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    I wanna become a cam model on MFC or CB and i've talked to my boyfriend about it and he was okay with it but he said do whatever you want except masturbation shows i don't know why. will i make money without doing masturbation shows? and what should i do in private if i can't masturbate?

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    First off, I doubt your boyfriend has really thought this through. Is he okay with you being a phone sex operator? Is he okay with you saying things like "I wish you were here so you could bend me over my bed and fuck me hard" to other men?

    Phone sex might be more lucrative for you if you can't ever touch yourself on cam. You might make some money doing strip countdowns, but most girls make relatively little doing that sort of thing and use it primarily as a way to upsell privates.

    I would personally find it too irritating/stressful to attempt. Guys will be asking for masturbation and expressing their disappointment CONSTANTLY. And many of them will take you to private, take a minute to realize that you're not going to masturbate, and then get really pissed off.






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    Hello!
    I second the phone sex operator idea. Also, make vids and pic sets to sell. There are lots of little ways to make side income here and there.

    I work on SM, and they have a non-nude category. Im not sure how the money is in that dept., but its an option. Also, I see a lot of Goddesses, Mistresses, Femdoms, stuff like that. I hardly see the women in those niches get even completely nude, let alone masturbate. Lets see.. Foot fetish shows, CEI (cum eating instuction) SPH (small penis humiliation), JOI (jerk off instruction). There are lots of other little fetishes too: I have a thigh shaking regular who just loves to watch my thighs jiggle. I had a hand guy who liked it when I made fists with my hand. I have a match guy, I just sit there and strike matches. There's smoking fetishes... the list just goes on. Although these don't even make up half of my income, if you are consistent and motivated, I think it could be possible. Do a lot of research, watch a lot of girls, and yes there are ways to make money without masturbating, but you have to research and find it.

    It will take a while to build a fan base. Try and find a niche and work it.

    Also, How far do you want to take this??
    Do you want to cam full time? DO you want to get the most out of it financially? Do YOU want to masturbate? I know if I didnt masturbate, it would hinder my earnings greatly. But hey, if there's a will, there's a way!

    Oh, one more thing... is he ok with you getting fully nude? and what does he consider masturbation?? I mean I know that sounds silly, but what about, say, deepthroating? Or just sucking on a dildo? Use a vibrator on your clit? Would he be ok with the fetishes and stuff? Find out the things he would be ok with, and start there.

    Good luck with everything!

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    You can do nude shows with joi. That's I primarily do in private shows. There is this one model on SM who does zero masturbation and is a top girl.


    You could also look into more domme style like shows. SPH, CBT, FINDOM, HUMILIATION, ECT


    if not phone sex would be an option.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Elena_ View Post
    I wanna become a cam model on MFC or CB and i've talked to my boyfriend about it and he was okay with it but he said do whatever you want except masturbation shows i don't know why. will i make money without doing masturbation shows? and what should i do in private if i can't masturbate?
    If you really want to cam, be a Dom! You can build a profile stating you DO NOT masturbate for wankers etc. I see a good share of performers who do not masturbate ever being a Dom.
    Also are you allowed to at least go full nude? If so, CB may work for you. Turn off the privates and stay in free. PLay a game that CB has and have guys tip for a tit or puss flash etc. Build up from there to close up pussy show... you know where I am going.

    Many performers don't masturbate on cam, and many do well.
    PS maybe he is jealous you are actually getting off on doing cam if you masturbate, I had a bf like that once.... he was gone!

