Hey ladies,
I'm just wondering what some topics are that your bring up when doing a VIP/CRs that are NOT centered around dancing. I'm used to doing VIPs that were back to back lap dancing so it was more of a physical experience for the customer... now I'm doing air-dance VIPs and you can really only fill up so much of an hour with an air-dance that requires a 3 foot rule. I feel like it's more of an emotional experience for the customer and I'm struggling with it. I've had a couple customers criticize me for asking them too many questions.
I usually talk to them about where they're from-- if they're European I always make up some bullshit about how I'm going to visit that country and what should I do there, if they're British I talk about the difference between America and England/Scotland/Ireland/Wales. I ask them what they do for a living but no one ever wants to talk about that unless it's something fun and those customers are broke and don't spend money (i.e. actors, writers, artists, etc). I ask them what their favorite place they've traveled to is, if they've ever been to America and if they have if they liked it and where they went. And then I'm kind of stuck. I always try to keep the conversation more focused on them and not focused on me.
Occasionally I'll get a customer who I just have an easy rapport with and it's not an issue, but that's probably only a third of the time. I use a lot of body language when speaking to them and I've noticed that helps, but there are definitely a lot of times where I'm like fuck, I don't know what to say to this person... and the worst is when it's a customer who can barely speak English. With them I sometimes ask them to teach me words in their language but OMFG that shit is boring and annoying, even though they seem to enjoy it.
What are some good topics to bring up in the CR to keep them wanting to extend?




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