hide deformities with outfits like that. Also in these clubs guys are more focused on if you can dance and all about the ass. You wouldn't have to worry about lap dances or guys accidentally touching you down there or feeling it. So if you have one by you, I suggest you check it out. To be honest, I'm pretty sure there's some at my club who used to be male before they went to DR lol but don't be so self conscious. Men seriously love everything.
    I am sorta trying to stick away from urban clubs because I'm so skinny. I have a butt but not really bigbeen told it was flat but it might be that having straight hips make it seem like I'd have a flat butt. I'm way more endowed in the boobs and waist areas it seems. But it wouldn't hurt to try.

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    Go to a nude club as a customer and sit front row so you can see all the crazy different vaginas and I PROMISE you will see some that resemble your own. It sounds to me like you have a self-image issue, rather than any true physical abnormality.
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    I mean really, I'm wondering how penis-like this clit is in reality. Does it actually hang/stick out away from your body and have a head and shaft, or is it just that you are able to see it outside of the labia, even with your legs closed? Because if it's the latter, I am vehemently insisting that this is normal...
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    Wait a minute, now I don't know much about intersex genetalia. But if you do a search on Google images it shows varying genetalia of varying degrees, some that look more masculine, some feminine, some in between depending on how the indivisual's chromosomes were arranged. Now I can understand what the op is worried about, I don't know what their genitals look like but there are some where it looks like the sex organs do look like a miniature penis with a miniature scrotum and all. If this is the case I can see why the op is worried.

    I think the op should try a topless club and like what toeofthecamel said go to a nude club as a customer to try and compare how the other dancers look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    This just sounds too far fetched. I know some women have larger than average clits but never heard of one that looks like a penis. I'm sure this is possible but can't imagine common. In reality the op thinks her clit is larger than average but probably really not.

    Anyway, to answer the question about pre op, if a dancer looks like a woman then she can probably dance at a club, assuming it's not nude. If she looks like a man in drag then likely not. One club I danced at dealt with this actually where a pre op came into audition but still looked like a man and apparently still was biologically. Even though this wasn't a nude club (it was topless)the dancer was not hired. The chest incidentally still looked like a male chest. At another club apparently one of the dancers was a post op and you couldn't tell. She was beautiful and made lots of money.


    I have a rare condition. Like I said I'm not biologically female or transgender.

    I don't have a masculine top half really besides that I have big shoulders. Other than that I'm delicate built and with natural D cups so I think it should be ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ToeOfTheCamel View Post
    MMkay. I totally thought my clit was so weird and abnormal and I googled myself into a state of genital-shame before I started dancing. Then I started dancing, and realized that not only do about half the other girls have clits similar to mine, they're labia poke out in different ways too! "Baby" vaginas occur less frequently on adult women - where all the innards are tucked into a little slit.
    Is your "problem" that the hood of your clitoris is visible outside of your labia majora? If so, that's a 100% normal vagina. That is my vagina. I wanna say that, hood and all, my clit is about the thickness of my pinky finger and maybe a couple of inches "long", although is doesn't hang like a dick would because it is attached to the labes. I rarely hear vagina comments at work, and if I do, it's something along the lines of how cute it is.
    I think this might be something you've blown out of proportion in your mind. Have you been diagnosed by a doctor as intersex? I honestly thought I had this crazy, huge, abnormal, freakish clit until I started dancing and then I saw that I was not alone by a long shot....
    I was diagnosed shortly after I was born. I know I'm not the average. But I'm actually not that out of the norm. It just seems like a bump. I rather be safe than sorry. That's my decision.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nickirose20 View Post
    I have a rare condition. Like I said I'm not biologically female or transgender.

    I don't have a masculine top half really besides that I have big shoulders. Other than that I'm delicate built and with natural D cups so I think it should be ok.
    I'm thinking maybe Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome or 5-Alpha Reductase Deficiency. Either way you should be fine in a topless club. Wear two pairs of panties if you're concerned. I do that anyway, a thong under booty shorts, just as insurance against grabbers and it isn't uncomfortable.

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    I am biologically female and not transgendered at all but I have large shoulders and tiny hips and butt. I don't know what you look like but dancers often come in all shapes, and not every dancer has huge hips. In fact I used to wear padded bottoms on the side to make my hips look bigger.

