I've broken down an told some of my close friends...I am menopausal. Not peri-menopausal...full on going through the change. I thought I might have about 5 more years..but I am about the age when my mom went through this. It happens and I'm trying to have a sense of humor about it.
I had a major hot flash while I was out with some friends...we were dancing. I ran into the restroom...admitted to a women in there with me that I had a hot flash on the dance floor--the hand dryer was making the restroom MORE hot. She was like...yes...started for me 2 years ago...and she was 2 years older than me. She looked great BTW.
One of my friends is almost a decade older than me and she had said I might have to deal with full blown psychosis. Oh Joy...
Now that I'm not in denial...I am using several different remedies to alleviate my symptoms. The worst was anxiety and severe depression. I've only been on my new regime of holistic/herbal and some progesterone cream for half a week and I am feeling much better.
My sex drive disappeared as well...big bummer. I am hoping in the next few weeks it will return...I do feel some tingly sensations and nice horny thoughts again. I had also gotten some kind of libido spray at the Vitamin Shoppe when I was searching in the women's section.
I cannot change the fact I am going through "the change" I kind of thought it was happening over this past year, but I did not have the hot flashes or mood swings or the lack of desire for sex until a few months ago. It hit me really hard, but hopefully I have the symptoms under control.
Any other of you ladies been through this while you are webcamming??
I really need my sex drive back...it's kind of important for being a cam model.
I have seen some older women, say in their 50s who are cam models...and they are still sensual and have regulars--that gives me hope.
Has anyone else on SW been through this and how did you get your libido back?
Did anyone have severe anxiety and mood swings?
I have not tried the libido spray yet--I will. I have been able to just have fun on my own with some of my toys this past week--that's a good sign. Unbelievable that I had lost interest in sex, but I did. I think I can get back on track--just wondering if any other cam models on here have some tips or even just some funny stories.



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. I have had the same one for about 10 years but I never used it much until a few months ago because it irritated me. I tried again and now I like it. I think I was using too much pressure before.

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