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    Well, turning 17. My financial situation is far from where it *needs* to be right now. I feel bad even bringing this up, like who actually wants to help a 17 year old become a stripper. The thing is, this is without a doubt one of the smartest decisions I could be making right now. I need a job opportunity this lucrative. Looking for an actual job has been a hassle and I've yet to even get a phone call back from all the places I applied to. This has been going on for months. Even if I were to get hired I would be making 100 or less a week, which is far from enough to help my situation. I've thought long and hard about this. Bought my outfits and heels. Looked into a couple of places around NY. My bright idea is to just go, audition, repeat, until somebody hires me. Somebody should...I think I'm pretty enough for this. At the end of the day I'm not even 18 yet. When you first go to a strip club to audition do you get carded? Do you have to pay an admission fee? I'm mainly worried about being carded. The only girls I know who could help me I kind of don't trust. One of them said she could help me get a fake I.D. I probably don't even have the money to buy that. The other girl said she herself was a stripper and could help me find a place, and an I.D. Me and one of our mutual friends agreed that they probably aren't going to actually help me unless I do them some favors, or prostitute myself with them to come up with the money. I rather not. I would really appreciate it if anybody is okay with just letting me know about a couple of places around NY that maybe wouldn't ask, at least as long as I look the part... Were any of you asked to show some I.D upon entering the club as somebody auditioning? I don't know if I could just sit back and wait a year, just thinking about how much better I could be doing by the time I'm 18 makes me really not want to put myself on hold. That could make a few of my current problems worst. Any tips?

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    no, don't do it. just wait another year. if a club gets caught hiring a underage girl, they could ( and probably will) get shut down. it happened to a club near me recently. i have never gotten hired at a club that did not at least ask to see my ID, and most of them will probably ask for more these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    no, don't do it. just wait another year. if a club gets caught hiring a underage girl, they could ( and probably will) get shut down. it happened to a club near me recently. i have never gotten hired at a club that did not at least ask to see my ID, and most of them will probably ask for more these days.
    Damn, yeah. I was thinking about the trouble they could get in but kind of forgot about that. The selfish part of me just thinks about being at one of those clubs that do all sorts of illegal shit behind closed doors, and not really getting in any trouble because of everything else that would be going on, you know.

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    ^ well you probably wouldn't want to work in a club like that anyways!

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    I started when I was underage but that was many moons ago in the Wild west. With all these clubs getting bad PR from underage dancers they're going to cover their asses.
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    AT this age you are NOT prepared for the emotional toll that job will take or the predators.

    EVERY single club will ask for a legal ID, they have scanners to make sure it is legit. No matter what goes on behind closed doors, two wrongs don't make a right.

    Today strip clubs are basically whore houses. Since you are worried about being prostituted out, you are NOT ready to do $20 blow jobs in the back room either.

    NO club is going to risk their liquor license for you either.

    Find a way to get into college. Study hard & get a full scholarship that pays for room & board as well.

    Stripping is not always the answer or the best place for a kid.

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    First of all, because I care about your safety, I want to make this very clear to you: Do not trust anyone who claims they can "help you" become a stripper. Don't trust them if they're your friends, neighbours, aquaintances, whatever. Someone offering to "help" an underage girl into the industry SCREEAAMMSS....pimp. I've worked with many girls that started underage, many of them were pimped out or taken advantage of in some way. Don't let that be you. Do your own research and help yourself. Which is what I see you're trying to do here, good first step.

    Can I ask for you to please tell us why your situation is so bad that you feel you need to start stripping NOW to improve it?I first started thinking about stripping when I was around your age as well, so I'm not judging you or anything, just trying to get a feel for what's going on.
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    I know everyone has a desire to help this young lady but - because she is underage I had to ban her - this is not my section to moderate so it will be at the discretion of the mod whether to leave this thread or not - in the meantime I think you ladies are sharing some sound advice and I'm sure she can see it

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    Like Simone said you definitely don't want to work somewhere that won't take an ID because it means there is some nasty shit going on in there. I have never not been asked for it, and they also want a social security number as well. I was in your position when I first started dancing, I was 19 but I desperately didn't want to work in a nude club and all the clubs in CA that are bikini/topless serve alcohol so you have to be 21 to work in them. I had a fake ID at the time and I considered just going into one of those clubs with it, but I never went through with it because I was too worried about getting caught.

