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    A dancer has been undercutting me for a couple of shifts. Guys that would buy dances from both of us avoid me now, after she buddies up to them. Tonight, I was sitting with a regular customer who I've danced with for months and starts whispering in his ear, giving me a dirty look the entire time.

    My first thought is to put her head through the DR mirror, as she's seriously fucking with my money. As the mgmt at my club frowns on fighting, I would really prefer to handle this without violence. Any ideas on putting her in check, without putting her in the hospital?

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    Default Re: Jealous cutthroat-how to deal without violence

    If the management at your club only "frowns on" fighting, it's time to find a new club.

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    Rise above. Be super nice to her & the custies. Eventually they all will feel like fools & she will have the bad rap & not you.

    I used to work in a club where one girl was giving $5 blowjobs instead of $20 table dances. I used to throw drinks in the faces of my customers who got a bj from her & never talked to them again.

    When the health department showed up, cause she didn't just have HIV but full blown AIDS & was in the highly contagious stage, She had fucked hundreds of men without condoms for little money. I was happy that I stayed away from the guys who were in contact with her.

    Karma is a bitch. Play the fake super sweet girl who has no idea what is going on. It will only piss her off more.

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    Default Re: Jealous cutthroat-how to deal without violence

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Rise above. Be super nice to her & the custies. Eventually they all will feel like fools & she will have the bad rap & not you.

    I used to work in a club where one girl was giving $5 blowjobs instead of $20 table dances. I used to throw drinks in the faces of my customers who got a bj from her & never talked to them again.

    When the health department showed up, cause she didn't just have HIV but full blown AIDS & was in the highly contagious stage, She had fucked hundreds of men without condoms for little money. I was happy that I stayed away from the guys who were in contact with her.

    Karma is a bitch. Play the fake super sweet girl who has no idea what is going on. It will only piss her off more.

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    How is she whispering into the customer's ear if you're sitting with them? If you're letting her sit down, that's your first mistake. If she comes by, super sweetly tell her that you're busy together and she can come back once you've finished having fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    How is she whispering into the customer's ear if you're sitting with them? If you're letting her sit down, that's your first mistake.
    She didn't sit down, but rather came up behind him, out of arms reach, because she is afraid of me. Why she's crossing me like this is beyond me. Another dancer has been trying it lately as well, but I figured out how to shut her down.

    When I say that they "frown on" fighting, I should have been more clear. I would get in trouble, but the extent would depend on who is managing that night. I wouldn't get suspended or fired. Management has been showing a lot of favoritism, so I'm a popular target for the girls who actually have the time to plot against other dancers, rather than hustling. It's getting on my nerves.

    ETA: It has come to my attention through... sources, that a few dancers are trying to goad me into decking one of them, so they can get rid of me. They're not great hustlers who have a harder time making money when I'm around. I must be doing better than I thought, if dancers are actively trying to take me out.
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    I hear you sweetie. I'm dealing with some bs like this at my club right now . Other dancers are acting super desperate and trying to steal my regular. Anyways I say just keep your cool , don't let them see you sweat. You're obviously a way better hustler than those lame girls. If you are sitting with someone and they come to interrupt firmly and clearly let them know they are not welcome and that they are being rude.
    Adapt and Overcome.

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    Default Re: Jealous cutthroat-how to deal without violence

    I had a friend at my home club that turned on to be a total back stabbed. We had the same regulars and used to share them. Eventually they stopped giving me money and favoring her. It turned out she was going around telling them I had a pimp and all sorts of lies.

    It got to me for a while. So I went off and found some new regulars who would wait to get dances from me if they knew I was there. The look on her face was priceless when she would try to steal them and they'd say they were waiting for me. Eventually my old regulars came back around when they saw her for what she is.

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    It ended up getting a LOT wors, with some pretty shocking lies being told about me. The owner suggested that I come to another of his clubs, where I'm much happier and making even better money.

    All's well that ends well, I guess.

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    I just don't understand cattiness like this. You are there to make money, not pay any attention to what some other girl is doing. Ignore, ignore, ignore. Focus on what you are there for. No one can hurt your money but you and your attitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xcatxbrownx View Post
    I just don't understand cattiness like this. You are there to make money, not pay any attention to what some other girl is doing. Ignore, ignore, ignore. Focus on what you are there for. No one can hurt your money but you and your attitude.
    There are things that can be said and done to destroy another dancers income, if one were so inclined. A lot of SC customers are married or have an SO, so they want to be extra careful. The right rumor can make custies avoid a dancer like the plague. And that's exactly what happened.

    But, happy at my new club, so... they can have the old place and fight with eachother over $10.

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    Default Re: Jealous cutthroat-how to deal without violence

    Quote Originally Posted by xcatxbrownx View Post
    I just don't understand cattiness like this. You are there to make money, not pay any attention to what some other girl is doing. Ignore, ignore, ignore. Focus on what you are there for. No one can hurt your money but you and your attitude.
    There are things that can be said and done to destroy another dancers income, if one were so inclined. A lot of SC customers are married or have an SO, so they want to be extra careful. The right rumor can make custies avoid a dancer like the plague. And that's exactly what happened.

    But, happy at my new club, so... they can have the old place and fight with eachother over $10.

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    I'm really happy for you, though!


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