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    Im curious if you have a 2 men that want me to go out with both of them. They said they are staying in separate rooms. Do you charge for time only or double your rate for 2 men? They want dinner first(both take me out for dinner) then separate rooms(entertaining them one at a time after dinner). Do u think this is sketchy or am I overthinking it?

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    I would consider it if both screened fine, and were not disrespectful etc. But I would be extremely clear about your boundaries, ie. No threesomes, you have the right to leave immediately if they cross the line etc. And of course, be sure to get paid at the beginning of the appointment even if that means them handing you the envelope discretely at the restaurant. When you screen them, you might want to ask their references if their dates were also double dates, as they could probably give you a good idea of how they both acted in the past. If it was the first time they've ever tried to set up a double date, I would be more wary.


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    I'm not an escort, but my opinion, I don't know about this. I just can't see 2 guys being ok with just taking 1 girl on a dinner date then going back and doing your thing with one of them at a time. I would be a little sketchy. If you are going to charge them double for just you, why can't one of the guys get another girl? I personally would just be too afraid that they had other plans up their sleeve about doing something harmful or way out of your limits because it just doesn't make much sense to me.

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    I wouldn't do it, too much risk for me.

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    This seems... odd. I would definitely charge them each the full amount that you would normally charge if you were just seeing one guy by himself. I feel like one of the main reasons for 2 guys to do this would be because they think they can get a discount by both having dinner with you in the same hour, or "splitting" the hour after you guys get back to the hotel. And that's just cheap and weird.
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    Im glad I posted this here first! Thank u for your posts and confirming how weird I already felt about it.

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    I asked him if they would pay double bc its 2 people, and I was told no. Ok well I feel like they were trying to hustle me by splitting my time. That splits my $ in half Bc Im dealing with 2 people. Then I was told that only the one guy will be paying....so the other guy is just gonna be there there....why bc he cant afford it?? This sounds really sketchy now Im glad I kept asking questions and got all the facts.

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    "Hey, dude wanna get hookers on this trip?"
    "Dude, neither of us have the money."
    "Wanna split one?"

    Ugh, how creepy. You're not a meal they're both splitting and going in on... How rude.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    I asked him if they would pay double bc its 2 people, and I was told no. Ok well I feel like they were trying to hustle me by splitting my time. That splits my $ in half Bc Im dealing with 2 people. Then I was told that only the one guy will be paying....so the other guy is just gonna be there there....why bc he cant afford it?? This sounds really sketchy now Im glad I kept asking questions and got all the facts.
    Eww no way! Men and their weird ideas, I swear. By that kind of crap logic, they could get ten guys to split an hour and everyone gets their own few mins with you.... shaking my head.


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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    I asked him if they would pay double bc its 2 people, and I was told no. Ok well I feel like they were trying to hustle me by splitting my time. That splits my $ in half Bc Im dealing with 2 people. Then I was told that only the one guy will be paying....so the other guy is just gonna be there there....why bc he cant afford it?? This sounds really sketchy now Im glad I kept asking questions and got all the facts.
    Eww no way! Men and their weird ideas, I swear. By that kind of crap logic, they could get ten guys to split an hour and everyone gets their own few mins with you.... shaking my head.


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    Default Re: escort date question....2 guys one date?

    Maybe they're really not that creepy, but only have one condom to share?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    Maybe they're really not that creepy, but only have one condom to share?!

    ;-)
    Well, they DO sound pretty broke.... ;-)


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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    Maybe they're really not that creepy, but only have one condom to share?!

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    Well, they DO sound pretty broke.... ;-)


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    Default Re: escort date question....2 guys one date?

    I'm not an escort but that sounds creepy on many levels. I do know a few escorts who dated two men at the same time and both paid. In most cases it was one on one and the other times it was at the same time. Either way she received payment from both. It just seems dangerous to me.

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    I had a guy ask if I would see him and his friend. As we talked it turned into him, his friend and we need to do it at a certain time while their girlfriends are at a movie and they were going to pick me up at some parking lot and take me to a third location because they didn't want me to know where they lived and and and.... I got bored and hung up.

