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    At the moment I can keep my gal reasonably happy in bed...with some instruction on her end. However, she herself is sometimes clueless on what I should do.
    From what I've been told by some helpful people here, she's a "clit" gal b/c she gets off from fingering? However, sometimes she only gets a isolated contraction
    at the clit without getting a full body contraction (which is orgasm?)...usually it's 60% full body/40% isolated.

    Any helpful tips or techniques to improve the experience or to increase my success rate?

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    "Eye Roll" You are such a troll! Who comes on a site with strippers, cam models, PSOs and other sex workers to talk about lovemaking secrets. There are other forums on the internet for that. Why should we care about your sexual success?

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    Default Re: Need help pleasing the gal - tips and techniques?

    Hire a man to satisfy her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Law View Post
    However, she herself is sometimes clueless on what I should do.
    If she doesn't know what makes her feel good, what makes you think we will? lol. These "How to Please a Woman/Man" topics are goofy because every person likes different things. I'm sorry but the only way to please your girl more is to experiment and communicate with her in person.

    Or, if you just wanted to hear sex workers discuss the sordid details of what gets them off, there are many sites just for you! But this isn't one of them.

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    Rub your wallet on her clit.
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    Get her a Hitachi and leave the room for a good twenty minutes. Trust me, it's life changing.
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    Awesome!

    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Rub your wallet on her clit.

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    buy her a sybian and call it a day

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    Quote Originally Posted by DonaDiabla View Post
    "Eye Roll" You are such a troll! Who comes on a site with strippers, cam models, PSOs and other sex workers to talk about lovemaking secrets. There are other forums on the internet for that. Why should we care about your sexual success?
    Aww The few other places often either have folks on one end of the extreme and folks on the other end.

    Quote Originally Posted by starlily View Post
    If she doesn't know what makes her feel good, what makes you think we will? lol. These "How to Please a Woman/Man" topics are goofy because every person likes different things. I'm sorry but the only way to please your girl more is to experiment and communicate with her in person.
    Or, if you just wanted to hear sex workers discuss the sordid details of what gets them off, there are many sites just for you! But this isn't one of them.
    Good point. I guess I'll just have to experiment.

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    buy her a sybian and call it a day
    Good idea.

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    Really SripperWeb? That's all we got these days? This thread could have been a masterwork, lol. *sigh*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Almost Jaded View Post
    Really SripperWeb? That's all we got these days? This thread could have been a masterwork, lol. *sigh*
    Sure, who's to say it's not? Some great suggestions, is that all you got, lol?


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    C'mon, all, bumpie bump


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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Rub your wallet on her clit.
    If it is big enough.

    Or go on a cam site and tip the performers for advice. Maybe they can walk you though it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vicexxx View Post
    buy her a sybian and call it a day
    Yup. That would do it.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Read, "The Four Hour Body" by Tim Ferris. There is a chapter in that book called "The 15 minute female orgasm" and it is spot on! It is told from a dude's perspective and makes a great instructional resource.

    The synopsis is, when your lady is on her back and you are looking at her vulva from between her legs, what you want to do is find the part of the clit that would be 1 o'clock. That is the most sensitive part on 99% of all women. Then, with a feather light touch, gently stimulate that part of her clit in a rhythmic fashion. Coach her to breathe through the sensations instead of all the moaning and writhing that usually goes on during sex. She should be in a semi-meditative state.

    I can't overstate how light of a touch this requires. Pretend you are fondling a rose petal and you don't want to damage the flower. If I can actually feel motion on my clit, that means my man is using too strong of a touch.

    Another side note, do not penetrate her. Until she has learned how to relax into this kind of orgasmic experience, penetration will be just a distraction.

    ETA: This video demostrates the technique perfectly: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.ph...key=1200349794

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tourdefranzia View Post
    Read, "The Four Hour Body" by Tim Ferris. There is a chapter in that book called "The 15 minute female orgasm" and it is spot on! It is told from a dude's perspective and makes a great instructional resource.

    The synopsis is, when your lady is on her back and you are looking at her vulva from between her legs, what you want to do is find the part of the clit that would be 1 o'clock. That is the most sensitive part on 99% of all women. Then, with a feather light touch, gently stimulate that part of her clit in a rhythmic fashion. Coach her to breathe through the sensations instead of all the moaning and writhing that usually goes on during sex. She should be in a semi-meditative state.

    I can't overstate how light of a touch this requires. Pretend you are fondling a rose petal and you don't want to damage the flower. If I can actually feel motion on my clit, that means my man is using too strong of a touch.

    Another side note, do not penetrate her. Until she has learned how to relax into this kind of orgasmic experience, penetration will be just a distraction.

    ETA: This video demostrates the technique perfectly: http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.ph...key=1200349794
    Wow, Great thanks!


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    Man, would I love to try that !
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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