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    Something I've noticed is that when I go up and tip a good looking dancer on stage she will say "Have a good night". My take is that it means get lost. Now I'm one of the nicest respectul men in the clubl. But I tend to get this qiuite often with the best looking girls in the club. Should I just take it as get lost and look elsevwhere?

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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    How much do you tip? Do you give them any indication that you are interested in spending more time (and therefore more money) with them? If you don't verbally and financially express interest in them, then they are not likely to express interest in you. This is especially true if you are only one of dozens of customers that tip them on stage. You have to get noticed.
    I would suggest both increasing your stage tip amount and also proposing meeting after their stage run. If the club has a VIP area then those three letters can be music to their ears.
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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    I'm not surprised, I mean to me that's a farewell statement, when I'm leaving a customer I say that. How about changing it into a question like "are you having a good night?" that will set a convo in motion.

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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    Quote Originally Posted by joyluckstripclub View Post
    Something I've noticed is that when I go up and tip a good looking dancer on stage she will say "Have a good night". My take is that it means get lost. Now I'm one of the nicest respectul men in the clubl. But I tend to get this qiuite often with the best looking girls in the club. Should I just take it as get lost and look elsevwhere?
    Try this...

    Dancer: "Have a good night"
    You: "Thank you, maybe you would like to join me at my table for a drink after your stage set."

    Simple....
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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    If all you do is tip her, without at least saying something, isn't that equally dismissive, sort of like you saying "thank you for entertaining me, have a good night"? Also take into consideration that the better looking the dancer, quite often the less effort she needs to or is likely to put into her job.
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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    Are you one of those douchebags who tips the girl by putting the dollar bill on your face or in your mouth?
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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    Unless you tip a very large amount, I'd assume you were just being polite and tipping for the stage set. A few dollars isn't enough to get a girl to say "Oh wow, that guy really likes me and must want me to come over to him afterward!" If you want a girl's attention for later, ask her to come over when she's done as you hand her the tip. I'm sure she'll oblige. "Have a good night," is just a standard thing to say to someone if you don't think you'll see them later, and a customer who doesn't make it obvious that they want dances/VIP after just tipping for stage fits that category. If a stripper wanted you to get lost, she'd probably just tell you to get lost.
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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    Quote Originally Posted by safado View Post
    Are you one of those douchebags who tips the girl by putting the dollar bill on your face or in your mouth?
    Absolutely not!

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    Default Re: Have a good night.

    IME a girl says this when she either really thinks you're leaving (it does happen, lol) or she's not thinking of you as an immediate source of income. If you want her to think differently, just do what Yoda said and ask her to join you when she frees up.

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