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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    Sounds like a very loving group. If only more churches could be like that.

    I would think a place like that would even welcome a homeless, penniless carpenter!




    (I've always thought to myself if a modern-day man who was exactly like Jesus was in his day walked into most of today's churches he'd be thrown out for being disrespectfully dressed and having no money.)

    WOW you are making me smile Laurielegs Yeah, what difference do clothes make really??

    Yes, it was a rare beautiful place. Absolutely more churches should be this way. If they were, Id be a member of a new 1 right now.

    Oh yes,they have that covered too! lol They welcome the penniless as well. They had bought a closed school building next door, remodeled it, and house displaced people/families/ abused women & their kids. It was very organized and safe. Also, in the basement of the church they feed the hungry on certain days. There was a come as you are policy, even if it was jeans and tennis shoes.....which as teenagers we took full advantage of. lol (no judgment there). :-)

    This church certainly had its issues as well. However, I think the key was the congregation had no problem putting their foot down and meeting often to come to realistic solutions. They know their income pays the bills, so they aren't going to just be told,hand over their money, and curl in a corner. In this case, they made things happen in a very positive way for others.




    ----This just made me realize how much I miss that place. Geez.
    Its crazy Ive written all this, because I swear Im not a Bible thumper. A lot of those people are actually hypocrites. Its sad the bad out number the good with people, in general it seems. I struggle with trusting people myself (esp. MEN). It's the fear of past hurt, or in the case of churches- rejection.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mare View Post
    i get the isolation part. I'm not a christian person, so maybe i don't qualify to answer in this thread. But i feel if you're honest like you want to be you could be shooting yourself in the foot. They might accept it to your face, but not behind your back. You will attract the types of false christian men who are there to meet nice women, but are total pervs.
    My suggestion is don't tell on yourself. If you need to tell someone go to a therapist or go to another church and confess/talk to the priest/minister. Enjoy going to a place where you can enjoy the environment. Most likely they won't find out. But dating from there would be a no-no. You would have to explain it at that point.
    good suggestion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    I am so isolated with this work, and don't really like being out in the world as much as I used to, so I really want to get involved with a spiritually based community.. Besides, it is a black church, and my first husband was black, so I feel more comfortable in the black community.
    I think you should get involved with another organization whether its this one or a different one. Being inside all day IMO can literally make someone mentally ill. Or trigger that. Its not healthy at all- humans are social beings by nature. So I think this is a good thing for you.

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    I'm not a religious person, but I have studies religion since I was a very young girl. I was raised Catholic and since then have thoroughly researched different religions. I think your best bet is to try a non-Christian church. Have you any Universal Unitarian churches where you live? UUs are all kinds of religions from Buddhist to Christian to Atheist centered under a core belief of all-inclusiveness. There are also, as Sab said, very inclusive churches that accept LGBT people. However, being LGBT is not even in the same ballpark as showing your body off for money. The most morally upstanding gay man won't be any different than a straight Christian. Being gay doesn't ice over the very anti-porn stance of the Christian church. You may be able to find some wonderful United Methodist churches that wouldn't care as long as you don't mention it. HOWEVER, you go to church to get YOUR religion on, not to fit in with the community that goes to that church.
    The issue with Christianity only is that the bible is pretty damn firm about "whores", which we are no matter how you'd like to icing coat it. A nice old lady is really a nice old lady until she becomes a mean old trying to convert and shame you lady. I understand the importance of Christian values to some people, I understand wanting to follow a religion you're comfortable with, but there is a point where you are going to have to answer some serious questions about yourself: Why did you start camming if it's pretty far from your chosen religion's moral code? If you have shame and fear to be exposed to your religious peers, is it your choices or their judgement you are afraid of? Are you only looking to Christianity because you're comfortable and used to it?
    The girls I see who talk about their experience in the adult industry that left a bad taste in their mouth are girls who don't follow their OWN values and let the outer world define them.
    Remember Jesus only accepted Mary Magdalene because she was no longer a prostitute after he influenced her.
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    GR^^^ Agree 100% ! I'm mentally ill from being inside so much. I'm sleep deprived, as well, because of noisy neighbors, but that situation has been resolved as of 2 days ago.
    Due to some funky weather recently, going outside just wasn't doable.
    The last time I felt like this, I was living in Palm Springs, during the summer, where it was over 110 all day, everyday. Nobody could go out, and I felt crazy, and had major cabin fever.
    I'm used to very cold temps, and temperate weather, so that was just awful!
    I just applied for another vanilla sales job, so I'm determined to step away from the 10-12 hours I cam ever day, just to make my high bills.

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    My question is, why do you feel the need to tell the entire congregation? Do you feel like cam girls are branded with a scarlet letter that will just be obvious to everyone? Do you personally feel like you are doing something wrong? That was more than one question, sorry lol.
    Try looking at it this way (this is my own viewpoint on the matter)- Take a look at the 10 Commandments (here's a link for your convenience http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/...0&version=NASB). Are you keeping them? If you aren't, does that even actually have anything to do with your job? Personally, I feel that I am not breaking the Commandments with my work, with the exception of not keeping the Sabbath maybe. I don't murder my customers, I don't lie to them beyond what is required for my safety, I don't steal from them, I am not an adulterer, etc. And so on and so on. My conscience is clear, because I operate as ethically as possible. So with this line of thinking, I really don't feel a great conflict between my Christian beliefs and the nature of my work. But I totally had this debate with myself before.
    Keepin' it real, though, no, I don't expect most clergy to approve of our work or agree that it's compatible with Scripture. But not approving and nastily judging you are two different things. You should never put up with the latter, no matter who is doing the judging. I say go to the church you want to go to, and don't let rude, judgmental people (if there are any! hopefully there won't be) chase you away from Him. It also sounds like this particular minister will be kind to you. If you must tell someone what you do, tell her only. You don't need to tell others if you don't want to.
    People can be surprising. Even my very religious grandparents-in-law know what I do, and they didn't change their treatment of me whatsoever. They are as kind to me as they ever were and would never look down on me. There are genuine, good people out there and I hope that's who you meet!
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    My question is, why do you feel the need to tell the entire congregation? Do you feel like cam girls are branded with a scarlet letter that will just be obvious to everyone? Do you personally feel like you are doing something wrong? That was more than one question, sorry lol.

