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    Have you seen girls making out with their customers during the lap dances? My club has chairs facing each other & I can see a lot of the girls just making out with them for $20! Disgusting... It brings down all the other girl's value because now customers think they can kiss you for a $20 dance. I get you're trying to get them into the champagne room, but cmon! *sorry just venting*

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    I've heard of this, but I have not seen it. Granted I've seen worse, but I agree making out and swapping saliva with some random guy for $20? Skeeves me out.

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    Default Re: girls making out with customers during lap dances

    I've seen a few, usually foreigners (from South America or Eastern Europe).





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    Default Re: girls making out with customers during lap dances

    Well I see it like this.... if she wants to that's her business.. why do you care who she or anyone kisses?? if that's her way or tactic to each is own

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    Default Re: girls making out with customers during lap dances

    It is an extra in my book as well. We are dancers, & making out w/ customers is not in the job description. It's one of those behaviours that the more girls encourage it the more customers feel it's 'part of the deal' & just dive in w/o even asking.

    This isn't high school where it might have been cute or hot to make out in the back room, if you're going to behave that way then be an adult & go to a motel.

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    I've made out with one customer, one time in VIP during a 1 hour show. He was HOT, I was drinking a little too much, and it just happened. It isn't something I do typically, and certainly not in the more public areas of the club, but I was enjoying him as much as he was enjoying me. It made for a very nice night at work.

    I'm pretty sure there aren't any laws prohibiting kissing paying customers. I'd never kiss someone I don't want to just for a few extra dollars. It's a lousy hustle technique.

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    I'd rather see handjobs! If I saw a girl kissing a customer it would creep me out and disgust me, probably more than any other extra. I think it's the saliva.

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    Default Re: girls making out with customers during lap dances

    I don't do it, but I've seen others do it. I feel like most of the instances where I've seen this happen the girl is either very drunk, or a new dancer.
    It grosses me out when customers try to kiss me. It's way too personal of a thing to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MISS_TENAY View Post
    Well I see it like this.... if she wants to that's her business.. why do you care who she or anyone kisses?? if that's her way or tactic to each is own
    Because then the customers want to kiss me. I usually mind my own business, but there have been times this happened at certain clubs where the customers said the other girls were doing it so I should to. Stopped working there. They should at least take it in the back if they want to do that.

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    Mono and oral HSV can be contracted by kissing, just saying.





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    Quote Originally Posted by MISS_TENAY View Post
    Well I see it like this.... if she wants to that's her business.. why do you care who she or anyone kisses?? if that's her way or tactic to each is own
    if someone took a shit in the middle of the sidewalk would you also say to each his own?

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    It happens a lot at my home club. Stuff like this that happens in the sight of other customers lowers all of our worth. As others said it's a bad hustle technique, and it opens the door for real creepers to try and take advantage if the dancer did do it only because she was drunk. We shouldn't let custys think that making out for a $20 dance is the new normal. I would never, ever kiss a customer. I don't even like customers touching my hair/face, let alone exchanging of saliva.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MISS_TENAY View Post
    Well I see it like this.... if she wants to that's her business.. why do you care who she or anyone kisses?? if that's her way or tactic to each is own
    I take you don't care if other dancers engage in any form sexual contact INSIDE the club either. Am I right?





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    Default Re: girls making out with customers during lap dances

    that is so personal to me..kissing..way more personal than sex even. ugh. maybe i have pretty woman syndrome or something? lol. eww

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlotte. View Post
    if someone took a shit in the middle of the sidewalk would you also say to each his own?
    I happened to witness this one night in Philly.
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    Default Re: girls making out with customers during lap dances

    I've seen girls do a lot more for twenty dollars, or fewer, unfortunately. I believe that this is the other dancers' concern because when you inflate a customer's expectations in this way you're putting your coworkers at risk. It's indecent and irresponsible. Strip clubs have micro-economies, and dancers who do this shit are the Wal-Marts and dollar menus of the sex industry.

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    Pssssh. This happens sometimes at my club. And I'm just happy to be away from all the girls sucking dick and fucking their customers for all to see in T.O. so while that may well be a bit more than what I'm comfortable with, I'm not complaining. When customers try and touch my pussy I just cover it with my hand and pretend to be pleasuring myself...when they go to kiss me I avoid via defensive dancing as well. My regulars will occaisonally get a peck at the end of a dance, but nothing I wouldn't do to my grandma. Customers will get bored of the dirty girls eventually as long as they're not going as far as to fuck them...then you might be SOL.
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    I'm a massive germ-aphobe-so it makes me cringe. But, I have seen it happen .
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    It's truly disgusting to me. I've seen it a few times. How they aren't totally embarrassed, I don't know.

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    You can catch a lot of things from kissing a random stranger. Herpes doesn't just live in the cooter ya know.
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    I usually see the non English speaking gals do it. I think its gross but it doesn't affect my money because my clubs a whore house anyways. My thing is either get to dances or get the hell out of the booth because most likely im waiting for them to finish so o can do some dances.

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    That's really gross to me and I wouldn't do it. However, I would only object to other dancers doing it if they did it for cheap/the same price as a normal dance. All my clubs have been brothels and I can't get mad about extras anymore. Just, like, if you're gonna do the most, can you just charge the most, too? It's only logical!

    On the other hand, Tourdefranzia, I want to high five you for getting paid while enjoying yourself with a hot dude. I call that a win.

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    Making out with a customer in a $1000+ CR? Fine, or at least no worse than a discreet handjob. I've done it myself a couple of times.

    But on the floor, or in a semi-private lapdance room? Anyone who can't see how that hurts everyone's earnings is too dumb to be a stripper.

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    I saw it once during a 2 girl dance, but it was an exception. It was a private area, HUGE spender and he was there with a very close friend of mine, so we knew he was ok. He wanted to kiss the other dancre and she was cool with it, so... didn't really bother me. If it was just a random guy, it never would have happened.

    I consider it an extra and don't do it. Kissing is really personal for me and the idea of someone that I don't know sticking their tongue in my mouth makes me sick. I'd probably puke on the guy if I tried it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kirakonstantin View Post
    I consider it an extra and don't do it. Kissing is really personal for me and the idea of someone that I don't know sticking their tongue in my mouth makes me sick. I'd probably puke on the guy if I tried it.
    Same. I'd probably puke if I tried. Even if he was attractive.

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