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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    No not really. They can go out for hamburger but they always come back to the steak.
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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Nah it just means I didn't get to him soon enough. He's fair game. He can like any other girl he wants, and if he's there for me, he should say so. The only problem I have is when they DO say they're waiting on me but the girl doesn't take no for an answer and drags them by the arm to the LD. I find that pretty rude.

    I've never had an issue with another girl completely wiping em out though, I always get my money

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    I don't think any girl LIKES their regular spending money on another girl, but the quickest way to lose a regular is by being possessive.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Only problem I will have is my regular and not the dancers. Dancers are there to work just like myself, they are doing exactly what I would be doing when I see a new guy walks in. I get annoyed when my regular calls/texts and tell you that he is coming in to see you but too much of pussy to say no to other girls. I can't blame the girls doing their job.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Regulars have a shelf life.
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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    I know I shouldn't, but I do get pissy if my regular spends on other girls.
    I have no problem with a friend joining us and getting paid, but I do get quite annoyed if I hear he's gone in to the club when I'm not there and paid another girl, one girl from my old club in particular. I fucking hated her, and he thought she was just the cutest thing ever.
    Stupid, I know, but I don't like it!
    I would never tell him though, I'm always like "Oh, you came in and had dances with her? Yes, i think it's great that she copies my music, outfits and hair! That's so awesome! She's cute isn't she?!"

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Only when it's on certain, dirty girls because they speed up the shelf life of them as my regular by opening their eyes to what other services can be provided in the club. Like Audrey said though, being possessive isn't a good look so I never let them know how I feel. Otherwise, I quite like when customers spend a nice amount on a few girls since everyone making money really improves the atmosphere in the club -- ie. girls aren't vultures pouncing onto customers as they're sitting down. I share a few regulars with other dancers and it's also convenient when there are other customers in the club, because I don't feel like I'm ignoring/neglecting them if the other dancer gets to him first.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    of course i care, but there's not much i can do about it when that happens. i'm not going to go into the dressing room and badmouth the girl, of get all huffy with my regular, but its obviously not something i'm thrilled about

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    This is gonna sound terrible, but I obviously want to make as much money as I can off of my regulars. However, I understand that they may tip other girls, want double dances, etc. I think if the girl respects that this is my customer and doesn't try to be sneaky about things, then I'm less bothered by it. If it's a dancer (or waitress in my recent cases) that is intentionally trying to screw me out of money from my customer by offering extras and whatnot...that's not cool.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    I have one particular regular who needs SO MUCH ATTENTION, it's not uncommon for him to be taking care of 4-5 girls @ the same time each time he visits -- and if he's in a bad mood, he gets stingy and pissed off if you try to leave the table and work the floor -- so I'm all too happy to share the wealth.. the more girls there are to stroke his ego, the less I have to.
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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    If he's come in on a day when I specifically told him that I'm working, or we made arrangements to meet and he is sitting with another girl when I come in, then yes, I will be very annoyed. (Although I won't show it.) If I run into him by random chance? Well, of course I'd like to be the one to take all his money, but I can't really get upset. Not like he knew any better.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Nope, I don't care as long as he keeps spending money on me. If he stops, then he's not a regular anymore. It happens.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Most of the time I don't care, I've even encouraged it. But I did get really pissy once after one of my regulars danced with a known extras girl. I think it just depends on the type of relationship you have with that particular regular and the type of girl he is dancing with.

    And a word of advice if you do get jealous: Don't throw a fit about it (like I did). I think that part turned off my regular more than the fact that the other girl offered him a menu. On other occasions I've :hinted: that I was jealous to my other regulars and they got a little kick out of it, thinking they were all special and shit.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Depends on how good of a regular and how much money he's spending but I never show I am upset, even if I am.

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    I usually encourage them to spend something. It's better to throw meat to the dogs than to have them come sniffing around. He just better remember who is #1 bitch though.
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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    I would be upset if he spent money/time on her that was supposed to be for me. I guess it depends on the situation. Lots of times it's cute when the girl thinks she's really done something getting $20. from another girls' regular.

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    It depends on the girl. If she's a great dancer, looks good, friendly and isn't cut throat, I can't be mad at her for doing her job. But if it's a sleazy girl who may just be doing it to be spiteful, then yeah I'll get upset. The whole thing actually has a lot of factors lol. But I make my presence known without seeming like I own him, most girls know when another girl has a regular therefore he is off certain limits. Sometimes regulars get bored of your shit and want something new, of course they won't tell you this and in that situation you can't get mad at all.
    The lack of money is the root of all evil. -Mark Twain

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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Nope. Not at all. The fundamental thing about men is they like varied visual stimulus, so I expect they're going to go to another few girls as well, as long as they come back or at least say hi when they're on I don't mind. To be completely honest, the guys who ONLY WANT YOU kind of creep me out. Crazy or obsessive or the kind who like "break up" with you as their fave. I'm like...how many times do you masturbate? Come to me sometimes too? It would be an interesting poll to see if most people who watch cams have one girls or a few they see regularly!
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    Default Re: Do you care if your regular spends money on other girls?

    Nope, never. His money: he decides how to spend it. There's always more customers.





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