    Seriously, the more convoluted it gets, just walk. What we do is not complicated.
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    Every now and then there are posts on TER about a dude looking to do a MMF, not sure if they find someone to partner with or not to fulfill their fantasy. Physiologically it is more practical than FMF, but most guys have FMF much higher on their bucket list. Most times the lady brings her preferred male partner. For the OP, I guess I would get some clarification as to who the other dude is and if they have played together before.
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    I do 2 guy calls all the time. Those are my favorite. All of the girls that I know won't do it, but I think that since it was one of the first things that I had seen another girl do when I was first introduced to escorting, I felt like it was the norm and that it was just something that a lot of girls did. But most of the girls that I have met on calls since are not cool with it. I am pretty open minded, though. I would say that as long as they let you know ahead of time that there are 2 guys then it should be fine. But if one guy ever calls you and says he is alone but is lying, then I would say there is potential for problems/it could be dangerous. Oh, and I usually give a little bit of a better deal, say, the fee and a half.

    Personally, I like more guys because that equals more money. And in all of my experiences, usually one or two of them doesn't hang out for long or all the way. Easy. You can make a killing for just one call, usually only an hour, or hour and a half. But I get how some girls may be creeped out by it. I figure if I'm gonna do this, I am gonna do it all the way. Haha. But, to each her own.

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    This is also what the cops do to get you to discuss rates & details cause it is out of the norm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Julianapleases View Post
    I do 2 guy calls all the time. Those are my favorite. All of the girls that I know won't do it, but I think that since it was one of the first things that I had seen another girl do when I was first introduced to escorting, I felt like it was the norm and that it was just something that a lot of girls did. But most of the girls that I have met on calls since are not cool with it. I am pretty open minded, though. I would say that as long as they let you know ahead of time that there are 2 guys then it should be fine. But if one guy ever calls you and says he is alone but is lying, then I would say there is potential for problems/it could be dangerous. Oh, and I usually give a little bit of a better deal, say, the fee and a half.

    Personally, I like more guys because that equals more money. And in all of my experiences, usually one or two of them doesn't hang out for long or all the way. Easy. You can make a killing for just one call, usually only an hour, or hour and a half. But I get how some girls may be creeped out by it. I figure if I'm gonna do this, I am gonna do it all the way. Haha. But, to each her own.
    Do you do that in terms of, focusing on one guy while the other waits around, then you move onto the second guy? Or is it two guys both fully involved at the same time, threesome type thing? I've been asked for this twice but I've never really been sure about the ins and outs (no pun intended haha) of it all. When you're screening them, do you ask their references to find out of this is a common thing for the two guys?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Julianapleases View Post
    I do 2 guy calls all the time. Those are my favorite. All of the girls that I know won't do it, but I think that since it was one of the first things that I had seen another girl do when I was first introduced to escorting, I felt like it was the norm and that it was just something that a lot of girls did. But most of the girls that I have met on calls since are not cool with it. I am pretty open minded, though. I would say that as long as they let you know ahead of time that there are 2 guys then it should be fine. But if one guy ever calls you and says he is alone but is lying, then I would say there is potential for problems/it could be dangerous. Oh, and I usually give a little bit of a better deal, say, the fee and a half.

    Personally, I like more guys because that equals more money. And in all of my experiences, usually one or two of them doesn't hang out for long or all the way. Easy. You can make a killing for just one call, usually only an hour, or hour and a half. But I get how some girls may be creeped out by it. I figure if I'm gonna do this, I am gonna do it all the way. Haha. But, to each her own.
    Do you do that in terms of, focusing on one guy while the other waits around, then you move onto the second guy? Or is it two guys both fully involved at the same time, threesome type thing? I've been asked for this twice but I've never really been sure about the ins and outs (no pun intended haha) of it all. When you're screening them, do you ask their references to find out of this is a common thing for the two guys?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    This is also what the cops do to get you to discuss rates & details cause it is out of the norm.