    Honestly, just wait a year and start then. If you are worried about losing time to practice your hustle, take pole dancing classes, read up on hustle hut, etc. You are a baby, I feel like 19 was too young! When I look back on the decisions that I made my first year of dancing I cringe, I was so eager to please that I let a lot of customers cross boundaries that if they went near now I would stick my heel up their ass. And to be honest, I didn't start making real money until I was older. I used to lie about how old I was because only creeps wants to have a naked teenager in front of them. I'm 24 now and customers definitely like it a lot more because I'm just a young, pretty girl and not a baby that creeps them out cause I could be the same age as their daughter. And I can have real conversations with them and speak to them on a more equal level (though I of course lower my IQ 20 points so they're a bit above me) which translates to longer time in VIP, bigger tips, longer-lasting regulars of higher quality, etc. I know you think you're all grown up and know everything about the world cause that's exactly what I thought when I was your age and I'm sorry if this comes off as condescending, but you are VERY young and not ready to jump into the world of stripping.

    Also, think about others. Not only would the club you worked at get shut down, but there would probably be a raid and all the other dancers would at least have to deal with being dragged down to the police station, treated like shit, and possibly getting charges piled on them as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I started when I was underage but that was many moons ago in the Wild west. With all these clubs getting bad PR from underage dancers they're going to cover their asses.
    I also started underage many years ago. Very different these days. Technology is alot more in our lives these days and I think you'd be more likely to get caught by management or ownership if they actually care about staying in business. You're very young. Don't be in a hurry to grow up!

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    I know this is not what you want to hear - it sucks being broke and in a bad position - you might consider a one year trade school to get you out of the position of working minium wage jobs- off the top of my head - hair stylist - massage therapist - in my area one of the massage schools can be completed in 6 months if you double up and you can come out making 15 to 20 an hour ---- two years - nursing school - and many hospitals will repay any student loans that you acquired while in school -my early home life sucked and I had to make my way pretty young too - adult entertainment is no easy road - all of us here have paid a price to make the "easy money" that everyone thinks we make - it can be a lucrative path but dont put yourself in a position that it is your only path -

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    I hope one of the mods tracked her IP and make a phone call to CPS or the local police of wherever this SIXTEEN year old girl is. She needs help, but not from SW.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odette View Post
    Someone offering to "help" an underage girl into the industry SCREEAAMMSS....pimp.
    This exactly. Anyone willing to help a child enter any part of the sex industry is most likely a pimp. Trusting advice or help from anyone willing to help a 16 year old become a stripper is probably one of the best ways to end up in a very bad, very inescapable situation.
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    Honestly, someone helping you underage does not only scream pimp, but it also screams "we will do other things not by the book as well". Not to mention they're risking a felony and a lifetime membership to a sex offender registration for exposing a minor to "obscene material". You could not only get yourself in deep shit, but anyone and everyone involved at that club slapped with charges. Take some pole dancing classes, work out, and try not to get in trouble until you're 18.
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    Everyone has said how dangerous it is. Also, why do you want to strip? If its for money, which i think is what you are saying, chances are you won't even make good money doing it, especially your first year. You'd be better off getting a regular job, where you know you'll be getting paid.
    The #one rule of stripper safety in general is to be independent and to take care of yourself. You are more important than money. Don't ever trust someone with your job to that point. Whether they are a pimp or not, which they most likely are, they don't have your best interest at heart and will not be able to protect you and know your limits like you can for yourself. And the fact that you don't not to do that already shows you are not ready to strip, you will get hurt, and torn apart by the other girls, the customers, staff, lifestyle, etc.
    If you get caught using a fake id in the club you could get felony charges. If you get felony charges, you could end up in jail, no one will EVER hire you, so you will never get another job, and then you will have no money amyways , you will have a criminal record and mess up your life. Its not worth it
    So wait until your eighteen, do some research about club safety on this website, or better yet get a different job.
    Use google to look for tips on job hunting, never apply online, it never works. Instead go to local places with paper applications, visit managers in person and try to talk to them, ask people you know to talk to their employers.

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