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    Have you proposed him to do it without you showing your face? you can make money without masturbating but it will probably take you longer to make good cash

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    I usually only do masturbation in private (which I rarely get, usually I do room countdowns to naked or other sexy but not masturbation things). You can definitely still make money, as long as you have a good personality (ex. not sitting there pouting and barely talking).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elena_ View Post
    I wanna become a cam model on MFC or CB and i've talked to my boyfriend about it and he was okay with it but he said do whatever you want except masturbation shows i don't know why. will i make money without doing masturbation shows? and what should i do in private if i can't masturbate?
    On those two sites you mention... I highly doubt you will make much if anything without doing masturbation shows. Those two sites are basically the go to for free public masturbation shows.
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    I have never done masturbation shows, and I have been doing this for years. I've been very successful. You have to see what works for you..and market yourself accordingly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elena_ View Post
    I wanna become a cam model on MFC or CB and i've talked to my boyfriend about it and he was okay with it but he said do whatever you want except masturbation shows i don't know why. will i make money without doing masturbation shows? and what should i do in private if i can't masturbate?
    Countdown to shower show, oil show, lotion show, bubble bath etc, do well in free chat. Though if you want to do primarily privates, no free chat shows, and not masturbate, you are going to have a hard time on both sites. You can try to work the fetish/dom angle but it doesn't work for everyone
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    mfc will probably work better for you, especially if you aren't allowed to do nude. I third the phone sex thing! It'll probably be substantially more lucrative than MFC and definitely more so than CB... ask him about not showing your face and see if he's alright with that.
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    I can see it now you get a private show, and the guy wants to you masturbate and you tell him no my boyfriend won't let me, then next End of private show.

    When I started out was camming and also attempting at being a stripper. I didn't do well stripping so camming was my main source of income. the boyfriend would be over either sitting on a chair or litterally right behind under the covers while I worked.

    if he didn't want me to do masturbation shows I wouldn't make any money plus he would be out the door faster then he could tell me what to do.

    Guys who buy cam shows want to get off in some way, and the majority of request are masturbation shows, then there is a batch who want fetish shows or the ones that want both.

    Realistically it's not going to work if you are restricted from your boyfriend.
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    I agree with this also. My husband said he was okay with it but that did not prepare him at all for the things he could hear in the other room while I was on cam haha. We had to have another long talk about 3 days into it. But now he's completely on board.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sabihah View Post
    First off, I doubt your boyfriend has really thought this through. Is he okay with you being a phone sex operator? Is he okay with you saying things like "I wish you were here so you could bend me over my bed and fuck me hard" to other men?

    Phone sex might be more lucrative for you if you can't ever touch yourself on cam. You might make some money doing strip countdowns, but most girls make relatively little doing that sort of thing and use it primarily as a way to upsell privates.

    I would personally find it too irritating/stressful to attempt. Guys will be asking for masturbation and expressing their disappointment CONSTANTLY. And many of them will take you to private, take a minute to realize that you're not going to masturbate, and then get really pissed off.

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    really? i barely masturbate... i just dance, role-play, blowjobs, play with tits... if you got big boobs that would work great

    or else you could tell your bf that you're not going to masturbate for real, you're just going to pretend... :/
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    Just going to throw in my two cents. If anyone ever told me what I could or couldn't do, even someone I loved and was dating, they'd get a middle finger and a "figure out how to deal". You seem a lot nicer than I am though. A running theme on Stripper Web is a lot of girls whose men were "okay" with it, and then their man gets hella insecure. I've noticed when a guy tells a girl what to do on cam it has to do with his own security/ego/self esteem and nothing with you as a cam model. I would sit down with him and go through all of the various things you may be doing and see what he thinks about them. More importantly, however, ask WHY he is uncomfortable with that specific thing? THEN GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO REASSURE HIM. I see so many women on here get catty and distant with their gentlemen callers when he starts being a dick about camming. My gf (different story with women, but still) is 100% okay with it and has even considered joining at times because I've told her it has to do with making money, my own exhibitionist fantasies, and absolutely nothing about how she doesn't satisfy me or that I want something else. I repeated that for weeks. I'd talk about it a lot. The more you keep it "secret" the more insecure they get. It's like clockwork.