    Sam

    Very true, because my friend got arrested this way. But honestly, I would never go on a call without first discussing what I need to be paid for my time. And if you have it on your website, you're still discussing your rates for your time. It's a lose-lose situation if you're not careful to make sure that you're not going to see the police. How else are they supposed to know how much to pay you? I certainly don't expect them to read the ad, well, most of them, if I chose to put my rates in my ad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    Do you do that in terms of, focusing on one guy while the other waits around, then you move onto the second guy? Or is it two guys both fully involved at the same time, threesome type thing? I've been asked for this twice but I've never really been sure about the ins and outs (no pun intended haha) of it all. When you're screening them, do you ask their references to find out of this is a common thing for the two guys?
    Okay, so I may do things a little bit differently as far as screening goes, but this is what has worked for me, so I am happy with it. I never ask my guys any information about themselves. For one, it scares most guys off to ask them a bunch of Personal questions(and I understand why, because this is concerning not only mine, but their safety as well). Also, I do not expect any guy to tell me the honest truth. Anyone can just say any name they want and I am supposed to believe them? Yeahhh okay...

    So, any information that I obtain about them, I do it myself. It is a lot of reading and researching sometimes, and it is difficult to do all of the detective type work independently AND make it to the calls to entertain the boys. But, the peace of mind that this gives me makes it all worth it. Also, I only do outcalls, so I have a lot of options for finding out info, especially if I get called to their home. If they are calling me from an untraceable phone, then most of the time I just forget about it. I research the information about the guy who called me. I have done many group dates like this, and it is a lot of fun usually. With technology these days, there are SO MANY ways that you can find out their identity, sometimes even if their number is "untraceable". I also decline to see probably 75% or more of the guys who contact me overall. I may be able to sense that they are scammers, robbers, cops, etc, and I could be totally wrong, but I won't see them if I have any reason to believe that someone wants to hurt me. Not saying that I will always be right, but I try to always listen to my gut. And the more you experienced you become, and the more you talk to people, the more you learn.

    Usually, guys that call in groups of 2 or more are very young, in their early 20's, and they are having a guys night out at the bar or something. They call when the bars close and they are usually pretty wild, but a lot of fun. You have to talk with them for a bit or text a little bit back and forth and decide if you feel comfortable doing the call. And it varies how I deal with them. I leave it up to them for the most part how we are going to coordinate everyone. A lot of guys don't want to do it at the same time as their friends because they think that is so "gay". Haha. So in that type of situation, I would take turns with each guy. If they would like to do a 3some, I am also down for that(except no dp, I just don't want to do that, like, ever I don't think). So it all depends on how they want to do it; I am pretty easy going as long as everyone stays safe/wears protection. I have done bachelor parties, brothers, frat houses, best friends, you name it. I have never dealt with a group larger than 4. And honestly a lot of times not all of them always end up participating for whatever reason(they fall asleep, can't get it up, chicken out, etc.). And I don't do anything without getting paid up front from everyone. This has just been my experience. Maybe I have been lucky to get cool guy, but I have very positive experiences often. Just make sure to only do what you feel comfortable with doing, and don't be afraid to say no.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Julianapleases View Post
    Very true, because my friend got arrested this way. But honestly, I would never go on a call without first discussing what I need to be paid for my time. And if you have it on your website, you're still discussing your rates for your time. It's a lose-lose situation if you're not careful to make sure that you're not going to see the police. How else are they supposed to know how much to pay you? I certainly don't expect them to read the ad, well, most of them, if I chose to put my rates in my ad.
    The issue isn't so much discussing rates as discussing details. I clearly post my rates too but if they ask, "How much for a blow job" or ask for any details about what they "get" during that time, I don't answer. They know what they're paying for. If they play dumb, I just pass on them as customers because there's a good chance they're cops.

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    This is good advice.

    Seriously. I'm a seasoned dominatrix/humiliatrix but the more complicated and "what if", "and could you", "What if I wanted", "We changed plans", they become, the more red flags you'll feel in your gut. The cheapest customers want the biggest bang for the lowest dollar. In the sex industry, I prefer to work less for more money.
    I also prefer accepting google wallet prior to anything so that my time is not wasted and once you've claimed the money they can't reverse the transaction on you so it's safer than worrying about things like cash because no one can rob you to get their money back. Also, it's only 24 hours until it's in your account if you don't mind uncle sam seeing it.

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