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    Default back from a very long hiatus...with an exhibitionist boyfriend apparently.

    So it's been a REALLY long time since I've been active on this site or doing anything related to the adult industry. Long story short, major burn out (mainly from escorting...I still support making it legal and plenty of girls handle it fine but I didn't realize how bad it affected me...I'll never go back unless my children are starving) and people in my normal life found out what I was doing. I cut all ties to the adult business, moved out of state for a year, and joined the ranks of underpaid retail workers.

    Fast forward three years. I've been in an amazing relationship for a year with a great guy who has shown me what real intimacy is like (which I had NO concept of after escorting for my entire adult life) and I've been completely tight lipped about my past. We're ridiculously in love but also ridiculously broke.

    A couple of weeks ago he made a passing joke about us doing camming together to make extra cash. He's not exactly conservative but pretty traditional when it comes to dating and relationships, so I took his comment as just that -- a passing comment.

    Fast forward again a few days later...we're playing around making our first video for personal use and I notice homeboy is way more excited with a camera there than he is normally. Again another joke about "we should be paid for this".

    A few more comments like that spread over a couple days, and I'm.starting to think my boyfriend is secretly an exhibitionist, because there's plenty of things we've done in our relationship where I basically had to force him to admit he was into it. So finally I wait for him to bring it up again and I say, "sure let's do it."

    Like a kid who just got a new puppy he was! So excited and wants to start right away lol. We could definitely use the money, so I'm on board too. I have better feelings about it this time around because I won't be hiding it from him like I did with past relationships and I definitely won't be escorting so less risk of burn out.

    So I just wanted to say hi instead of lurking. I haven't been on in three years so I'm sure the vast majority of you won't remember me, but I still wanted to say hi!

    Anybody on here that cams with their boyfriend that can give me advice? Camming is not new to me but camming with a partner is....

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    Default Re: back from a very long hiatus...with an exhibitionist boyfriend apparently.

    Oh wow! That's great. I hope that it works out for you and it's really nice to have a partner that's supportive. Will you and him only be doing couple shows? Or will you both have your own personnel accounts? I've heard from other couples that sometimes the intimacy gets lost in a relationship when you are having sex on cam together as a job. You both get tired and worn out and then that intimacy between you is lost. It's much easier for a girl to "fake it" than a guy.

    I wish you luck!

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    That's wonderful. It turns me on so much to know that my husband likes sharing me/showing me off. It's great that yours wants the same. Good luck to you both!
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    Default Re: back from a very long hiatus...with an exhibitionist boyfriend apparently.

    Maybe instead of jumping on webcam together right away on a camsite, why don't you guys start with filming videos together and make a clips4sale account?

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    I second this! Do clips if you can. You said before that you were an escort and it was emotionally rough. I think that by jumping in to the caming world right away might bring some of those feelings back.
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    Maybe instead of jumping on webcam together right away on a camsite, why don't you guys start with filming videos together and make a clips4sale account?

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    Camming as a couple is hard. Customers want every angle possible for sex and some are impossible without a camera person. I would try camming solo to see if you even like it, it's changed a lot in the last couple of years.

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    I think for a couple better to try something like clips4sale. Cuz for guys really hard to be always HARD)and nobody wants to see a wet noodle. To be honest camming killed my sex life.
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    Welcome back. Congrats on doing hard stuff and discovering your boundaries/limits


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    welcome back!!
    I was IN LOVE with a guy--I so wanted to tape him and I together. He seemed to want it to--it never happened though. It didn't work out--but yes I wanted that.
    I support legalizing escorting as well--doubt it will happen in the US with the exception of the brothels, it seems better for everyone involved. I've met some of the ladies from the Bunny Ranch--they were fun.
    Good luck and maybe do some solo camming as well as couple camming if your boyfriend wouldn't have a problem with that. You can increase your earnings--just my opinion.
    Have fun with the camming--you will feel more confident when you have fun at work-LOL
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    Default Re: back from a very long hiatus...with an exhibitionist boyfriend apparently.

    Welcome back. I remember you as an active poster when I was on here before. Im back again too! Hopefully to make more than $10 and stay longer than a couple days.

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