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    Default Re: Am I a regular now?

    I'll be blatantly honest here. The last thing I worry about is what a dancer pays to the house. I can't control it and girls who whine to me it about seldom get to know me very well. Whatever a dancer's deal is with the club is between her and the club. Granted there are no super high end GC's in my clubbing circle but I'm sure there are some regulars of mine in one or two clubs paying well north of $100 a night to work. That seems low compared to the numbers I see on SW especially from the ladies working in bigger cities. In any event, all I can do is enter the club with the intention of spending generously on the girl(s) that I am going to see. I leave it up to them to decide how much value my time and money have in their over-all plans for the day/night.

    I tend to gravitate towards experienced dancers who don't waste a lot of time with guys who aren't spending money. The story outlined in the first post here would never happen with any of my regs. Investing hours of ITC time for no money in the hopes of future revenue? Get fucking real would you please! The club is strictly an "immediate rewards" environment even for girls who have tons of regulars. My ATF at one club absolutely forbids me from visiting her on Mondays. We like to chat, maybe do lunch and hang before going to VIP but Monday is her busiest day of the week and she has no time to spend with me beyond dance time. Monday is her "wham bam, NEXT!" day and she banks big time. Another regular gal a few weeks ago asked me not to come on a particular day because she had a whale coming in who generally does a couple of hours with her in VIP but he wouldn't nail down his arrival time. Does that make me mad? Hell no! She was being honest. That guys $800 or $900 is very important to her. My $400 is important as well but we would both rather I come in to spend it on a slow afternoon when we can chill and enjoy each other's company for a while. I like my regs and part of my gig is that I go in on slow afternoons when they are really happy to see both me and my money rather than waste a lot of time "working" guys who are either going to waste their time or only buy one dance. My regs don't tend to be high-hustle girls but they aren't naive either. A smart dancer knows her environment.

    Am I a regular? Sure. Not only do I embrace that label but I enjoy the benefits of being a generous regular with good timing and a flexible schedule as well. That being said, a good regular doesn't out stay his welcome, doesn't take advantage of a dancer's generosity and never forgets her need to earn every shift, every week of every month. Yes, there are guys out there who show up at the end of the month with their "hey honey, your rent is due, I want' a discount" flag waving as they walk in the door. Mostly what a good regular doesn't do is show up on a website populated primarily by exotic dancers and brag about spending all evening with a dancer that he spent less than $20 on. Since the OP hasn't been back to revisit this thread yet I'm going to assume he got his 15 minutes of attention on the interwebs and has moved on...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Where do you club ushar?
    Ontario.

    The highest club fee I've heard of is $150/night, and that's at a high-end club. You can't get a moment's rest in there without being interrupted by dancers, and some of them can hound you all night regardless of how little interest you express in them. Even so, it's not the most hostile club. That honour belongs to an extras-heavy club in the area (@$125/night).

    The most relaxed atmosphere is in a club that charges no nightly fee for dancers and is light on the extras. No one starts in the hole, and no one gives more than they want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I'll be blatantly honest here. The last thing I worry about is what a dancer pays to the house. I can't control it and girls who whine to me it about seldom get to know me very well. Whatever a dancer's deal is with the club is between her and the club. Granted there are no super high end GC's in my clubbing circle but I'm sure there are some regulars of mine in one or two clubs paying well north of $100 a night to work. That seems low compared to the numbers I see on SW especially from the ladies working in bigger cities. In any event, all I can do is enter the club with the intention of spending generously on the girl(s) that I am going to see. I leave it up to them to decide how much value my time and money have in their over-all plans for the day/night.

