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    HI, I am very new to this board.. just found it today. I am not a stripper (can't dance to save my life! LOL), but I do porn, cam some (not recently, but am going to start up again soon), and escorting a little. My question today is about escorting. I have done a few dates, but definitely not paying the bills with them. I do have a limited availability, and a smaller "audience" because I am a BBW, but trying to figure out ways to tweak my sites and ads to get business and repeat clients. As it stands, I get bugged all day with "I have a big penis, how much for 15 min" or "$1000 uncovered baby" or people that refuse to give me any info to screen with. What am I doing wrong? Or? Can someone please help me!!! Constructive criticizim please!!!
    p.s. my ads can be seen here...

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    How long have you been escorting being in a niche market like BBW takes a little longer to build. The fact that you are getting bookings is half the battle. Some take months to get their first client. basically don't quit your day job.

    The type of emails and inquiries are typical for the job, you want to stick to your guns and not fall for I am desperate and need cash, if you are able to do webcam you want to get that solid and if possible another day job and keep escorting as part-time as possible until there is enough business to consider it full-time.

    a great resource website to keep things in perspective.

    http://fairywhoremother.com/so-you-w...-your-day-job/
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    How long have you been escorting being in a niche market like BBW takes a little longer to build. The fact that you are getting bookings is half the battle. Some take months to get their first client. basically don't quit your day job.

    The type of emails and inquiries are typical for the job, you want to stick to your guns and not fall for I am desperate and need cash, if you are able to do webcam you want to get that solid and if possible another day job and keep escorting as part-time as possible until there is enough business to consider it full-time.

    a great resource website to keep things in perspective.

    http://fairywhoremother.com/so-you-w...-your-day-job/
    Stripperweb is closing! Join me over at WeCamgirls

    A part of all you earn is yours to keep. It should be not less than a tenth no matter how little you earn. It can be as much more as you can afford. - Richest Man in Babylon

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    Yeah, lots of time wasters, just have a standard 2 line reply to have them refer to your website, something like, 'Yes, 1000 to film with me provided you have a fresh medical' and give them the link. Cool idea, BTW, weather the go for it of just get an hour, sort of like oogling the 70,000 Corvette but buying a Malibu... I would also do some Photoshop / skin smoothing on a few of your still pics. Good luck and be safe!
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    Thank you Minniesoporno... I have had my ads up now for about 4 months. I am a stay at home mom who wants to contribute more to my household than the occasional shoot checks. I have cammed in the past and don't enjoy it (I fake it pretty well though) and was making OK spending money. I am in the process of cleaning out the spare bedroom and setting it up as a cam room. I will cam during nap times and evenings. Plus I also have a solo pay site coming out soon. I hope these will all help me gather more bookings, too!

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    And thank you also, CFMNH44! I actually did a shoot recently, and will be updating my pics with all of those. They are much more professional, and current. In fact I want to do a completely new site... I'm not a fan of the ones I have now! Lol

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    May I add another suggestion?? I would take off the quote regarding "huge cocks and monster facials" from your website. I think that anyone potential client that visits your websites can see your talents for themselves, without you having to mention it in your ad. It might help eliminate the "I have a huge penis..." comments in the "less is more" train of thought. I like the other verbiage in your ad -- you sound warm and friendly and upbeat. (I do website content writing and guest blogging and review numerous websites)


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    And thanks for that link to "fairywhoremother.com", Minniesoporno! That's a great site!!

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    Bespoke, I hadn't thought of that, but it makes sense! Honestly I had help writing it from a fan/friend of mine. Lol
    Thank you!!

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    Bespoke, I hadn't thought of that, but it makes sense! Maybe I will eliminate that part, using it for my solo pay site only! Honestly I had help writing it from a fan/friend of mine. Lol
    Thank you!!

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