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    Wish I had thought of this!
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    You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want - Zig Ziglar

    "Be thankful for the troubles of your job. They provide about half your income Robert R. Updegraff



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    Default Re: Findom fun ;)

    Genius. I love it.


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    Default Re: Findom fun ;)

    I do a bit of FinDom work and know someone who makes around $15k a month from it. It's a lot of work and a lot of true doms look down at findoms for what they do. Other findoms will also judge you based on how you manage your clients and business. It's a hard market to break into, especially if you're young.

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    Hey, free shipping!

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    I agree with you! I am a newbie to the findom world and the work is quite hard. I am still learning but lucky for me....Second Life has help me out a lot when it comes to this excellent fetish

    Quote Originally Posted by caramelcraze View Post
    I do a bit of FinDom work and know someone who makes around $15k a month from it. It's a lot of work and a lot of true doms look down at findoms for what they do. Other findoms will also judge you based on how you manage your clients and business. It's a hard market to break into, especially if you're young.

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    Twitter and c4s were what brought me luck. I also had a larger name findom contact me about a fetish I specialize in and we traded tips, though she offered to pay me. super nice lady. I'm not exactly the stereotypical findom looking type which is part of the reason I have a harder time... but eventually I'd love to only be doing this.
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    I agree with you! I am a newbie to the findom world and the work is quite hard. I am still learning but lucky for me....Second Life has help me out a lot when it comes to this excellent fetish

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    Quote Originally Posted by caramelcraze View Post
    I do a bit of FinDom work and know someone who makes around $15k a month from it. It's a lot of work and a lot of true doms look down at findoms for what they do. Other findoms will also judge you based on how you manage your clients and business. It's a hard market to break into, especially if you're young.
    I really dont get why people are putting others/other kind of work, beneath them. Work and let work , its not their bussiness and shoudnt be their problem anyways.
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    BTW i hope it my original post didnt came across as disparaging that wasnt my intension at all
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    The FinDom/Dom community is extremely hard on other FinDoms. I don't get it. Some Doms think it's a comp out just because it's not all latex, whips, and strap-ons... It's mind fucking and mental domination which, though different, is just as much work. Other FinDoms are either very professional, helpful and kind or completely lack any level of professionalism. I had some guy give me a grand when I first started and I posted something about it on twitter ("Look at the loser whose wallet I just thinned!" was about what it said) and it was like the gates of hell opened! Supposedly he was already owned by someone (though I couldn't find it anywhere on his or his owners page), his Dom found out and instead of confronting him, she had the audacity to start a throw down with me publicly on twitter. He was the one who contacted ME and for weeks I got hate mail from her and her other "slaves/paypigs". Finally got her to stop after telling her if she put this much effort into domming, she could actually make some money. It was seriously almost enough to make me quit and definitely took the wind out of my sails.
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    I really dont get why people are putting others/other kind of work, beneath them. Work and let work , its not their bussiness and shoudnt be their problem anyways.
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    Caramel what I am about to say is not directed at you, or anyone in particular, but a point I feel needs to be made.

    You know everyone always talks about how hard traditional dommes are on findoms but I have just as many horror stories about newbs. Girls who DM without so much as a hello, going " teach me how to be a domme" then cussing you out when you refuse or going to your website and copy/pasting whole cloth your words. It happens and it happens often.

    At least some of the reason that dommes in the community are hostile is because many of them have been burned trying to help people. This crap has gone on for years, the community used to be a lot friendlier, but that vibe has been ruined by bad behavior on BOTH side. There are shitty experienced dommes and shitty newbies just as in any profession.

    Dommes pissed that their owned boys are sluts. I can't even be bothered, dump his ass, he's worthless. That said poaching isn't a myth. I see plenty of new girls with no respect for a boy being owned. I saw a newbie say quite plainly she did not care about a guy being owned.

    So this hostility isn't just experienced dommes don't want new dommes to be successful there have been many new dommes, who had crap attitudes.

    I'm not saying there aren't asshole dommes who are rude to nice newbies, but it seems every thread on domination turns into how everyone is mean to newbies, and while I will help anyone,how many times can we rehash that point.
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    ^ Rina I understand completely.

    Personally, I am so grateful places like SW exist, where people are willing to share so much about their work because (as a newbie) I am not entitled to any of this education. If I want to learn? I need to do my damn homework, be grateful to those who do answer my questions, and never ever bite the hand that feeds me. That goes for all aspects of camming & adult work, but moreso WRT dommes owning their guys and findoms being in a difficult-hustle-huge-payoff-niche. It's no wonder newbies are shot down.

    Though I don't understand poor attitudes between established niches. Eg., physical domming vs. psychological domming. Personally feel that "if it's not my business, it's none of my business". If you've got time to hate, that's time you're not a) earning or b) spending money. Both of those activities are much more fun. *big shrug*


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    Rina: I'm not saying newbies aren't a problem. I have witnessed a ton of newbies who either steal content, attempt to take owned slaves, straight up beg other dommes for info, and just being nasty. You're right, there are a lot of problems on both sides.
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    I would agree that FD is alot of work. Personally I've moved away from it somewhat myself because it's draining. I love the highs but the lows are just not fun. I'm on fet and yes you see alot of catty behavior or the "look at all of these fakes and wannabe" complaints. Also I agree with poaching but honestly many men enjoy the attention of several FDs I've seen far too often subs owned subs running around contacting any woman that can give them a rush even if they are 100% broke.

    Even so many aren't even subs. They may be switches or even have a mostly dominant nature.

    Ohh and blackmail I've tried twice but it does nothing for me. I just can't get off to this method of play. I've seen a few men try to get back at Dominas and do the whole cease and desist letter. Pathetic yes but there seems to be no real legal means around this type of play even with a contract.

    Also I like FD mostly with hot subs. Something about making a really cute guy whimper as I wallet rape him just makes me change my panties lol!

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    Oh lord I hate blackmail, too risky and not fun to me. Ugh the only time I touch that is for a fantasy vid. Otherwise forget about it.
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