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    Default Charging more for fetish guys

    When you guys come across fetish customers in your club, do you charge extra?
    I've been dancing a long, long time and have come across a more than usual amount in the past month or two. I feel like I should be getting paid extra for catering to what it is they want. What do y'all think?
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    Ugh, I agree that the extra creativity and acting should justify charging a hefty premium in all cases.

    However, unless they're financial subs in my experience, most don't respond well to a hard hustle for tips. Many of them come to the club to have their fetishes indulged without feeling like their kinks are weird or a burden because they have unsupportive partners or are hiding out of fear. Emphasizing your need for extra payment often triggers shame. I prod them more gently than I do other types of customers.

    Luckily, most of them are so grateful to find someone who not only doesn't alienate them, but actually understands them, that they tip well of their own accord and/or give you tons of repeat business. One fetish customer was my biggest all time spender per hour, and because he came in three times, I can thank him for weeks worth of income. Another fetish customer was a meager tipper, but I was guaranteed to be booked in VIP for the rest of the night.

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    You're damn right you should charge them a hefty fee. I always do. Hell some get a kick out of being "shamed".
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    Default Re: Charging more for fetish guys

    I do try and make sure I never make them feel uncomfortable or that I think they are weird. I definitely try to be accommodating.
    I think it's more along the lines what you said about creativity and acting. I feel like it only seems fair I should get paid more since I feel I'm working harder. I hope I don't sound spoiled in saying that, because that's not my intention. I feel like I'm multitasking. It's not a simple lap dance. Ex: a lap dance while I'm choking a guy while role playing torture)
    I feel like my experiences with fetish guys "stay" with me too. Like after I am done dancing or whatever they like or want, I can't simply forget about it.
    Regardless, I'm not going to NOT interact with fetish guys. Some of them have tipped well, but for the ones that don't, it just seems like a bargain for them to pay $25/song like it's a routine lap dance.

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    I guess I used the term financial submissive pretty loosely. All I mean is that it's important to distinguish between the ones who love being shamed into spending $$ (basically fin subs to me) and the ones who don't. One of my customers acted like a dog in rooms and did NOT respond well to me soliciting tips -- he became totally self conscious when I did once and and I figured I'd lost him. He became a room regular so I appreciated his business despite the fact that he was never a hugely generous tipper. On the other hand, I consider the customer who spends $100 for each drop of champagne I spit into his mouth from two feet away on top of my VIP cut and other random tipping to be somewhat of a financial sub. As always, it's important to read the customer.

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