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    I'm going to Spain to work for minimum a month. I already contacted the owner and he pretty much hired me. A friend of mine went there a few weeks ago and had an amazing time. She's Spanish and they only like to hire English girls but she went there anyway and they hired on her ass alone (lol). On Sunday, we met this girl at our club who we became friendly with and my friend was telling us how good it was. Now the girl wants to come which was great so I told her to contact the owner. But now he's said she doesn't really fit with the style of the club but she had already booked her ticket so she said she'd do what my friend did.
    We're arriving the same day and time and she wants to come with me when I go meet the owner. Do you think this will hurt my chances or will be awkward?

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    Default Re: I have a little problem.

    don't go and apply places with a friend who isn't already hired. yes, it can hurt your chances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    don't go and apply places with a friend who isn't already hired. yes, it can hurt your chances.
    how do I tell her? they've already told me yes and are providing my accommodation
    she seems to be grasping onto me and holding on with dear life tbh. i think she thinks i'm her only way in but i dont want her to be my way out!

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    well, does she know that he said she wasn't going to work out in their club? she should have checked before booking the ticket. i would just tell her that the manager wanted you to come in early, and just go without her! if they already hired you, its just going to be awkward for her when they turn her down and tell you to stay

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    yeah she's the one who told me he said no. she's arriving earlier than me so i might just say that it'll be better for her to go before me? this whole situation is so awkward and her pushing for us to go together is making it even more awkward

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    Default Re: I have a little problem.

    I would say that the manager told you he wants to see you guys separately, since he's already hired you and she hasn't been hired. Just say he wants to give you a tour of club, explain the rules, etc and it will be easier for him to do that with you alone since she may have to do an audition. Or you can be just really honest if you're never going to see her again. Say you're sorry but you've invested a lot of time/money into this trip and the job is really important to you and you think it would be better if you guys go alone, maybe give her some recommendations of other clubs to try so she won't be clinging to this one so much. She sounds like a bit of an idiot, if I was going to book a trip to dance the FIRST thing I would do is make sure I had a place to work, unless I was really OK with just enjoying my time there.

    But yeah, definitely don't go with a friend unless you're 100% sure she'll get hired. I've seen a lot of girls come in groups to London auditions and one girl is pretty, good on the pole, etc and and another isn't so much or they just don't want to take on more than one girl and the managers just end up saying no thanks because it's too awkward/too much effort to have to deal with hiring one girl.

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    Thanks! That's a good idea I might try that.

    I think she's just not used to being turned down? I don't know. She's very pretty with a nice body and really big (fake) boobs but she is very glamourous and obviously had a lot of plastic surgery and I think they like the girl next door look more.
    Tbh I didn't think she'd have a problem either since she's black too and they seem to have a shortage of us there.

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    Default Re: I have a little problem.

    I take it she realizes her changes of getting hired are pretty slim and has latched on to you in hopes that you're being hired will influence the manager to hire her. Definitely tell her to go before you -- at the very least, this gives her more opportunity to try out other clubs (if there are any nearby) so she can still work while she's in Spain. Try presenting it in a way that there's no sense in her wasting a day and waiting for you when she could get hired right away, be it at your club or somewhere else.

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    Well I told her she should go earlier than me and that the owner wants to show me around the club. I hope she gets the hint that it will be awkward if he wants to show me around when she's there and hasn't been hired. :/
    She arrives the same day as me just a few hours before and her plan was to wait for me to arrive and go together so I hope she doesn't disregard what I say and just wait for me anyway because I definitely would not know how to shake her off!

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    If it was me I'd be changing my flight to get there the day before her so there was no chance she could come in with me when I first showed up!
    Is the manager a nice guy? Can you warn him that she's booked her flight without being hired and you don't know how to get rid of her? Otherwise if you show up together he might think that you told her to come with you and he might think of you as a troublemaker from the start.

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    Default Re: I have a little problem.

    I should have done that from the start tbh! I have no idea if the manager is nice or not. He seems fine on FB/on the phone. I dont want to cause drama by telling him anything. But maybe you are right. I just dont want to bother him with some stupid girl drama lol.

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    It sounds to me like this girl is going to create drama from the minute she arrives, and I would do everything possible to make sure you're not part of it. Change your flight if you can, or just tell her that you don't want to go in together as the manager has asked to see you alone.
    Girls like this don't tend to 'get the hint', she's probably relying on your good nature to help get her what she wants. I imagine she thinks that if she shows up with you, the manager won't turn her away.

    I've had more than one stripper fuck a sale up for me by telling a customer that wanted just me that "we come as a package or not at all".
    This girl could easily try pulling that on the manager and he might decide you're not worth the potential trouble.