    The real question here has nothing to do with him though, it has to do with what YOU want to do. Do you want to do masturbation shows? Are you comfortable with that? Does that thought turn you on? Over panties? Maybe a masturbation show with no penetration? Full penetration? The very last thing you should do is listen to another person about what you want to do on cam. It's your body first and foremost, and if you let other people tell you what to do on that show, it won't be 100% genuine. This is a time for self discovery, and sometimes you have to separate your idea of "self" as being attached to and needing to consult with an outside source. Make up your mind by yourself first, and then begin those discussions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SaintSlutface View Post
    The very last thing you should do is listen to another person about what you want to do on cam. It's your body first and foremost, and if you let other people tell you what to do on that show, it won't be 100% genuine. This is a time for self discovery, and sometimes you have to separate your idea of "self" as being attached to and needing to consult with an outside source. Make up your mind by yourself first, and then begin those discussions.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SarahTime View Post
    On those two sites you mention... I highly doubt you will make much if anything without doing masturbation shows. Those two sites are basically the go to for free public masturbation shows.
    There are definitely non-nude models that are successful on MFC. But they are usually super charming and conventionally hot, play up the "innocent angle" are creative/play games etc. The ones Im thinking of have camscores like 8k, so I'm sure they are making decent coin. I'm sure it's way harder, but it does happen.


    Also ditto on not letting another person control what you do on cam. I get that people have comfort zones, but unless it's some kind of D/s thing I don't really understand why you can be on cam but can't masturbate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SaintSlutface View Post
    Just going to throw in my two cents. If anyone ever told me what I could or couldn't do, even someone I loved and was dating, they'd get a middle finger and a "figure out how to deal". You seem a lot nicer than I am though. A running theme on Stripper Web is a lot of girls whose men were "okay" with it, and then their man gets hella insecure. I've noticed when a guy tells a girl what to do on cam it has to do with his own security/ego/self esteem and nothing with you as a cam model. I would sit down with him and go through all of the various things you may be doing and see what he thinks about them. More importantly, however, ask WHY he is uncomfortable with that specific thing? THEN GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO REASSURE HIM. I see so many women on here get catty and distant with their gentlemen callers when he starts being a dick about camming. My gf (different story with women, but still) is 100% okay with it and has even considered joining at times because I've told her it has to do with making money, my own exhibitionist fantasies, and absolutely nothing about how she doesn't satisfy me or that I want something else. I repeated that for weeks. I'd talk about it a lot. The more you keep it "secret" the more insecure they get. It's like clockwork.

    The real question here has nothing to do with him though, it has to do with what YOU want to do. Do you want to do masturbation shows? Are you comfortable with that? Does that thought turn you on? Over panties? Maybe a masturbation show with no penetration? Full penetration? The very last thing you should do is listen to another person about what you want to do on cam. It's your body first and foremost, and if you let other people tell you what to do on that show, it won't be 100% genuine. This is a time for self discovery, and sometimes you have to separate your idea of "self" as being attached to and needing to consult with an outside source. Make up your mind by yourself first, and then begin those discussions.

    Yeeeeeeeees. You said that so beautifully. I was going to say pretty much the same, you took the words right out of my head. OP I think whether you do masturbation or not should be 100% up to you.



    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    You can do nude shows with joi.

    You could also look into more domme style like shows. SPH, CBT, FINDOM, HUMILIATION, ECT
    I agree with @Audritwo if you decide not to do masturbation. I mainly do joi and other types of fetish shows as well @Elena_ but non-nude. I stopped doing masturbation/toy shows like 2 years ago and haven't looked back. My decision to stop doing them were for my own reasoning's had absolutely nothing to do with outside influences. Its funny though because guys will ask "why'd you stop doing them, was it because of your boyfriend?". I don't even have one of those lol. Plus I have control issues, so curving my shows for a bf wouldn't happen. I don't let anyone have control over me (unless we're talking about the bedroom. Now that's another story). I wouldn't let anyone get in my way of making money @Elena_. Also they're tons I mean ton's of threads on non-nude camming, nude only camming, etc. Here's some link if you're interested...

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