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    How do you deal with the guys who tip you a COUPLE tokens and then expect you to pay attention to them all night? Or keep saying "well I paid you and you didn't do such & such." when I did. It's weird, he keeps complaining about how I'm not paying attention to him & how other guys take my attention away & I'm like "DUDE, I'm here to work." Like, on one hand I know it's important to build a relationship with the customer, build a connection but it's too much.

    It's only been tonight. If the dude keeps it up I'm going to block him. I was just wondering for tips for dealing with that.

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    Tell him that though you appreciate his "generosity", you're only receiving $0.05 for each token he tips and if he wants your attention he needs to tip you more or get a private show where you can focus only on him.




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    I don't do token sites yet, but I almost always go with complete honesty when it comes to pay and how the system works. Most guys go...wow that sucks. If they don't and are still a dick you block them. If you have a really good room you'll have people defending you or tipping in!
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    How do you deal with the guys who tip you a COUPLE tokens and then expect you to pay attention to them all night? Or keep saying "well I paid you and you didn't do such & such." when I did. It's weird, he keeps complaining about how I'm not paying attention to him & how other guys take my attention away & I'm like "DUDE, I'm here to work." Like, on one hand I know it's important to build a relationship with the customer, build a connection but it's too much.

    It's only been tonight. If the dude keeps it up I'm going to block him. I was just wondering for tips for dealing with that.
    I personally have no desire to build relationships with customers who are that fucking needy, or have such a sense of entitlement that they think a few tokens grants them my undying attention, so I am pretty blunt with them. I'll be nice about it the first time and tell them they need to go private (if you do those) or give me a large tip, but after that I just roll my eyes and tell them to fuck off. If they disrupt my chat, I will silence or ban them.


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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpink View Post
    How do you deal with the guys who tip you a COUPLE tokens and then expect you to pay attention to them all night? Or keep saying "well I paid you and you didn't do such & such." when I did. It's weird, he keeps complaining about how I'm not paying attention to him & how other guys take my attention away & I'm like "DUDE, I'm here to work." Like, on one hand I know it's important to build a relationship with the customer, build a connection but it's too much.

    It's only been tonight. If the dude keeps it up I'm going to block him. I was just wondering for tips for dealing with that.

    -Pinkpink
    If a guy complains I am not paying attention to him after just giving me a couple of tokens on MFC, I always give them a knowing look and joke, "A girl's got to eat. I got to make more tokens or I'll be eating just a bag of rice all week."

    I find that guys LOVE to use guilt to try and control girls on token sites so the best thing is to just guilt those motherfuckers right back. If he gives you hassle after you say that you gotta eat then just pull a cute hissy-fit and tell them, "I thought you were my friend!" and say you aren't talking to them until the stop trying to starve you. LOL! The majority of the time the guys who love to guilt you don't know how to defend themselves from their own tricks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SaintSlutface View Post
    I don't do token sites yet, but I almost always go with complete honesty when it comes to pay and how the system works. Most guys go...wow that sucks. If they don't and are still a dick you block them. If you have a really good room you'll have people defending you or tipping in!
    Just wanted to note that if you go with completely honesty --- be careful of what sites you are honest on. I've heard that on Streamate it is a fireable offense to tell the guys what percentage you make.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl
    Just wanted to note that if you go with completely honesty --- be careful of what sites you are honest on. I've heard that on Streamate it is a fireable offense to tell the guys what percentage you make.
    Yikes. Just one more reason I'm glad to be off of there...can't tell these guys nothin'! I actually wish that every cam site would have its own Wiki page (like MyFreeCams does) explaining how everything works, including the percentage that models get in their pocket. I know it'd piss off some of the SM members to learn the truth, but I'm tired of guys accusing models of being "greedy" or "too expensive" when they charge X dollars/tokens for custom vids or whatever. If an MFC member were to complain - about my custom video price - "But that's $100!," naturally I'm going to reply "Actually, 1,000 tokens is $50 in my pocket."
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    1 token or just a few I don't say anything. Sounds mean maybe, but it's like not tipping at all. .05 I have a better chance of walking a busy parking lot (which I have done) and finding heaps of change in an hours time! Fuck those losers. I always ask people to be generous with tips, and no one rides off another persons dime anymore either!

