I am not into slagging people down, especially not in the club where I choose to conduct myself professionally (it is my job after all!) In fact, if I find another dancer pretty, I will compliment her hair/shoes/whatever. If I don't think she is attractive, I just won't say anything. Simple as that.
Tonight, I was talking with a nice guy, and this other dancer kept pushing herself at him and basically twisting his arm to buy a dance from her. He was not interested in her in the least. He liked me very much, and actually wanted a dance from me; but he didn't want to go off with me because he was so scared of how she would react. She was also trying to boss me around and intimidate me, but I politely ignored her and brushed her right off. She finally left us alone, but not after she'd put us both through a fair amount of hell.
We kept talking and later on he told me what she said about me when I first walked by: "She looks likes she's 12 and her mother did her hair." (I will never confront her about this though) TBH, this dancer is not attractive, she is out of shape, and her face is very run-down looking, like she's 10 years older than she is.
Not trying to flatter myself, but her jealousy was *soooo* obvious- even the customer picked up on it, as she kept trying to impress him and get his attention, plus she threw me nasty looks and continued trying to belittle me in whatever way she could.
Since the guy was scared to get a dance with me after all that, he ended up just handing me a twenty plus lots more on stage. She got zero dollars from him.
So I'm curious- do you insult/compliment other dancers? I wanna hear your stories ladies!!![]()



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