    I tend to gravitate towards experienced dancers who don't waste a lot of time with guys who aren't spending money. The story outlined in the first post here would never happen with any of my regs. Investing hours of ITC time for no money in the hopes of future revenue? Get fucking real would you please! The club is strictly an "immediate rewards" environment even for girls who have tons of regulars. My ATF at one club absolutely forbids me from visiting her on Mondays. We like to chat, maybe do lunch and hang before going to VIP but Monday is her busiest day of the week and she has no time to spend with me beyond dance time. Monday is her "wham bam, NEXT!" day and she banks big time. Another regular gal a few weeks ago asked me not to come on a particular day because she had a whale coming in who generally does a couple of hours with her in VIP but he wouldn't nail down his arrival time. Does that make me mad? Hell no! She was being honest. That guys $800 or $900 is very important to her. My $400 is important as well but we would both rather I come in to spend it on a slow afternoon when we can chill and enjoy each other's company for a while. I like my regs and part of my gig is that I go in on slow afternoons when they are really happy to see both me and my money rather than waste a lot of time "working" guys who are either going to waste their time or only buy one dance. My regs don't tend to be high-hustle girls but they aren't naive either. A smart dancer knows her environment.

    Am I a regular? Sure. Not only do I embrace that label but I enjoy the benefits of being a generous regular with good timing and a flexible schedule as well. That being said, a good regular doesn't out stay his welcome, doesn't take advantage of a dancer's generosity and never forgets her need to earn every shift, every week of every month. Yes, there are guys out there who show up at the end of the month with their "hey honey, your rent is due, I want' a discount" flag waving as they walk in the door. Mostly what a good regular doesn't do is show up on a website populated primarily by exotic dancers and brag about spending all evening with a dancer that he spent less than $20 on. Since the OP hasn't been back to revisit this thread yet I'm going to assume he got his 15 minutes of attention on the interwebs and has moved on...
    When I was in New England a few years ago and having a horrible time( because my gf couldn't get hired anywhere) I Should of messaged you and just worked( because I was hired at some clubs I think you frequent) I think we would of got on well as I'm experienced and an extremely good conversationalist. Though I don't frequent this section often I always agree with your posts I read and I'll bet you have a sarcastic sense of humor and appreciate it as much as I.
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    ^ Wow I don't know what happened with that quote.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Putting aside for a second how much of the OP's yarn I buy, ushar does make an interesting point about the impact that house fees can have on dancer behavior. I tend to dislike clubbing in places where house fees are exorbitant because I find the hustle and overall BS factors to be high. After all, what can you expect when each girl in a club is in the hole $200+ before she steps foot on the floor? Now one could argue that this type of structure also weeds out the weak talent, but in my opinion the bad behaviors often found in these places generally outweigh any incremental improvement in talent.

    Conversely, as someone who often visits clubs with lower house fees, and some that even charge very little or nothing, I can say that there are definitely bad sides to this as well. Girls who probably shouldn't be dancing at all, those who don't want to interact with guys at all, and those who don't treat this as a real job, etc., are much more likely to survive far longer in a place where they don't have a nut to cover. The lack of a sink or swim element also doesn't force girls to develop sales skills. It has often been my experience that clubs that don't charge much in the way of house fees tend to be a very mixed bag on the talent and motivation front.

    Anyway, just my and I don't mean to derail the thread. This might actually be an interesting topic for a thread on the blue side.
    I completely agree with your second part of the post about clubs with low house fees.

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    ^ Wow I don't know what happened with that quote.
    Fixed it!

    I club mostly in Providence RI and in mass clubs. If you find yourself back in the area let me know!
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    I can think of 3 men off the top of my head who I like to hang out with just like the OP described. I don't consider them my "regulars" so much as my "at work" friends. I don't socialize with people from work, and socializing in the vanilla world can be tense and awkward at times.

    I have never dated or slept with any of those guys, although heavy flirting and making out with them is fun sometimes. It's just fun and relaxing to hang out with someone who knows my sexy side of my personality. There's nothing more to it than that. My favorite guy to hang out with like this is married, but the other two are single. I have to be careful not to give my single guy friends the wrong idea about my intentions. I'm never interested in a relationship. Just some no strings attached, sexy friendship.

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