Does it work for you? Approaching a guy complimenting him like crazy, touching his arm, being super flirty?




Does it work for you? Approaching a guy complimenting him like crazy, touching his arm, being super flirty?




How is this fake? Do you mean pretending to be attracted to someone who you don't find attractive in the least? I've been dancing since 1998, and I can always find something genuinely positive about every single customer I've danced for. I make sure to mention it to the customers in order to help them feel more generous towards me. If I can't find even something remotely complimentary about the customer I'm chatting with, I walk away. Life is too short to spend with negative, energy-sucking people.
No. Not for individuals -- they feel disrespected if you're obviously faking it, like, "This bitch thinks I'm that gross that she has to lie?"
A group, like a bachelor party, might find it entertaining at your expense. But generally part of the fantasy is that you genuinely like them.





i try and make it slightly believable, especially when dealing with older gentlemen. i don't do gushing and simpering and obviously fake compliments. i mean, i obviously have a fake persona when dealing with guys, making them think i actually enjoy their company, i'm happy being there, etc but don't OVER-do it. giving compliments ( as long as they are believable), touching their arms, and being flirty isn't over doing it i don't think, that's pretty standard
most people can tell when someone is being fake.
If i must give compliments I try to make it genuine as possible.
I hate when people give me fake compliments. Like I already know I look good, tell me something else...Id rather be complimented for a quality about myself than physical appearance so I do the same for customers. Part of my hustle is asking questions, listening, THEN I'll compliment.
As far as touching and flirting yep I do that too...helps to sell the dance





It works better with the young ones than the old ones. Problem is the young ones fall in love too often!
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest




Tourdefranzia I can't agree with your post enough!
In the same vein it bugs me when I compliment a customer I'm dancing for and he thinks it's a fake compliment. Motherfucker, I'm sitting here finding things about you to like, take my compliments seriously damnit! Happens to me a lot, especially when I tell guys with hairy chests that I like their chest hair. I really do like hairy chests!
I go out of my way to tell them how funny, handsome and interesting they are! I laugh a lot, touch their arms, snuggle up to them, and tell them I feel so lucky to have a job where I meet interesting men like them.
I even try to find an attractive celebrity to compare them to, for example, bald man = Bruce Willis, or grey hair = Richard Gere or something, and then I apologise because "You must hear that all the time".
I really lay it on thick when we've done one dance and I'm trying to get a champagne room, so if they say that I'm just fake complimenting them for money, I get all big eyed and play dumb, and say something like "But I've already got your money, silly! We just did our dance!"
Most of the time they'll be like "Oh yeah, good point!" and they'll get all smiley and pleased at getting such a big compliment. They normally end up suggesting another dance themselves and then the room is an easy upsell.
I'm not always in the mood to do this hustle, but it really works well for me when I can bring myself to behave like that.
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