







Ok so based on your last post I have to say that it doesn't matter if you meet them in the hotel bar or the bar across the street and walk in with them, we knooooow, or at least sense. Also VERY few men will go for the meet first, you put the money in your car and walk in alone because you could just drive away and rip them off, eek!
Men VERY rarely will actually trust you, at least not on first meeting, just like you shouldn't trust them!!
I understand that all this cloak and dagger is to make you feel comfortable, but youre settin yourself up to be seen as "more trouble than you're worth."
Yes, you need to stay in your boundaries but you ALSO need to take a deep breath suck it up and get over your FEAR if you're going to do this and succeed.
If you screen properly the chances of getting a psycho are super minimal.
Make it SIMPLE for them, horney men get confused and give up when things get too complicated.
Advertise
Screen
Show up
Get your money
Let things progress naturally
There is no need to sit down for 15 minutes discussing every move you're going to make an everything he wants.
They will let you know more naturally then that. Offer you a glass of wine or mate a shoulder rub. He might just say "is it ok if we..." If your rates are an all inclusive hourly then there is no need to negotiate. If it's something you dot want to do just tell him so firmly and offer an alternative sweetly. Most guys understand that you're a human being with boundaries.
Keep it simple. Keep it classy. You'll be fine.



You're right Arialandre! I am doing the most right now. lol. Thanks




Likely you've figured it out already, by yeah, lots of guys would be on high alert if they gave you an envelope in the bar then saw you heading towards your car... Do however hide your $ after you get it, it isn't unheard of for dudes to take it... Most are honorable appreciative gentlemen, but there are a few that will take advantage if given the opportunity.
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I don't know what it is about me that says "wife me up." Everyone wants to choke me or date me. Or both. This job is weird.
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... Kittens are assholes but they're just so darn cute.



Any of you guys concerned about hidden cameras being in the room? I know this is done often- judging from the pornos I've seen.
I was thinking of buying a video camera detection device to scan the room upon entering. And yes, I know it will be quite awkward to do this when I arrive but I don't care. If he has nothing to hide, the client will deal. Its not worth my future vanilla career.
Any of you ever been recorded during your session without your consent of heard of it happening?
It's not common, but it does happen. There are 3 guys in my city who are known to do it. They usually get the inexperienced ladies.
Your solution sounds genius! Gee, I wonder why no one does that? It sounds like you have everything figured out from watching TV shows and porn. You obviously know a lot more about escorting than many of the ladies here with years of experience, so why are you asking for advice?



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