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    Default What do you do if you've had a really shit day and can't get in the mood..

    I've had such a crap day today... I've had a row with my friend AND a close family member, and feel like utter crap!Last night at same club was quiet and crap as well which isn't helping me be positive!

    I'm trying to think of things that make me happy,and reading law of attraction quotes...

    But prevailing is that my eyes are still aching from crying so much today...I would like to sod work and curl up with a glass of wine....

    Anybody have any tips/tricks for me and anybody else who feels like this tonight?
    (Please say yes)!

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    Default Re: What do you do if you've had a really shit day and can't get in the mood..

    Aww, I'm sorry you're having a rough day! They're the worst when you need to be feeling energetic and cheerful for work. Here, to start off with:







    Kittens, puppies, and cash! Happy thoughts!

    It's important to remember that it's okay to feel bad and skip work. But otherwise, tell yourself you want to use work tonight as a tool to help you get over today. For example, set a really easy, low money goal since your club is slow right now. Then plan on immediately treating yourself with it tomorrow, like say spending half of it on a little online shopping trip, or a massage, or some delicious expensive food. You can do it. Go get money!

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    Default Re: What do you do if you've had a really shit day and can't get in the mood..

    One thing that always helps me want to go dance is to think about all the money i could make that night. Then when i actually work and get the money, i buy myself that new pair of shoes i was after or i get myself a fancy meal. c: It's like getting a reward from my customers then rewarding myself for going through with it. After a REALLY horrible day, you know, those days when you feel awful and you hate everything, where you welcome the thought of just laying in bed for the rest of your life, i clear my schedule for the following day and i go get my nails done or go get a professional massage. It really helps make dancing for some jerk worth it.

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    Default Re: What do you do if you've had a really shit day and can't get in the mood..

    I always try and get myself out of a mood first by focusing reeeeaaaalllly hard on hustling for an hour or two depending on how busy the club is. I fully engage as best as I can with each customer, and mentally go over all of my hustle tricks and conversation "templates" for the day, gauging the customers mood. Thinking about all of these things while having a few conversations is usually enough to at least distract me from my bad mood. And with luck, getting a few dances at the beginning of my shift always improves my mood. And if that fails, and I'm still grumpy, or the club is totally dead, tequila shot :p
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    Then plan on immediately treating yourself with it tomorrow, like say spending half of it on a little online shopping trip, or a massage, or some delicious expensive food. You can do it. Go get money!
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    Default Re: What do you do if you've had a really shit day and can't get in the mood..

    Do you have a regular who you could ask to come in and see you at the beginning of your shift? Starting the night off with someone who I know is not going to reject me, and knowing that I have some guaranteed $$ really helps put me in a better mood for the rest of the night.

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    Default Re: What do you do if you've had a really shit day and can't get in the mood..

    Hi all! I'm sorry for not responding, my internet has been shit and I could get on the net at work to read all your replies ,but not respond! Really appreciate it,& you did all help. I got a regular in,& didn't put pressure on myself,& I did okay-a lot better than expected! <3 the cute pictures ::-)
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    (Oh, and also, allow me to excuse myself while I pick my mandible up from underneath my desk.)
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    I have a feeling some men don't actually need a woman (or anyone at all) in their lives. They could marry their own penises and live happily ever after.
    Start the day with a smile and get it over with

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