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But realizing your stripper is trans is totally similar to women getting raped, 'cause they're both a crazy wild time at the club and make for really entertaining stories! LULZ, we get so crazy in da club!
I don't think he's realized that dancers can have things for themselves, without customers always having the right to stride confidently in and start doing customer things. We're normal people OP, not whatever party girl blowjob queen stereotype you've seen on TV. Dancing is just our job and we're not here to entertain you because we're not working right now.




It really bothered me that he posted that video AFTER several of us described being full on sexually assaulted. It could have been just a misunderstanding when he first posted the question but any decent human being would realize it's not funny after hearing stories of physical assault and rape and sexual assault and not try to make it a damn joke.





Besides, the guy in that video willingly took the dildo in his mouth. He was 't complaining until the chick turned around & showed him her surprise & the dildo was still in plain sight! Tacky, yes, but a raunchy bait&switch isn't at all comparable to sexual assault. Or has it really nvr occurred to the OP that our job isn't all fun & games?





***Gross Alert***
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A guy puked on my leg during a private party
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt




I've had a couple of guys pull their dicks out. One tried to be stealthy. The rest of that song was less than zero contact and he got kicked out. The other guy whipped it out as I was taking my shoes off and seemed genuinely apologetic when I objected. He was visiting from a foreign country and spoke limited English, so I prefer to believe that he didn't know any better.
I had a guy grab my hips and forcibly try to perform oral on me through my thong. I accidentally stepped on his groin trying to get him the hell off me. Accidentally... A very cool dancer and her regular saw what was going on and ran to get security who literally had to carry him out and dump him in the parking lot.
Not an LD story, but I had a guy try to bite my nipple at the tip rail. I pushed him away and he backed off, but I was prepared to kick him.
Ahaha, I thought this thread was going to be super light-hearted. I was going to chime in about that one time when I started my period in the middle of a lap dance...
But then when I started reading responses, I was like, oh YEAH...there was that one time when I was fucking assaulted. It's weird how we can block those memories out...it sadly becomes just 'part of the job.' So rock on ladies for shedding light on the truly dark bits of this industry.

If nothing else, this thread sheds light on some of the outrageous difficulties you ladies face. Half the responses in here should have resulted in criminal charges.
I've heard several horror stories over the years. One of them, the guy tried to stuff the dancer's panties in her vagina. She kneed him in the face before he could get that far. Apparently he didn't object, as he left at her urging without needing an escort, bleeding nose and all.
Apparently lots of guys whip out their members. Or try to finger the ladies. What the hell?!
As a customer, my worst experiences are probably hygiene related. As in, forgot to wipe. Try being sexually aroused when that's all you can smell! At one point she asked if something was wrong, so I must have been doing a poor job of ignoring it. I didn't have the heart to tell her.
I did have a dancer forcefully try to stick her tongue in my mouth. That was interesting....Oh, and a heel on my foot gave me a bruise for two weeks! She was very apologetic though, and no lasting harm.
Child's play next to most of the responses here!




I'm glad to see so many honest and serious answers here about some of the horrific stuff that goes on in the clubs. It's definitely not all sunshine and roses when dealing with the public in any job. It seems like strip clubs amplify any character flaws that are just hidden beneath the surface. You think people get out of hand when dealing with retail or restaurant employees? It can be 10x worse when that service provider is a stripper.

That's for sure. I'm thinking there are two reasons for that:
One, social stigma keeps away many of the "good" people, thereby leaving a higher than typical prevalence of "bad" people.
Two, laws surrounding adult entertainment are designed around outdated morals, rather than with protection of the supplier in mind.
A guy got so pissed at me for not fucking him in vip he cornered me and asked for my money, well more like demanded it or hed beat my ass (alll while I was still naked standing in nothing but my shoes) so I pretended management was outside the door called managers name and everything even tho it wasnt him n he had to let me pass um or get n sum shit so I made it out of vip, still asshole naked and ran to the back...
Another time a guy also like samone lifted me up n forcefully licked my vag, sooo not cool I hit him so hard
I hate when guys grab your boobs sooooo damn hard like there not attached, I have sensitive boobs or I hate when they just lick them without warning, creaps!
I hate when guys cum and when u go back to sit on their lap, theres a big wet spot, uuugggghhh!
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