    Op, if I understand correctly are you male with some female traits? If so then if the clit is a tiny penis (have heard of this)then no nude clubs generally wouldn't hire you.

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    I'd recommend working at a topless club, that way you can keep your bottom covered

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    I would say no. Guys do get really uncontrollable, and grab the privates or come really close too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starling View Post
    Wait a minute, now I don't know much about intersex genetalia. But if you do a search on Google images it shows varying genetalia of varying degrees, some that look more masculine, some feminine, some in between depending on how the indivisual's chromosomes were arranged. Now I can understand what the op is worried about, I don't know what their genitals look like but there are some where it looks like the sex organs do look like a miniature penis with a miniature scrotum and all. If this is the case I can see why the op is worried.

    I think the op should try a topless club and like what toeofthecamel said go to a nude club as a customer to try and compare how the other dancers look.
    No actually my genitals look on a grade of 7 female being 7 and 0 being male looks around a 5. I have a vagina and regular female parts.

    I've looked online at porn photos and medical photos. They don't even seem to have anything but a hole and lips. I look like they do just a bump basically.

    I think it's best to avoid and just go topless plus since I don't have a big butt or wide hips I don't see why a nude club would get me more anyhow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vackra View Post
    I'm thinking maybe Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome or 5-Alpha Reductase Deficiency. Either way you should be fine in a topless club. Wear two pairs of panties if you're concerned. I do that anyway, a thong under booty shorts, just as insurance against grabbers and it isn't uncomfortable.
    grade 5ish pais if I were a genetic male but I have cah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I am biologically female and not transgendered at all but I have large shoulders and tiny hips and butt. I don't know what you look like but dancers often come in all shapes, and not every dancer has huge hips. In fact I used to wear padded bottoms on the side to make my hips look bigger.

    Op, if I understand correctly are you male with some female traits? If so then if the clit is a tiny penis (have heard of this)then no nude clubs generally wouldn't hire you.
    No I am female more than anything I could actually get pregnant. I can't get anyone pregnant.

    I just have a lot of testosterone.



    Mine kind of are straight but girl jeans make the look like they curve so I know they can be enhanced.
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    So then you are a woman? I guess I am missing how because you have slim hips you are less female. Makes no sense. I don't have big hips either and am more muscular than most but am still a woman.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    So then you are a woman? I guess I am missing how because you have slim hips you are less female. Makes no sense. I don't have big hips either and am more muscular than most but am still a woman.
    I'm a woman yes as I identify as a woman. But my genitals have a level of virilization. My hips are narrow and straight but not my biggest issue down there

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    So then you are a woman? I guess I am missing how because you have slim hips you are less female. Makes no sense. I don't have big hips either and am more muscular than most but am still a woman.
    Intersex people identify on various ends of the spectrum. Nicki is saying she is female in that she has XX chromosomes, but high testosterone and somewhat ambiguous genitalia. She's also just trying to express her concern that her narrow hips and broad shoulders may be a red flag to customers that she is intersexed (which it won't be, don't worry).

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    Would crotchless panties work in a nude club? I believe ive seen some that cover up your mons and clitoral area?

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    I feel like crotchless panties would lead to a lot of guys asking "are you going to take those off?". Hell awkward situation to navigate unless your hustle is out of this world.

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    I guess it would depend on how obvious it is, then. Could you possibly rock a patch of pubic hair to cover it? I do from time to time (just cause I get tired of the hardwood floor look), and a handful of other girls do that as well.
    Generally, I'd keep the lips shaved and leave about a trimmed 2 or 3 inch "v" of hair around the mons pubis area. That could help if you wanted to work at a nude club, given that they allow pubic hair.
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    I WOULD HOPE NOT.... this is extremely uncomfortable for male patrons to come to an all nude girls strip club and see a something that looks like a man and might be or ever been one,.... just NO!!! theres this one coworker of mine you can clearly tell she was once a man I meanher face tells it all she looks very draggish because she has to put on tons of make up even then she still looks like a man she got humongous tits and fake huge ass but her pussy looks very much fake and transformed and customes know it and its just not the place to be.

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