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    Default Guys who won't stop talking money?

    I've been having issues at my current club with guys that are obsessed with my income and money situation. I always get the "oh, you must make SO much money." Of course, that assertion is even more ridiculous when it's coming from top Wall Street execs and lawyers... And it's always a pain in the ass, because if I am having a great night, I don't want to talk about my money and potentially screw it up. If I'm having a bad night, it's like rubbing it in my face. Usually I just try to brush it off by saying something like, "Eh, I make enough." And then I'll change the subject. The issue is that they won't stop. They'll keep going on about the millions I must be pulling in every year, and how it's all cash so I never have to pay taxes (which I do).

    I think it encourages them to not spend money in a way, because they already think I make millions. I think it's partly due to the money-obsessed climate in NYC, but it's definitely not helping my hustle when guys just want to talk about how many millions I make every year. Any advice on how I can turn this into a hustle? Or switch the topic more effectively?

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    Default Re: Guys who won't stop talking money?

    For the Wall St types in particular, I might give them a deadpan look & say flatly, smtg like 'Come on now -- you didn't REALLY come all the way out to a SC just to talk abt finances, did you? That's what the office is for.' Maybe you can find a smoother way to phrase it, but I find this kind of talk extremely rude. Sm times I wonder if it is a regional or cultural thing, bc I was raised in a culture where discussing $$ is considered very crass. So when guys do this to me I instantly just want to shut down, it is such a turn off.

    You might even throw a sarcastic comment back at them implying they are a gold digger, or why else would they be so concerned w/ your earnings? Sm of the guys who get themselves fixated on this topic are simply trying to get a rise out of you. Turn it around on them. They may be won-over w/ your hard-ass sharpness, or they will get butthurt & then you will no longer have to deal w/ them.

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    Maybe act like you're pleasantly surprised or even [sexually] excited that he would bring up the subject of money, as if it's something you can relate about or bond over... money fetish... You're excited he's suggesting you're about to mutually do some money-related activity (naughtiness transaction).
    You could make associations between money and sexy fun time, then segue away from money and into the sexy fun time, as if thats more of your priority... like you're so horny for him that you forgot all about the money, you want to do STUFF together asap, the money part is just a bonus on the side...

    "Oh but I dont make so much, im a bad stripper, i have too much fun with my job and get distracted, especially with someone cute like you..."

    "yes i make ok amount but im always broke because i can never save it, i spend way too much on shopping, partying with girlfriends, kinky sex toys, but at least i always know how have a good time!"

    "You wanna talk money? I love talking about money. I'll tell you about mine if you tell me about yours first. How much do YOU make? Let's talk about YOUR money, and what we can do with it tonight..."

    "You really want to talk about it? I could tell you more, but we just met, we dont really know each other that well yet. How about we get to know each other... and maybe go somewhere a little more private..."

    "Of course I make good money. I love my job, I love making lots of money. Am I going to get yours tonight? What would I have to do, to get it?"

    "Yes I make a lot of money. But not all the girls do. I'm popular. Because I know how to have *really* have fun."

    Sometimes I just go ahead and act like its obvious money turns me on, play up the ditzy foxy gold-digger role, some guys are into it, and at least it could make for a funny moment...
    I had a regular who would text me photos of the cash he was planning on spending on me later in the week, it would get both of us excited, lol.

    And if they dont bite... just dump them and move on!

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    It is rude to discuss how much money a person makes. Flip the script. Ask him how much money he makes? How does he spend his money? See how fast they shut the fuck up. Do they save for the future?

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    ^^^^ I always used to do that , just reply " well how much do you get paid?" The answer always came kind of half astonished and half disgusted "well I'm not telling you" and I would reply back "well I'm not telling you" or sometimes i would reply back "why not?" they would then say how it wasn't my business and very rude to ask, then when i said "but you are happy to ask me though" they would look extremely embarassed, I know a common reply in the UK to how much does a lap dancer make is? " how long is a piece of string?" Yes but roughly?!!!!! "depends on the girl, depends on the customer, depends on the night, depends on her outfit how long is a piece of string?"

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    Default Re: Guys who won't stop talking money?

    The guys who spit those lines are time wasters and they will not spend money. As soon as I hear anything involving how much I make, say no more, I just walk away. They're just trying to drag on a conversation with you. I consider it stalling; one of my biggest strip club pet peeves.

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    Default Re: Guys who won't stop talking money?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    It is rude to discuss how much money a person makes. Flip the script. Ask him how much money he makes? How does he spend his money? See how fast they shut the fuck up. Do they save for the future?

    Sam
    Agree with this... it's the same thing I do when a guy asks my age. I'm 24 but it's still rude to me. They always shut up when I throw the question back at them.

    In regards to the money thing, I think some guys are just genuinely curious and maybe a little socially retarded and bring it up... others are dicks. I just always say "yes I make good money, look at me why would I not?" and move on. Don't add any fuel to the fire by giving them specific details. And if they won't drop it, turn it back on them.

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    Default Re: Guys who won't stop talking money?

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    I'll tell you about mine if you tell me about yours first. How much do YOU make?

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    Thats exactly what I say when the stupid question is asked, but I do it in a very polite(seemingly) and sexy form. Like batting my eyelashes and smiling coy while mumbling : I'll tell you how much I make a night if you tell me how much you make a day. One Wall Street asshole told me he makes $4 grand a day and I said to him: oh honey, you make well over what I make, and you don't take your clothes off! He was very satisfied with at answer.

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    Default Re: Guys who won't stop talking money?

    "Oh Sweetie, almost never is the hired entertainment wealthy. My earnings are more like a wedding DJ service than like Beyonce."

    I always downplay my earnings to my customers. For some reason, when it is cash they are looking at, they always overestimate the amount. I had a bunch of $1's after my stage set when a customer mentioned that it "had to be more than $50." I let him count it out. He was shocked to see that it was only $13.

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