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    Default So sad. Lost my $1000 customer :(

    Aww guys I guess I'm just sad, but it was bound to happen eventually. Regulars can't stay yours forever.

    I have a customer that comes in regularly and will stay the whole night and make it rain on every set. He throws a couple hundred on me and on good days he'll throw $1000. He was great, super respectful, didn't drink, and just an awesome nice guy. Never asked to meet outside the club, understood I'm there to make my money. The problem is, he is too nice and too understanding and will tip any girl that comes up to him and starts shaking her ass on him. He does this because he "respects the hustle." He likes to come on slow nights so this usually isn't a problem but last night was crazy busy and the girls figured out he would put like $20 worth of singles on them if they go to him. But usually they left after one time. One girl wouldn't get the hint last night and she was very thirsty with him, even as I have my leg on his lap and he tells her he's with me. I finally had to give her "the look" and she got the hint and went away for a little bit, but then she came back full force. He likes me because I don't drink and I'm nice and not ratchet but man I have never wanted to beat a bitch down so bad. If it had been any other customer, I would've set some rules, but I didn't feel like showing my bitch stripper side to him just because he is so sweet. This is the same girl that comes up to customers while I'm sitting on their lap and shakes her ass for dollars. Last night I was with a customer who tipped me around $50 worth of singles for just sitting there and she started dancing on him for about 10 minutes and finally made him get a lap dance on his credit card. He was so drunk and I don't drink and I don't mind she got the dance out of him, because I'd made more money just sitting there. But while I'm sitting on him? Really?

    Anyways, my customer had come with his boys last night and they invited some of us to go eat after work. I had to be up at 8 today and today I'm working a double shift so I couldn't go, but also I don't like meeting customers outside the club because I feel like it makes it more difficult for them to spend money on you in the club. By this time the lights were on and I was already dressed so I was talking to him at the bar waiting for my ride and she comes up and starts shaking her ass on him, WHILE THE LIGHTS ARE ON. He gives her some dollars and she tries to talk to him, but I'm trying to say my goodbyes so she leaves.

    I said bye to my customer but I noticed he was waiting outside the club and he usually goes straight to the car. And I just have this gut feeling you know? I was almost tempted to just give my ride the $20 and go out to eat with them, but I figured what's the point. I'm a little sad while I may have walked out with over a grand last night, I have a feeling that's the last time I'll be walking out with over a grand from him.

    Oh well. This just means it's time to find some new people to throw money on me

    The hate was real on me last night too. Had a girl try to pick a fight with me again and steal my customers but jokes on her because they were already drunk and had thrown all their money on me earlier :]
    This is why I don't drink at work. Because it makes me more aware of what's going on and I can observe how people act. Also it helps to be sober when the drunk girl is complaining to the manager about you and he knows you don't drink and keep to yourself.

    When I first started working at this club, all of the girls were so nice and sweet to me. They thought because I was quiet I wasn't a threat. But now that they see the money I'm making, their behavior towards me has flipped around completely. Oh well, that's how I know I've finally become a good stripper. [:

    Edit* So just spoke with my customer. The girl last night was trying to hustle him for extras and had the nerve to ask him to make it rain on her on stage, while I was sitting next to him. Knowing this, I guess I'm gonna have to speak up next time. *Sigh* I hate when I have to get ratchet, but unless I speak up, it's going to keep happening. Good news is my customer is still coming to see me
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    Default Re: So sad. Lost my $1000 customer :(

    Just because some other girl is trying to earn money off of him doesn't mean you lost him? It sounds more like you're just pissed at this ratchet girl as opposed to you losing a customer. If he likes you, he will spend money on you... No one else can change that.

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    Default Re: So sad. Lost my $1000 customer :(

    If he's a genuinely nice guy, he was probably just trying to be polite towards this girl and instead of being rude and possibly making it really awkward for her. She sounds super aggressive and like she doesn't take a hint when she's not wanted. Although some girls DO get the point, don't care, and will do whatever they have to to get a dollar. Ugh.

    I think it was really smart of you not to go all stripper bitch in this situation. Doing something like THAT in front of this guy could have been much more detrimental to your relationship with him than some annoying bitch putting a damper on ONE night.

