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    My hair is impossible. Think Hermione Granger, before they started turning her into a model. Think '80's hair band. Before every shift I take an hour to iron the shit out of it into kinda shiny smooth sophisticated waves which goes well with my upscale bondage-y look. But I get the most compliments at the end of the night when sweat from dancing has started making it wild and pouffy and curled again. So tonight I'm gonna try leaving it completely alone and going for bedroom eyes, vampire lips, and a fuck me against a wall flyaway mane. Hopefully my money stays the same...or improves!

    Anyone else with crazy locks let 'em swing free? Does it work for you? Do you end up feeling messy compared to all the gleaming extensions? I'll update with pictures if possible.

    *** UPDATE: Terrible idea- although I think it had less to do with my look than with me being exhausted and PMSing hard. I made half what I usually do on a Saturday. Lesson learned: If I don't feel like being a goddamn diva from head to toe, I probably shouldn't go in. (whateves- everyone else had a dreadful night too and I still made in 4 hours what it would take 40 to earn at a crap job -wtf 40hrs a week at a $9.50 minimum wage is only $380).
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    I have really curly spanish girl hair that I hate and straighten religiously for years. I dont dance, but like you I always get the most compliments from guys if I straighten it but then it gets sweaty and frizzy or humidity gets it. I do like it kinda wavy and bigger that way but it is by no means my natural curly curls. when its completely natural i don't really get complimented by anyone except maybe a few girls w super straight hair who just like curls. :// thats just me personally though

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    10411429_10152356133454823_2924670162361092087_n.jpg i kinda like how this girl is wearing her hair..some straight pieces in the front and the rest really curly. maybe pinned back in certain places.

    i have hair like that too. helena bonham carter like.. crazy frizzy curly mess. it's a huge pain. i've never gone to work completely natural ( because i suffer from triangle hair as well) but i've taken the curling iron ( or the wave iron) to uneven places and smoothed it down with a lot of hair serum. maybe pin it up into a messy half up do. my boyfriend goes nuts when i leave my hair curly, but i think its because he's still stuck in the 80s or something. LOL ..you never know til you try. i say try it out, and see how it goes..

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    Well, do what I did back in 2010: let it grow. That's what I did...and I went to look like a hair metal singer to looking like Idina Menzel.
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    Have you thought about getting a Keratin Treatment done, I have hair like that as well and a Keratine Treatment saved my life and I found it pretty cheap on Groupon.

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    I use an olive oil heat protecting serum even if I'm not using heat on my hair. I have a lot of hair and it is THICK. The olive oil helps weigh it down and it still looks thick and "big" without the frizz. I do not apply it near my scalp though because it'll look like I haven't washed it in forever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    lookiing like a bank ....i love it!

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    I'm moving this thread to Body Business where you might get more people who are looking for hair topics. Thanks!
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    I second the Keratin treatment. I got the Brazilian Keratin done at a Brazilian salon here in New York and it made my frizzy bleached hair beautiful! And oh so manageable. My Brazilian girlfriend has crazy curly hair, but when she gets the Keratin done it turns into long, soft sexy waves and stays that way for a couple of months.

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    Just be careful you do your research on what type of Keratin treatment you are getting. A lot of salons, especially on sites like Groupon, Lifebooker, LivingSocial, have jumped onto the "Brazilian Blowout" trend but if you Google them they're not technically associated with the actual Brazilian Blowout company.

    To be honest, I got the actual Brazilian Blowout done at a certified salon and it wasn't all that. The Brazilian Keratin did a better job

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    I have pin-straight hair and I'm always trying to make it bouncy, curly, and freshly-fucked looking. If you've already noticed that guys dig your hair when it's frizzy, and you were in a bad mood the night you tanked, you should try it again!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BarbieNYC View Post
    I second the Keratin treatment. I got the Brazilian Keratin done at a Brazilian salon here in New York and it made my frizzy bleached hair beautiful! And oh so manageable. My Brazilian girlfriend has crazy curly hair, but when she gets the Keratin done it turns into long, soft sexy waves and stays that way for a couple of months.
    What about the treatments they sell, are those as good? I've seen some @ Ulta.com, pretty expensive..


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    There's this keratin packets for .98 at Wal Mart. I've got it on my head now. I'll post a pic later to report.
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    Well, do what I did back in 2010: let it grow. That's what I did...and I went to look like a hair metal singer to looking like Idina Menzel.
    Yuuuuup. This is what I did. I have almost the exact same hair as you, OP, and once I let it grow long, it became practically perfect. Straight near the crown (due to the natural weight of the hair) and curly / wavy starting around my jawline.