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    Unfortunately changing my flight isn't really an option so I'm just gonna have to wait for her reply to me saying that we should go separately and hope for the best. If she's at the airport I'll just try to ignore her/run away. I don't know. I hope the airport is big there!

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    Tell her to go audition at another club. She sounds like a real pain in the ass and doesn't understand no and she can ruin it for you. Of course that is a good trait for a stripper trying to hustle for money

    BTW, I have stripped in Spain (Marbella) and it can be fun but also realize that strippers in Spain are also often expected to provide extras so if you don't do your homework and know enough about the club your going to be working in you may find yourself in a foreign country in a compromised position and forced into doing things you are not comfortable doing. It happened to me in Japan when I stripped there. What club in Spain will you be working at? PM me if you want to discuss.

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    Tell her to go audition at another club. She sounds like a real pain in the ass and doesn't understand no and she can ruin it for you. Of course that is a good trait for a stripper trying to hustle for money

    BTW, I have stripped in Spain (Marbella) and it can be fun but also realize that strippers in Spain are also often expected to provide extras so if you don't do your homework and know enough about the club your going to be working in you may find yourself in a foreign country in a compromised position and forced into doing things you are not comfortable doing. It happened to me in Japan when I stripped there. What club in Spain will you be working at? PM me if you want to discuss.

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    Default Re: I have a little problem.

    I'm going to be working in Magaluf, in Pure. It's British owned (so no sleazy Spanish owners) and when I contacted them they made it very clear that extras were not allowed and that there were cameras in the booths.

    How was Marbella??

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    Near Mallorca, nice area, BTW you probably already street smart but they will say anything to get a girl down there especially if you are really attractive. The Brits are just as bad, don't be fooled by the accent. Are you signing a contract and are they paying your airfare and providing you with housing via a payback scheme?

    Marbella is the place many rich men from around the world go there so good money and beautiful place to hang out and have fun.

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    BTW, a quick search turned up some interesting info about Pure:

    "I have just got back from a stag weekend and have also been fleeced by the lapdance bar called pure, mine was for just over £2000 and I am devastated. I have been to many of these establishments all over the world and never had or even heard of anything like this before, speaking to alot of the locals there most of them know this is a regular occourance but these crooks are very clever and know all the loopholes in the system, it turns out that pure lapdance bar is owned by the same people who own eastemders bar and there is a few of them in partnership so please if anyone is going to magalluf really be carefull in the lapdance bars espessially this one and warn as many people as possible."

    Here is the link: http://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowTopic...c_Islands.html

    Just be careful, you are almost better going with the pain in the ass friend rather than alone. I know from experience.

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    Yeah I know all about Pure tbh. My friend went there and told me all about it. Every girl that I've talked to either about Pure or stripping in Magaluf in general all had good things to say about Pure. They do seem to be very strict on extras and even guys touching you so I'm not really worried. I paid for my airfare and I have to pay rent but it's deducted from wages. They own a lot of the apartment buildings there anyway so if I did it independently I'd probably end up in one of their buildings regardless.

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    FYI, they will ask you to give them your passport, they will say it is required for employment by Spanish Law, rules and regulations. Don't give them your passport even if they insist on it.

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    Default Re: I have a little problem.

    Why not?

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    ^I think she means don't let them keep
    your passport while you're there? Not sure how you can get away working anywhere in the EU without showing them a passport..

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    You need a work permit to work in Spain or anywhere else in the EU so even with a passport you can't work but no one is going to come in and arrest you so don't worry about the work permit issue. They take your passport to make it hard for you to get around and leave, they did it to me in Japan and they tried it in Spain. Imagine, illegal sex worker in Spain without an id asking for help from the authorities to get to the American Embassy on the mainland for a new passport to get out of the country a very compromised position to be in.

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    If you have an EU passport (I have a British passport) you don't need a work permit to work in Spain. It's all legal. They use the information in my passport to put in the contract. If anything, I'm bringing my other passport if anything happens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StripperSierra View Post
    You need a work permit to work in Spain or anywhere else in the EU so even with a passport you can't work but no one is going to come in and arrest you so don't worry about the work permit issue. They take your passport to make it hard for you to get around and leave, they did it to me in Japan and they tried it in Spain. Imagine, illegal sex worker in Spain without an id asking for help from the authorities to get to the American Embassy on the mainland for a new passport to get out of the country a very compromised position to be in.
    If you have a British passport you can work in Spain... the UK is part of the EU so if you are British you can work anywhere you want in the EU (and I know newb has like a collection of passports, like 4 or something, lol!).

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