    Insulting is what I find when I get 1 token. Also the wankers who say 'I only have 1 token left' then get out!

    I just made my CB room a non-nude room like I had it years ago. I am tired of customers saying show puss etc. Next door it's all there, not in my room. Password shows are now for soft sex, nothing hardcore. They don't like it, leave! 1 token fuckers are losers.

    My Mod. last night did not come into my room because I am sure he wants a free ride, he stopped tipping! Wanker.

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    I know this makes me a bitch but whatevs whenever someone tips a dollar or two usually the chime is really small. I just say thank you and tell them how cute that itty bitty teeny tiny little ding was. Then I tell them to do it again to make me giggle. Cuz I mean on SM it sounds like pennies hitting the floor? Anyways when guys who've "tipped before" start wanting more than they deserve, I cut them off for awhile. Or just block them all together. Most come back with a new perspective.

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    I have a guy who gave me my first tip (20 tokens) on my first night on MFC. I was excited so I added him to my friends list free because he had a fuckload of tokens. He also tweets me every single day. He used to come into my room and get all whiny that I was ignoring him, finally I looked straight into the cam and said "You know what [name]? Money talks, and I'm listening". One of my regs tipped me 50 tokens for that and it cracked up the room. The guy leaves me alone these days, he's given up on stringing me along because I no longer follow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jinja View Post
    I personally have no desire to build relationships with customers who are that fucking needy, or have such a sense of entitlement that they think a few tokens grants them my undying attention, so I am pretty blunt with them. I'll be nice about it the first time and tell them they need to go private (if you do those) or give me a large tip, but after that I just roll my eyes and tell them to fuck off. If they disrupt my chat, I will silence or ban them.
    Thiss to a T !!! I always thank for every tip I see because it all adds up and money is money. And *always* explain to them about private chat or other ways for them to spend to get something more in return. Often 50% will end up spending and 50% won't. It's worth it to take 1 second to tell them what u offer, and depending on how they react you can be a very happy lady, and if not that's 1 less asshole coming into your room everyday once he's banned lol

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    I don't Honestly, tipping the bare minimum is kind of insulting and when guys try that, they should consider themselves lucky that, while I'm petite, I'll never be small enough to crawl into a USB port, ninja dance through cyber space, pop out of their screen, and break their noses.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    Just wanted to note that if you go with completely honesty --- be careful of what sites you are honest on. I've heard that on Streamate it is a fireable offense to tell the guys what percentage you make.
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    Close contact, for an hour, for $40? And I guess I'll have to make conversation with them too?

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    I just wanted to thank everyone for all the responses! Tremendous help. I love this forum. <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAdriana View Post
    Thiss to a T !!! I always thank for every tip I see because it all adds up and money is money. And *always* explain to them about private chat or other ways for them to spend to get something more in return. Often 50% will end up spending and 50% won't. It's worth it to take 1 second to tell them what u offer, and depending on how they react you can be a very happy lady, and if not that's 1 less asshole coming into your room everyday once he's banned lol
    I hear you and know this is true, I used to thank every single 1 token I received. But then I thought, wow i'm thanking a guy who just pitched in a fucking nickle to my show while others are tipping much more generous. This seemed to be a pattern that this customer developed, then others followed with a token... so I cut the thank you off.
    I still get plenty of 1 token wankers tho.