    What I struggle with is less the texture and more that "done" factor. Sometimes I straighten the hair around my crown to give it some shine, and sometimes I'll actually go through and curl all of my hair to get that finished look everywhere. However, I don't like using hairspray, especially when I'm dancing (due to texture and fragrance). And often, all of my hard work is undone in a couple of hours while dancing due to how much I move and touch my hair throughout a shift. Styling ends up being a lot of wasted effort! There are some new hair oil products out there that may be worth a try: argan oil, Dove nourishing oil therapy, L'Oreal mythic oil, etc. You'd aim to concentrate the product around the ends of the hairs and avoid the crown.

    All of that being said, I'm not sure it matters to customers. Like you, I'd make as much or more money near the end of my shift (sweaty, hair frizzy, etc.) regardless of my appearance. Men seem to have much simpler brains when it comes to beauty: they tend to see us as categories rather than specifics. "Long hair." "Curly hair." "Short hair." "Brunette." So as others have said, I would try the undone hair look again when you're not PMSing and see if it makes a difference. Generally clubs are so dark anyway that you can only see details on stage...and the majority of hustling is done off-stage. I would be very curious to hear your results!

    By the way, you are stunning!! I personally think your hair looks super fucking sexy without being styled.

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    oh wow now that i see pics..your hair is beautiful! i WISH my hair looked that silky..you have cascading full wavy curls. go natural, absolutely!!

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    ^ i agree!

    my hair sounds more like simones lol..and my main problem is that there is no even like curl patter, the back is almost tight curls..and then the rest is somewhere between wavy and curly. my problem is that + frizz.

    it sounds like u just need help with frizz...


    i read about ur bad night...i know u were feeling exhausted + pms...but i also notice i dont feel as confident when i try something new... unless i LOOOOVE it, because it is on my mind the whole time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HallelujahHopkins View Post
    1127132135.jpg0615140348.jpg

    My hair is impossible. Think Hermione Granger, before they started turning her into a model. Think '80's hair band. Before every shift I take an hour to iron the shit out of it into kinda shiny smooth sophisticated waves which goes well with my upscale bondage-y look. But I get the most compliments at the end of the night when sweat from dancing has started making it wild and pouffy and curled again. So tonight I'm gonna try leaving it completely alone and going for bedroom eyes, vampire lips, and a fuck me against a wall flyaway mane. Hopefully my money stays the same...or improves!

    Anyone else with crazy locks let 'em swing free? Does it work for you? Do you end up feeling messy compared to all the gleaming extensions? I'll update with pictures if possible.

    *** UPDATE: Terrible idea- although I think it had less to do with my look than with me being exhausted and PMSing hard. I made half what I usually do on a Saturday. Lesson learned: If I don't feel like being a goddamn diva from head to toe, I probably shouldn't go in. (whateves- everyone else had a dreadful night too and I still made in 4 hours what it would take 40 to earn at a crap job -wtf 40hrs a week at a $9.50 minimum wage is only $380).
    Hair? Mmmm. By golly there is hair in those pictures!

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    This looks pretty much like my hair. I leave it curly if i'm not going anywhere other than the gym but have to straighten it and/ or use the curling iron otherwise. In all my years dancing I was never brave enough to not 'do' it for work. I'm thinking of getting a keratin treatment anyway as i really want to get my Bettie bangs cut back in but as you can imagine with my curly hair the shorter it is the curlier it is so bangs become super hard work.

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    My hair is really curly naturally. I had to wear it naturally for the club I last worked in because of the lack of AC. It would get frizzy no matter what I did. An Asian dude told me I was an Asian guy's dream: petite, tight, a bit of curve, boobs not too big, but my hair was a deal breaker! Ha!

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    ^ Yeah, I got 80's curls. I've worked natural and disney-Princess hair, straight, crimped, mermaid waves. Try again natural, the condition of your hair becomes lovley without all the heat styling and usually that means the natural curl behaves more. I agree with Charlies comments too.
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    ^ Oh, that Asian dude meant that he hated my hair, lol. When I'm not working, I keep it as natural as possible.

    There's a lot of negativity towards curly hair. When looking for 'vanilla' jobs, long curly hair (and probably short) is considered unkept and messy. Hence the popularity of blow dry bars. I would rather just do a pony tail then have my hair turn to straw every week (or every 3 days).

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    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    The OP asked if any of us had hair like that... while I don't I have worked with a lot of girls with crazy wild hair and as long as the hair was long they tended to do well with it. I agree with the keratin suggestion as well... you can also try a treatment I used to get called a cellophane wrap. I'm sure there is a newer name or technique but it is basically a deposit-only gloss that makes hair smooth and shiny and doesn't damage in the way a bleach or high-lift product would.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HallelujahHopkins View Post
    So tonight I'm gonna try leaving it completely alone and going for bedroom eyes, vampire lips, and a fuck me against a wall flyaway mane.
    I think I speak for all hetero male kind when I say, I approve. But, sorry it resulted in:

    Quote Originally Posted by HallelujahHopkins View Post
    I made half what I usually do on a Saturday.
    Maybe try it again so you can tell if it was the look (which I doubt personally, but could be wrong) or the issues of just being off your game for reasons you outlined.
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