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    I dont ask for money upfront before doing a lap dance. My problem is alot of times while I'm doing a lap dance guys would start making it rain ( throwing one dollar bills on me.) Some of them throw between 25-40 in ones during the lap dance. When the lap dance is over if its on one dance and they throw all that money on me I don't charge then the $20. But if its more than 2 dances even if they throw money on me I charge them for all dances. Some guys would say "I just threw all that money on you and you still going to charge me more." But I explain to them beforehand that lap dances are $20 per songs. Should I charge cuties $20 per dance even if they make it rain on me during lap dances? Thanks for responding.

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    Throwing $25-40 isn't making it rain, IMO. It's a tip given in a flamboyant way. Charge them $20/song and graciously thank them for the tips.

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    Thanks tuesdaymarie...

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    Default Re: Lap Dance Room

    Always get paid up front, at the very least for the first dance. It would be way too easy for a customer to take advantage of your current method, by deliberately throwing less than the required $20/song, counting on you to just accept w/o counting it & then getting belligerent when you ask for the actual amt.

    Besides, from the customer standpoint it feels a bit like an overcharge esp if you are not telling them up front the cost per song. That's the other way you can get into trouble, taking for granted that they know how much per song, but they can try to claim 'But I didńt knooooooow!!!'

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    I definitely agree with Aniela! Couldn't have said it better

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    Agreed ...

    - clearly inform the customer up front that private dances cost X dollars each ... and if applicable also inform the customer that the club keeps track of, and collects Y dollars out of the customer's X dollars, for every private dance.

    - insist on collecting some amount of customer money up front before performing any private dances

    - tactfully communicate to the customer that the X dollar private dance charge is strictly for the 'basics' ... implying that if 'special attention' is expected, so is an additional tip.

    - exercise judgment in regard to performing additional dances beyond those which were paid for via the customer's up front payment ... on the one hand, stopping the dances to ask for more money may break the 'momentum', but on the other hand the if dancer is actually performing additional dances on 'credit' she is running a risk she won't actually get paid for those additional dances.

    Being a bit firm about expected payments may cause a few customers to 'bristle', but it will also effectively remind the customer that ...

    - you're performing private dances because it is your JOB - which you are entitled to get paid for

    - the customer is 'committing' himself to additional expenditures the longer he stays in the private dance room

    - the club is aware that you are in the private dance room

    Knowing that the customer understands these things will potentially avoid 'problems' ... both money based problems as well as private dance room 'special attention' based problems.
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    ALWAYS get the money upfront. There are a ton of cute ways you can do this - but you need to make sure people pay you for the dance and know how much it costs. This is your job - don't make it a gamble regarding whether or not you get paid.

    "Business before pleasure, and if you want more pleasure show me more business" (said whilst making a money gesture)
    "Money before honey! And if you want more honey, just show me more money!"

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