    Try looking at it this way (this is my own viewpoint on the matter)- Take a look at the 10 Commandments (here's a link for your convenience http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/...0&version=NASB). Are you keeping them? If you aren't, does that even actually have anything to do with your job? Personally, I feel that I am not breaking the Commandments with my work, with the exception of not keeping the Sabbath maybe. I don't murder my customers, I don't lie to them beyond what is required for my safety, I don't steal from them, I am not an adulterer, etc. And so on and so on. My conscience is clear, because I operate as ethically as possible. So with this line of thinking, I really don't feel a great conflict between my Christian beliefs and the nature of my work. But I totally had this debate with myself before.

    Keepin' it real, though, no, I don't expect most clergy to approve of our work or agree that it's compatible with Scripture. But not approving and nastily judging you are two different things. You should never put up with the latter, no matter who is doing the judging. I say go to the church you want to go to, and don't let rude, judgmental people (if there are any! hopefully there won't be) chase you away from Him. It also sounds like this particular minister will be kind to you. If you must tell someone what you do, tell her only. You don't need to tell others if you don't want to.
    People can be surprising. Even my very religious grandparents-in-law know what I do, and they didn't change their treatment of me whatsoever. They are as kind to me as they ever were and would never look down on me. There are genuine, good people out there and I hope that's who you meet!
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    Quote Originally Posted by KimKlass View Post
    My question is, why do you feel the need to tell the entire congregation? Do you feel like cam girls are branded with a scarlet letter that will just be obvious to everyone? Do you personally feel like you are doing something wrong? That was more than one question, sorry lol.
    Try looking at it this way (this is my own viewpoint on the matter)- Take a look at the 10 Commandments (here's a link for your convenience http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/...0&version=NASB). Are you keeping them? If you aren't, does that even actually have anything to do with your job? Personally, I feel that I am not breaking the Commandments with my work, with the exception of not keeping the Sabbath maybe. I don't murder my customers, I don't lie to them beyond what is required for my safety, I don't steal from them, I am not an adulterer, etc. And so on and so on. My conscience is clear, because I operate as ethically as possible. So with this line of thinking, I really don't feel a great conflict between my Christian beliefs and the nature of my work. But I totally had this debate with myself before.
    Keepin' it real, though, no, I don't expect most clergy to approve of our work or agree that it's compatible with Scripture. But not approving and nastily judging you are two different things. You should never put up with the latter, no matter who is doing the judging. I say go to the church you want to go to, and don't let rude, judgmental people (if there are any! hopefully there won't be) chase you away from Him. It also sounds like this particular minister will be kind to you. If you must tell someone what you do, tell her only. You don't need to tell others if you don't want to.
    People can be surprising. Even my very religious grandparents-in-law know what I do, and they didn't change their treatment of me whatsoever. They are as kind to me as they ever were and would never look down on me. There are genuine, good people out there and I hope that's who you meet!

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    Religion is a disease IMO. If you want REAL spirituality, try psychedelic mushrooms. The idea of "God" is the collective consciousness of this universe, nothing more. Don't believe in lies taught by any religion. FREE YOUR MIND.
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    Thanks everyone for you opinions.
    I want to go because I'm sick and tired of having my entire day revolving around 'sex talk!' (with camming and dancing).
    Even friends are always talking about their dates, 'getting the guy', etc.
    Men who hit on me, are sex crazed.
    It would be nice to have balance in my life, and be part of a community that will never talk about sex, and add uplifting thoughts to my day!

    I hate to lie in church, so that's why I asked about the issue of telling them. Plus, I know I might get caught by some sneaky guys there who are probably on the internet snooping around, and being hypocritical Christians.,, That's all.
    My friends don't even know I cam. (I lost a few when I was honest, so I keep it to myself).

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    I feel you on the needing some talk besides penis size and cumshots. Maybe join a positive thinking group or try a wiccan group. I'm pretty sure wiccans are less judgemental. You can still pray to God like a Christian whenever you want.

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    ^^ Indeed! i'll look into that

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    LOL. I just saw your location says 5 star cammer! Love it!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    Religion is a disease IMO. If you want REAL spirituality, try psychedelic mushrooms. The idea of "God" is the collective consciousness of this universe, nothing more. Don't believe in lies taught by any religion. FREE YOUR MIND.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamourmilf View Post
    Men who hit on me, are sex crazed.
    That happens to me with blonde hair. Its very scary.

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    ^^ As You know, I have blonde hair, huge tits, and a big bubble butt. It is very scary when guys just think they can come up to me, and assume I'm a 'bimbo', who will succumb to their advances.
    These guys must have x-ray vision, because I make it a point to now wear old, baggy clothes, and my hair in a ponytail under a cap, but it still happens.
    That's why the church seems like a safe haven for me.

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