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    I've done bachelor parties and club dancing, but have never done a 1-on-1 show. A regular of mine has asked me to meet OTC and I said no as a knee jerk answer. This guy is nice and always tips generously, but wants to take the show home. I'm just wondering what customer expectations are OTC?

    I'm ok with contact and toy shows, but have never performed for a customer while he made himself...ahem...comfortable. I'm assuming that is the main reason for requesting OTC shows, possibly because he wants to smoke a joint while enjoying the show as well (which I'm ok with. I live in Portland after all).

    I'm just wondering how other dancers have handled OTC and if they would do it again if asked? I know everyone's experience will be different, just curious, I guess.

    FYI: I'm talking about legal shows only.

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    I don't know, OTC scares the shit out of me. I did it once with another girl and left without getting paid. The customer asked me to fuck him in the ass with a dildo and I was like uhm, no, sorry and the girl I was with was totally OK with it.

    If you know this customer very well and the boundaries are clear, then maybe give it a try, it's just my experience that OTC just doesn't mean out of the club, it means things that aren't allowed in the club!

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    sending you a PM!

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    Default Re: OTC experiences

    Customer expectations for OTC vary, so if you're going to do it, try and get a clear idea of what that specific customer's expectations are. If they're super vague, they're probably hoping for sex (I mean, they all are in the end, but some are okay at first), so tread with caution. If you decide to go for it with anyone, settle on a payment amount beforehand and get it upfront, before any of the "fun" happens.

    Also, don't just go to someone's house or sketchy motel or wherever else. Meet in public first, bring a friend, have some sort of security nearby, make a big show of texting/calling a friend/roommate that you got there and will text/call again in x amount of time "because they worry about you," etc., etc., just do SOMETHING so you're not just waltzing into a potentially dangerous situation -- just because someone is nice and tips in the club, doesn't mean they will be nice outside the club.

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    Customer expectations for OTC vary, so if you're going to do it, try and get a clear idea of what that specific customer's expectations are. If they're super vague, they're probably hoping for sex
    IMHO in a one-on-one OTC situation, sex is virtually always a part of the 'transaction'. Nothing wrong with that if you understand the 'business model', but big problems can result if you aren't prepared to deliver what the customer is expecting.


    just because someone is nice and tips in the club, doesn't mean they will be nice outside the club.
    Amen Sister !!! Indeed customers can and do behave VERY differently when there isn't any bouncer ... or for that matter, any witnesses ... within 'shouting distance'. In today's scenario where cops / prosecutors / judges / jury members are much more likely to believe a 'fine upstanding citizen's' version of events, versus taking the word of a 'lying, thieving, drug addicted, whore stripper', dancers now have extremely little 'leverage' where OTC activities are concerned. And I'm talking about both voluntary and IN-voluntary activities, if you catch my drift.

    Even back in the pre Duke Lacrosse days where being a 'stripper' didn't automatically place the girl at a legal 'disadvantage', I still made it a point to confine all of my OTC activities to 'group' events like bachelor parties ... and even then I always took 'security' with me.
    Last edited by Melonie; 05-31-2014 at 09:41 AM.

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    Default Re: OTC experiences

    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    IMHO in a one-on-one OTC situation, sex is virtually always a part of the 'transaction'. Nothing wrong with that if you understand the 'business model', but big problems can result if you aren't prepared to deliver what the customer is expecting.

    Even back in the pre Duke Lacrosse days where being a 'stripper' didn't automatically place the girl at a legal 'disadvantage', I still made it a point to confine all of my OTC activities to 'group' events like bachelor parties ... and even then I always took 'security' with me.
    Thank you! I've done bachelor parties and group shows in the past, and those usually wind up being very profitable and I've rarely had problems (I've always used security and stayed stone cold sober the whole time). My issue is that even though I like doing parties, I'm in my mid-40's now and my appeal is now (mostly) older gentlemen. They rarely have "parties" of this sort, but don't mind dropping $400-500 an hour in the club for VIP. Those are the guys I'd like to see OTC.

    I have lots of offers to meet outside the club. I've always rejected the offers because I just thought it would be awful. But I'm beginning to think that having to stay at the club for 6-7 hour shifts just to see one high roller is getting too hard on my body. I'm in great physical condition for a 44 year old. Hell, I did a 90 minute pole dancing class yesterday before I went for a 42 mile (67km) bike ride (20 miles of that was UPHILL!) and came home and walked my dog for 4 miles. But let me tell you, I'm feeling it today! Getting out of bed after all that was a feat in and of itself, LOL!

    I'm just looking for options to continue to do the job I love while caring for my body. If I decide to go this route, I will post about my experiences here. I haven't decided how I want to handle this situation yet. I may just book some space at a Jack Shack near me for security purposes.

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    Default Re: OTC experiences

    I have done a few but not many. First, I always got the money upfront and brought a bouncer. I also didn't do this often and the customer was always someone I knew several months. Unfortunately most of the time it does imply sex which is why I generally avoided it.

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    I had done all sorts of (legal) OTC activities. I'm sending you a PM.





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    Yeah, definitely get your money up front! When I had my horrible OTC experience he paid us up front but gave the money to my friend to split since she did OTC with him regularly and she refused to give me my half since I left and kept all of it. I think having another girl, or some kind of security, would definitely be a good thing!

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