(sorry for yet another "does she like me" post)
I met a dancer a couple of months ago at the local strip club. I've never bought a dance or gone to the VIP room with her, and I don't tip her any more than I do anyone else. Nonetheless, she always sits with me between dances for the entire time I'm there. She's extremely flirty - she gazes into my eyes and holds my hand for long periods of time when we're sitting together (usually at the bar), and she constantly tells me she likes me. We also touch each other A LOT, pretty much everywhere. Our conversations consist of just about everything under the sun, including extremely graphic sex talk.
One night, her shift ended shortly after I got there, so she got dressed and she hung out with me (at the SC) for about six hours. She called her best friend up to come meet me, and told the bouncer at the door that I'm a friend, not a customer. I know her real first and last name (and her fake real name), we have exchanged (real) phone numbers, and we're friends on Facebook. She talks about doing things OTC frequently.
She makes maybe $10-20 from me over the course of an entire night when I visit the club, and I've made it clear to her that I think it's silly to pay for OTC activities or to give dancers gifts/huge tips/etc. I've been going to strip clubs for a long time all over the world and I've never encountered a dancer that behaves like this for so little money before. I don't think she's just bad at her job - she claims to be the top earning dancer there and she does seem to be quite popular with other customers (judging by the number of dances/VIP rooms she does). I asked her about it, and she told me she really enjoys my company and that she has a bit of a crush on me, but that she doesn't really trust me yet so she wants to hang out ITC for a while before we do anything else.
Another thing that's weird about this situation: I'm a pretty generous tipper, but now most of the other dancers don't approach me at all for tips/drinks/dances. I also get in for free sometimes and the bartender pours me extra and/or gives me free drinks quite often.
I'm having trouble deciding if this is all normal SS or not. Am I one of this girl's regulars (and getting strung along), or should I take her at her word?


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and I don't mean to derail the thread. This might actually be an interesting topic for a thread on the blue side.

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