    I guess if it happens again though either you or your customer will have to speak up.
    This happened a couple times with me recently with one of my regulars and a girl who resembles me but is much heavier. It was actually him who eventually excused US from her presence to go in VIP. Now when he comes in, if she gets to him before I do, he tells her he's waiting for me

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    Default Re: So sad. Lost my $1000 customer :(

    I suggest taking him straight to VIP when he walks in. It sounds so tacky to read about this scene. I mean you're talking to someone and someone just walks up and shakes their ass? That must look ridiculous lol.

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    Default Re: So sad. Lost my $1000 customer :(

    Quote Originally Posted by ~*SwanPrincess*~ View Post

    I think it was really smart of you not to go all stripper bitch in this situation. Doing something like THAT in front of this guy could have been much more detrimental to your relationship with him than some annoying bitch putting a damper on ONE night.
    Exactly! Quickest way to lose a regular is to become possessive. You handled it well. I've had had jump in front of me with regulars, talk shit, come up and whisper something in their ear, corner them when they were leaving the bathroom, and it just makes them look so silly and desperate, TOTAL turnoff for the customer.

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    Default Re: So sad. Lost my $1000 customer :(

    Hey guys thanks so much for your valid points. I'm not sure why on earth I thought I lost him. I was just probably uber paranoid this morning. It's hard not to worry when you have a customer like that. I'm not sure why I didn't mention it in my original post but I think I had a feeling she was going to hang out with them after because she was whispering stuff in his ear before she left and I actually think she tried to give him her number. After he told me about the extras it all made sense. He's not that type of guy though. He doesn't even do lapdances, he'd rather just hand me the money.

    Unfortunately, the dynamics of urban clubs tend to be very different than other clubs. It's actually more common than you'd think for girl's to step into another girl's territory. All of the top earners at my club have "don't fuck with me" attitudes and girls don't touch their money. And they've definitely all been in fights. Then you have girls like me who make money but don't defend it really well and get stepped on easily. Most customers at these clubs are okay with aggressive girls who assert themselves. But my customer isn't like those customers and the reason we click so well is because I'm not like those girls either.

    I'm glad to know I did the right thing by holding my tongue. I wish we had a VIP room at this club but customers come to this club to show off. I'm just not sure what I'm gonna do next time he comes in. I don't want to say anything but he is too nice to say it. I was talking to him earlier today and he apologized for not being able to give me the usual amount of attention and said how he didn't like how thirsty the girls were last night. So it's not like he enjoyed the attention. *sigh* we are both pushovers lol. Do you ladies have anything to suggest I say to him next time he comes in to set some boundaries with other girls. Because "I'm here for Barbie" doesn't work at clubs like this. I don't want totell him not to tip the ladies but there has to be some sort of limit lol.

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    Honestly, you just want money right? Who cares if he gives you attention as long as he's tipping you onstage. If he only tips them a little bit or says "sorry I'm all out of cash" I'm sure they'll move on to another customer, they're not going to waste their time, by tipping them he's rewarding their behavior and increasing the likelihood that they're going to pounce on him. He needs to grow some balls and be a little more assertive with his money. If he doesn't want to draw attention to the fact that he's spending I guess he could also just hand it to you instead of throwing it on the stage.

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    BarbieNYC, I would toss a couple of backhanded insults at the girl. Something like, "I like you. You're really funny! But you know, looks aren't everything." Before she even knows what you are saying, she's thanking you for the compliment. When she finally catches the insult, the only way she can save face is to leave, 'cause she already thanked you, LOLOLOLOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BarbieNYC View Post
    I have a customer that comes in regularly and will stay the whole night and make it rain on every set. He throws a couple hundred on me and on good days he'll throw $1000.
    That sucks I know those feels. I used to have a decent regular like that too. Used to make it rain on every one of my sets. I think mine got tired and went to another club after a while.

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    If she does this again, pull her aside towards the end of the night when all of the customers are gone and tell her to have some fkn manners and etiquette. I hate rude cut throat bitches. Always put them in their place and tell the manager. Don't stay quiet about it!! It's unacceptable behavior.

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