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    Dizzy First Day Camming-Stalker Client

    Hey All,

    So this morning was my first time camming on SM, and only 30 minutes in, an anonymous user in guest chat starts asking me questions about myself, not to learn personal information, but to VERIFY it.

    Him: "Can I ask you a question? It's kind of a weird question"

    Me: "Go for it"

    Him: "How would you feel if your brother had an account on here?"

    Me (still cheerful and naive): "I would probably not care if he had an account, but I would care if he were watching me."

    Him: "Oh ok...so how is NYC?"

    This actually scared the shit out of me. I thought it WAS my brother at first, and later verified that it was not-just some anonymous user who knows a lot of stuff about me and is creeping me out??? I read all the camming safety stuff on here and took precautions but nothing prepared me for that. I didn't answer him, immediately logged off without any warning, and sat there with my heart racing.

    For the record YES I absolutely realize in retrospect that he tripped me up with that question about my bro and I should have lied about the whole ordeal as if I don't even have one...that was a learning experience. I guess I can handle people I know from real life finding out I cam but not anonymous users randomly knowing personal info about me??

    I have an online video blog under a different username (not my real name) and I'm sure if someone researched me well enough, they could find out my real name and location through that-but I wasn't expecting any of this to happen so quickly! I don't even talk about my family in my online content :-/

    At this point I don't know what to do-I started camming because I need the $$$ on a schedule that I can set. I'm wondering if it's even safe to continue, if stripping is any safer, or if I should keep going, learn from this experience, and just block that one person. Any advice would be appreciated-thanks.

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    Default Re: First Day Camming-Stalker Client

    I had him in my room today too. I told him my brother's too cheap to go on camsites.

    As for the NYC thing, perhaps it was your accent, a poster, the view out your window, a local radio station that made him ask?

    Based on what you've said, I honestly wouldn't worry. But yes, it good to be sensible in regards to your personal info. Block him next time if you see him if it makes you feel better, he was pushing for incest role play from me so is therefore an unlucrative presence in my room. I sent him to read the T&C.

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    Default Re: First Day Camming-Stalker Client

    Trolls like that make themselves feel powerful by making us uncomfortable. Block his ass if you see him again.

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    Thanks so much, ladies-what a relief! I will block him moving forward and keep this in mind. <3

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    Haha I had him the other day too, told him I wouldn't care

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    You'll constantly get guys in there trying to rattle you. You have to realize first and foremost that SO many of them are liars and power hungry. They want to make you uncomfortable so they have the upper hand. When you react to them at all, you've given them your power and the control of your room. You'll have guys come in and call you super ugly, thank them for brightening up your day. You'll have guys in there claiming to know you. Who fucking cares? Are they going to run off to someone you know and say "I was paying for porn on line the other day and saw so-and-so"? Very probably not. You are an untouchable goddess behind that camera. Don't you forget it!!! *rawr* Good luck!!!!
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    When I have some mention a family member, I just bullshit with them.

    "Oh I don't have a brother. This is news to me!"
    "Well he'd be more interested in the guy side since he's gay."

    I ignore most of them for the most part. Block and move on. Guys get their rocks off thinking they are rattling us up.





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    Default Re: First Day Camming-Stalker Client

    ^^^Ditto. Nope, no brother here but nice try, loser!




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    Default Re: First Day Camming-Stalker Client

    He probably wasnt trying to scare u. He probably had an incest fetish and was wanting to roleplay it. Working in fetish sections I get these a lot. They will come in and say things like "omg i cant believe my sisters on a camsite... hey sis... i've always fancied u" or just "hey sister its me ur brother", theyre just trying to get you 2 roleplay. not every1 is a cunt who wants 2 scare u half to death. be wary for the next time because you could have went along with it and taken him 2 private for a incest roleplay session. a lot of them get turned off if they have 2 leave the roleplay fantasy and actually ask "will u pretend 2 be my sister" cause it takes away the immertion.

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    Default Re: First Day Camming-Stalker Client

    i had the SAME guy in my room yesterday (i know because he said it the same way) and i felt the same way i told him i didn't have a brother (although i do) and he was asking me about my father and then told me that he definitely was watching his sister cam here on SM so i got nervous and blocked him.. my friend proceeded to tell me that they get off on it so just block and ignore!

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    Incest Roll play is ILLEGAL. Next time just block without responding.

    Sam

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    lol I had a guy once, in freechat. 'I never thought I would catch my daughter doing this! you disgust your father!' Erm both my parents passed a long time before I started camming
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    Within my first half hour on cam, I got someone asking me to do incest roleplay. I responded by blocking him. Luckily he didn't use the "I'm your brother" line, because my brother is a first class nutcase who attacked me a couple of years back, so I'd have been on the ceiling with my PTSD if someone has pulled that shit on my first camming shift when I was already anxious enough haha. Assholes.


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