I'll be blatantly honest here. The last thing I worry about is what a dancer pays to the house. I can't control it and girls who whine to me it about seldom get to know me very well. Whatever a dancer's deal is with the club is between her and the club. Granted there are no super high end GC's in my clubbing circle but I'm sure there are some regulars of mine in one or two clubs paying well north of $100 a night to work. That seems low compared to the numbers I see on SW especially from the ladies working in bigger cities. In any event, all I can do is enter the club with the intention of spending generously on the girl(s) that I am going to see. I leave it up to them to decide how much value my time and money have in their over-all plans for the day/night.
I tend to gravitate towards experienced dancers who don't waste a lot of time with guys who aren't spending money. The story outlined in the first post here would never happen with any of my regs. Investing hours of ITC time for no money in the hopes of future revenue? Get fucking real would you please! The club is strictly an "immediate rewards" environment even for girls who have tons of regulars. My ATF at one club absolutely forbids me from visiting her on Mondays. We like to chat, maybe do lunch and hang before going to VIP but Monday is her busiest day of the week and she has no time to spend with me beyond dance time. Monday is her "wham bam, NEXT!" day and she banks big time. Another regular gal a few weeks ago asked me not to come on a particular day because she had a whale coming in who generally does a couple of hours with her in VIP but he wouldn't nail down his arrival time. Does that make me mad? Hell no! She was being honest. That guys $800 or $900 is very important to her. My $400 is important as well but we would both rather I come in to spend it on a slow afternoon when we can chill and enjoy each other's company for a while. I like my regs and part of my gig is that I go in on slow afternoons when they are really happy to see both me and my money rather than waste a lot of time "working" guys who are either going to waste their time or only buy one dance. My regs don't tend to be high-hustle girls but they aren't naive either. A smart dancer knows her environment.
Am I a regular? Sure. Not only do I embrace that label but I enjoy the benefits of being a generous regular with good timing and a flexible schedule as well. That being said, a good regular doesn't out stay his welcome, doesn't take advantage of a dancer's generosity and never forgets her need to earn every shift, every week of every month. Yes, there are guys out there who show up at the end of the month with their "hey honey, your rent is due, I want' a discount" flag waving as they walk in the door. Mostly what a good regular doesn't do is show up on a website populated primarily by exotic dancers and brag about spending all evening with a dancer that he spent less than $20 on. Since the OP hasn't been back to revisit this thread yet I'm going to assume he got his 15 minutes of attention on the interwebs and has moved on...





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and I don't mean to derail the thread. This might actually be an interesting topic for a thread on the blue side.
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