This is the thread I was thinking of:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...85#post2613185
Has some good suggestions for conversations starters that are sexy but not extras-implied.





This is the thread I was thinking of:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...85#post2613185
Has some good suggestions for conversations starters that are sexy but not extras-implied.



I have a foreign accent so it cuts out about 90% of bullshit. I do agree it depends on your confidence. Do not get nervous, you are always in control of your conversation. I never speak to my customers about being "naughty" or anything sexual, and it weeds out a lot of them. Do you need conversation starts? I can help you with this for sure, provide examples and stuff.
Also never ASK for a dance. TELL THEM they are getting a dance. I usually say something like "So enough about me, time for me to do something for you! Let's get a dance!" and grab their hand, lead them to the dance room.
And this friday i work again...im gonna experiment.
Confidence , confidence, confidence ill b working on
scared money makes no money





Check out the threads @ the top of the page, esp. "Law of Attract. & me being a $ magnet"..there's also a LOA group you can join, it has some great vids you can watch
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt
It might help to invent a new character to be at work. Dancing is as much an acting job as it is a sales job.
If they aren't spending or planning on spending, leave. If they want extras and you don't do that, leave. If you get good vibes from them, get along well and can sense that you will make a sale, stay. When their money is gone, on to the next. Eyes on the prize, all night long.


I worked at a mixed race club in Detroit that is notorious for extras. Every girl is expected to whore themselves out by both customers AND managers. The only way I was able to get money there in VIP was to sell a naked dance with no touching for $100 for 3 songs or by using the line "We can go in VIP and see where it leads..." and once in VIP, after one or two songs, if the guys is pressuring you for more "fun", simply say "OMG the DJ just called me up next because somebody skipped, I'm sorry!" It worked for me for the one month I was there.
Otherwise, I would suggest trying a mixed race club. Being a fresh face in a club helps sometimes.
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