Please describe your experiences. How often do you buy dances from younger women vs. older women?


Please describe your experiences. How often do you buy dances from younger women vs. older women?





All of my faves are 35 or older. Two of them are 41. I almost never buy dances from women in their 20's or even early 30's anymore. I'm not going to describe dances in detail here but I'm a "hang out" kind of customer. I don't go into a club to buy dances and leave, I go to spend a few hours with a woman that is interesting and attractive to me. At 56 years of age I just don't find that from a 20 something no matter how attractive she may be. Women in my targeted age group who are still dancing take the job very seriously. They take care of themselves, they are generally very comfortable with their sexuality and they know how to carry on a conversation. That's a win all the way across the board for me.





The average age of my favorite dancers has generally been creeping up over the years. For starters, a couple of my long time favorites have been aging with me, lol. More though is that my patience levels are decreasing as I get older and I just cannot sit through the types of inane chatter common with girls in their early 20s, assuming they can come up with anything at all. Conversely though, I don't go to strip clubs to play around with girls close to my own age (44). My sweet spot is mid 20s to 30, old enough to have some life experience, yet young enough to still look fresh and young.




Please describe your defining age cutoff point of young vs old dancer.
As for myself, I'm closer to yodas age, but I'm not too choosy on dancer age. Several of my faves from 2009 onward are/have been north of 35. Yet on a recent vacation visit to a club, had 2 prominent faves that were 22 and 25. Like rick, my sweet spot is ~ 27-32 for the same reasons. Yet, I've generally found that the over 32-35 dancers approach me more often than the younger ones. Some are in really great shape. What I find appealing about the "over 35" dancers is they just seem to be naturally better at the finer points/nuances of customer interaction- both in conversation, and the event itself.
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the other 5% .......................



My age ranges have creeped around a bit: if I ask if she'd like a drink and she tells me she can't drink yet, that's pretty much too young. And it used to be that I was never attracted to dancers in their late '20s or later, now late '20s to early 30s is probably my favorite age: as young-looking as possible, but with a level of balance, stability, maturity and more likely to be past the party-all-the-time stage.





There's this dancer at my new club that I IDOLIZE. She's skinnier than me with bigger tits and more tattoos. She makes me look like a lumpy little lardbucket with a vagumach that sticks out further than her tits. That's how smoking hot she is. You can tell she's older but man oh man.![]()
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest

Definitely enjoy older women. The maturity often brings out the best in them providing a warm, comfortable sensuality that the younger ones often lack.





Not all us dancers in our 20s are inane bimbos with nothing to say! Some of us have college degrees, life experience and know how to carry on a conversation... I'm in my 20s and I've had many older regs who liked me just because they enjoyed speaking with me.





This isn't a zero sum game. For me, a dancer's age is not the make or break category; it's her body type. If you have what I am looking for, whether you're 21 or 41, I'll buy dances from you. How many I buy, and how often, are dependent upon your performance. Having said that, I've found older dancers are far better at pretending to be into me and their own performance than the younger ones (though again, this is not a 100% statement).
CP





I certainly didn't mean to imply that younger dancers are inane bimbos. It's a simple matter of where my preferences have led me over the years. To be honest Audrey, there are quite a few younger ladies on this site, yourself included, that I would seek out without hesitation if I ever found myself in their clubs and that is based strictly on what I read here on SW.


^^^Yep.
The younger dancers often seem to think the show itself is all that matters and come across somewhat cold or mechanical. The older dancers tend to get that the interaction itself is also important. That's certainly not universal, but it does seem to trend that way.
I'd say my median dancer age is close to 30. My current favourite is 35. My all-time favourite was 38 when I met her, and 42 when she retired. Her body looked better than most 20-somethings even then, though her age was starting to show a little on her face. But boy was she an awesome person! She probably could have stayed in the business into her fifties, but she had what she wanted and moved her life in another direction. Good on her!
I know the men who frequent SW tend to be less clueless than typical customers, but I wonder how good y'all are are telling how old a stripper is. Like most strippers, I've worked with underage (meaning under 18 ) girls who looked 25, and women well into their 40s who looked 30. I personally have no trouble going from 22 to 34 (though going back is a little harder) in one shift.
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There is never an appropriate time to ask a woman her age, either inside or outside a club. Whenever a dancer wants me to guess, I always say, "24" and smile broadly. If she is younger, then she's happy she looks more mature; if she is older, then she's happy she looks younger. Just like there is "stripper shit" you say to custys, there is also "custy shit" we say to you. This is one of those areas where you'll never another drag another answer out of me. Guys who ask your age also probably insist on asking what your real name is and other irrelevant shit. Don't care. Just give me a good lap for my money, please!
CP
Interesting thread about dancer age. There's a phrase I have that I use to describe dancers who look young from afar, but then when they walk up to you, the wrinkles materialize lol.
I suppose I haven't yet "grown out" of my fondness for youthful dancers (18 to 24). Perhaps it's because they make me feel young again.





I'll tell people how old I am. I'm nearing 30 and damn proud of it! I hit the gym 5-6 days a week, I eat clean, no drinking or smoking and I run circles around the younger ones. Some of the younger dancers on here seem to have it together but the ones I encounter IRL make me glad that I bust my ass.
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
@Chili- girls actually want you to guess their ages?!
And yes, the ones who need to know my age are the same ones who need my life story. And just like my life story, it's whatever I think he wants to hear.





This is a fair point. Between the low lighting in many of these clubs and the makeup that the girls wear, it can be tough to pinpoint where some girls sit in the 22 to 30 range. North of 30 is a little different as there are some tell tale signs that are hard to hide, even if she is hot as hell and in tremendous shape. I also tend to find the youngest ones to be easier to spot, as much due to body language and attitude as anything.





I never ask. I've known my 41 year old ATF for over ten years and are friends OTC so I know her realage but yeah, customers regularly guess that she is mid to late 20's.
My experience is that older dancers don't lie as much as the ones who SEE themselves as borderline. Women in their mid to late 30's who can earn well alongside the younger gals are damn proud of it.





Wow. This's a Great Thread! Interesting to see the custy perspective, & also it seems like a lot of clubs don't want to hire 'older' dancers?? I mean, they know right off the bat, since they demand immediately an ID before allowing an audition or even just speaking to a hiring person.
Also: AudK. hon. I'd definitely get a dance from you, Doll, *swoon*
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





It is a combination of looks and personality. I never saw the need to check an ID.





I'm shy, which 99.9%+ perceive as "not interested," so I rarely have a conversation that goes beyond name/where you from/what brings you here. So it doesn't really matter how well spoken or mature she is. I go with looks and how well she dances, which usually means the middleground (late 20s early 30s).




I wish more people would follow this advice. It seems like every other man I talk to at work asks me my age.
To the OP:
I make a fine living from customers of all ages. This week seems to have brought out the young-uns looking for some MILF action. I don't mind dancing for the guys in their early 20's but prefer dancing for men over 35 as they are the ones I also find most attractive.



The one age-related question I ask is, "are you old enough to drink?". It's only fair to throw the minnows back, try to re-catch them next season![]()
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