    It's an insult I firmly think. I would never toss a buck on stage to a stripper, so why should I ever acknowledge 1 token? I really 1 token can be worse than calling me a slut. True money is money, I just don't work for nickels anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bootsie View Post
    I have a guy who gave me my first tip (20 tokens) on my first night on MFC. I was excited so I added him to my friends list free because he had a fuckload of tokens. He also tweets me every single day. He used to come into my room and get all whiny that I was ignoring him, finally I looked straight into the cam and said "You know what [name]? Money talks, and I'm listening". One of my regs tipped me 50 tokens for that and it cracked up the room. The guy leaves me alone these days, he's given up on stringing me along because I no longer follow.
    Yup, gotta train these guys. Last night on MFC this guy on my friends list started watching me in the PM Viewer (I can't stand the PM Viewer, honestly) and PMed me just to say hi. Instead of typing back to him, I smiled and said hi to him out loud, and told him to come talk here in the chat. Sorry, but I just think it's annoying to PM a model just to say hi when your ass is sitting right there in her room, and could've just said hi there. When guys PM you just to say hi and you respond, they follow up with "How was your day," etc. That kind of small talk belongs in MFC public chat.
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    I'm so glad I have a tip menu. Whenever I hear the chime on SM I know how much it is because I tell them how much to tip if they want to see something. The only time I don't get a tip I ask for is when they feel generous and tip a larger amount on their own. SMH. The entitlement shit has got to stop. I have a reg that gives me thousands and I still only give him about 30 min shows, lol. I got shit to do today, bitch!




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    I see girls talking about percentages and such a lot.Or how they wish the guys knew, or how yes, I agree it would be nice if they all posted it for the guys to see as well, however even though I don't do token sites I really don't think it would matter. I mean from my experiences you can straight up tell them how much of the money you get,or what % is yours if they tip or pay you.
    My point is this...even when they have that information they aren't to bright. You could tell a guy exactly what you make and his response to that might be "oh what do you do for a living?"

    Most know to tip you but I think a lot of them still think you probably have a "real" job doing something else to. And this is just something you do for fun. Or you have a boyfriend or husband who takes care of you and this is what you do on the side.
    Of course then there's the other side of that where they just think every cam girl is rich...I dunno

    This is one of those jobs you really can't win either way I guess.
    And I'm totally not taking the dudes side here but I'm sure being online at this day in age is slightly confusing to them. When it appears like some girls post free to tube sites(even though it's more likely their stuff was stolen) or you have girls doing awkward things on youtube for free, OR...sites like chaturbate or possibly even mfc where they log on more to get attention than to make money.You never know what's going on in the other rooms. And as it's been pointed out a lot of sites do use the dating strategy technique of pulling in traffic.

    On this forum alone there's always lots of posts about "how to date a stripper" I don't think you could ever really kill their fantasy of finding a girl who is just so horny she loves to do this. Especially knowing there are some out there lol.
    Putting yourself on such public sites where guys come and go by the hundreds daily just means you take that as part of the job explaining the same crap over and over every night. And looking at it from their perspective if all I ever heard was , I don't know that if all I ever heard was, I don't show nothing for free, or tip for tits, that I'd take it to seriously either...no offense to anyone. But I think even as an escort(not that i am) you don't really talk about the money at the time. It's a turn off.

    I simply avoid these things because I hate repeating myself over and over, plus I have no patience and I'd end up blocking the whole room. Is why I like being independent and sticking to 1 on 1 shows. It gives them time to get to know you,what your doing, what your about but I do think this....

    I don't think most will ever take this as a serious job. But you can use that to your advantage.Guys hate hearing about money all the time, but they do like to rescue the damsel in distress. And I'm not saying make up sob stories cuz that doesn't work either, but the ones I've seen do well or what I would probably do if I did use these sites is just make up a goal for them to help with.
    There's tons of chicks doing goal shows for sex. They are desensitized to it.
    Would you tip someone just to see them bang their pussy when it's all over the internet anyway.

    Maybe just make up some random shit you want help with.
    random numbers here....but like 300 tokens help me get pizza
    500 tokens help me get brakes for my car
    2000 tokens I want a flat screen tv
    picking things you want, is probably often better than picking things you need. Odd, but true. They don't like needy girls. They like to help spoil girls.

    A lot of guys love to help and feel like they've done something good for you. And it doesn't matter weather you need those things or not you can just make up stuff. It also makes you appear more real. Than just another girl who thinks her pussy is so great everyone should tip her for it.

    And I'm not trying to be rude, just saying, sometimes it helps to think like a guy,rather than the girl trying to just do her job. What would you want to hear. What do they hear already hear all day.

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