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    Default Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    Would you say you have an active sex life? Do you have a high, low, or average drive? Does this contribute at all to your decision to cam?

    I suppose I should go first...

    I have an extremely high sex drive (my preference is sex once or twice every day) and I've been having sex for well over a decade, with lots of sexual partners and a lot of experimentation. I do enjoy camming because I love being sexual, it's what I do best (seducing, pleasuring, being naughty). Generally I have sex 3-4x a week, though all this masturbating has made me not 'need' it as much as usual during the week.

    Sadly masturbation has always been 'meh' for me, I just can't turn myself on if you know what I mean, it's really hard for me to get 'in the mood' by myself, and generally reaching orgasm takes quite awhile, though it's somewhat unpredictable.

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    I am abstinent so my sex drive is very active. I'm too busy looking for the right bank so I think the right man might have passed me by!
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    Girl, me too!!

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    I am abstinent so my sex drive is very active. I'm too busy looking for the right bank so I think the right man might have passed me by!

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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    I rarely fuck myself during a show, so the pussy does not get sore, I will use a vibrator at times to squirt.
    Cam and playing with myself is for work, I have no feeling. I don't get turned on.

    Being horny is for my real life. I masturbate often and fuck often.
    It's like being in a Life Time movie, they are damn good at fucking and cumming, but it's acting. Men don't seem to really ask me I have noticed, they just like to watch me as though I am getting off.

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    I'm like never horny on my own. I have to be worked up by my partner. I can count on one hand of all the times where I'm naturally horny on my own. I think its because of my birth control.





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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    I have zero sex drive whatsoever. I lost it once I got pregnant with my first child over 4 years ago and it just hasn't returned. It does make caming a little bit difficult sometimes.

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    I feel you. There are times where it's like you are rubbing your pussy and you just want to be done and this is boring.





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    I *love* masturbating. Sex I could take or leave.






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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    I enjoy sex a great deal, I'm a huge exhibitionist, and I'm in a polyamorous/open/non-monogamous/whatever you wanna call it relationship.

    I tend to be picky about with whom and in which situations/moods I tend to have sex, but I'm always down for SOMETHING, whether it's giving my husband daily "old fashioneds" or participating in some variation of an orgy or trying out a friend's drildo because it's just something you gotta try.

    I think that always being in the mood for some kind of sexual activity, whether or not I'm feeling horny, is a great strength to have as a camgirl.
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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    I always used to say I could go the rest of my life without having sex. It's just not THAT great to me. Lately I have sort of been craving it more than usual, although I'm not sure if it's the actual sex I'm craving or just closeness with another person...

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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    I would say I have an active sex life. I become a bitch when I go a few days with no sex or affection. That being said, I was single for a while a few years back and after some time my sex drive went out the window. I got very nervous lol. I started thinking "omg will I ever get it back?". I was still so young too…late 20s. Then two years ago I fell in love with my best friend and my sex life has been very active and incredible ever since. The best it has been my whole life. I guess that's what happens when you fall in love with somebody's soul…ewwww that was so corny…but true lol
    These days, if I go a few days with no sex or affection I become a total bitch!

    Where camming is concerned….I am a performer and I play out my scenes in the best and most believable way possible. I consider it acting and I love doing it. Although slow days can sometimes be a killer! I do my best to immerse myself in the character and become whoever it is my audience wants me to be at that moment (being I approve the request of course). I have been camming almost three years and I have never once had a real orgasm while working…but it sure fucking looks like I have lol

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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    Let me put it this way... when I find someone I actually want to have sex with I have a very high sex drive. I want to be on them and under them and around them all the damn time. It can be a problem.

    When there isn't someone I want to have sex with (or I really can't have sex with them for whatever reason) that feeling is pretty much non-transferable. I'm disinterested in almost all men that hit on me and quite a few make me want to throw up. If I don't feel that chemistry with someone (and I rarely do) it doesn't feel like sex, it feels like charity. I know they can't make me physically feel as good as I can make myself feel, and there's none of that "fuck yes I am with this person" hormonal butterflies feeling, so I don't see the point.

    However, gosh darn do I love masturbating

    EDIT: Oh, and no, this didn't really affect my decision to cam either way. It has little to do with my personal sex drive and more to do others' sex drives.

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    Default Re: Your sex life/sexual appetite.

    Maybe you are demisexual? You should look it up, I recently found out about it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Procrasturbator View Post
    Let me put it this way... when I find someone I actually want to have sex with I have a very high sex drive. I want to be on them and under them and around them all the damn time. It can be a problem.

    When there isn't someone I want to have sex with (or I really can't have sex with them for whatever reason) that feeling is pretty much non-transferable. I'm disinterested in almost all men that hit on me and quite a few make me want to throw up. If I don't feel that chemistry with someone (and I rarely do) it doesn't feel like sex, it feels like charity. I know they can't make me physically feel as good as I can make myself feel, and there's none of that "fuck yes I am with this person" hormonal butterflies feeling, so I don't see the point.

    However, gosh darn do I love masturbating

    EDIT: Oh, and no, this didn't really affect my decision to cam either way. It has little to do with my personal sex drive and more to do others' sex drives.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SaraLaughs View Post
    Maybe you are demisexual? You should look it up, I recently found out about it.
    Thanks for the input. Long story short I would never want to be associated with the demi/ace movement--it has a long, cringey history of homophobia and general tumblrina-ness. That and I just don't identify with it.

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