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    Default Re: Looking into dancing

    Your body is great. You need to get a MAJOR reality check though. This is not a "slumber party atmosphere." This industry will consume the weak and naive and spit them out once it's done with you.

    What you see on here isn't what goes on IRL at the club. Most of the dancers on here are not the industry standards. But you'll see that for yourself if you decide to start. Almost everyone I've had the privilege of calling my friend IRL is sensible and sane. This job also attracts the worst of the worst. Drug addicts, head cases, daddy issues you name it.

    If you came up to one of them trying to be your friend they'd try to either sabotage you or suck you down with them. Most of the decent ones will just look at you funny and tell you to piss off.

    My advice is to toss your rose-colored glasses NOW.
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    Go for it. You have a great body. I did cheerleading in HS and started at 19. It definitely helped. Best advice I can give you is don't speak unless spoken to. Keep your head down and make your money. Don't go in there trying to make friends..they will laugh at you.

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    Default Re: Looking into dancing

    If you want to be a dancer your focus needs to be solely on making $$$. A strip club is NOT the place to try and make friends.

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    If you want to make some friends in your area, try messaging some of the other girls on this site after you've been here for a whille. Do not go looking for friends IRL in the strip club. If you make some slowly over time, great, but watch your back and be more cautious because even in the nicest club someone will be looking for an easy target to take advantage of. Take some more time to read around the site, and then go audition! You have a very positive attitude which is good! I wish you all the best
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    Default Re: Looking into dancing

    Thanks for the tips girls. What I meant by slumber party atmosphere was THIS SITE!! Not in the club! I've seen some chat disscusions going on and a lot of posts where it seems like one big group of girls having a good time. That's what I meant by that I know that could be confusing since I started off talking about other dancers. But awesome tips..

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    Default Re: Looking into dancing

    I'm reading all of these comments and just thinking, "THESE ARE PRISON RULES, BIATCH!"

    Hahahahahaha

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    Default Re: Looking into dancing

    some strippers actually do judge other girls for being "sluts", "prostitutes" etc. who is "dirtier" than who,who did porn or escorted on the side, who talked to another girl's bf, etc. its pretty ridiculous, but it happens. there are ALL KINDS in the clubs.
    when you are a newbie, be nice to everyone but trust no one. don't give anybody personal info. don't talk about any of the other girls behind their backs to anybody. word gets around.

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    Best advice I can give to you (and this goes to vets going to new clubs): Eyes and ears open, mouth shut, tits and ass out.
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    Default Re: Looking into dancing

    Reality check:
    1. The other dancers aren't your friends, they are your business competition. I will swipe another girl's regular if I even see a hint of an opening. No mercy. I don't have anything against her, but I'm there to make money.
    2. Your boyfriend will think it's cool you are a dancer. For a minute. Then he is going to want you to quit and go flip burgers or he is going to dump you. He'll probably dump you anyway, but not until he has slept with a few of your co-workers.
    3. You will lose all of your vanilla friends. Especially at your age. Your family may not disown you, but they will make you feel like shit if they know what you do for a living. You think your friends are prudish now, they will lose their shit when they find out you are the devil incarnate.

    Stripping is hard, isolating work. You have a great figure, and will probably make a lot of money. You will do well if you have mental toughness. The strippers who are the most successful in the biz suffered as kids. They became tough and independent early on.

    You'll know within the first three months if you have the toughness to stick it out through college. I've seen plenty of girls who couldn't make it through a whole shift. Most are gone within the first few months though.

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