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    I have no idea where to put this thread... so if it is inappropriate please let me know.

    I am dating a new guy and we have gotten more serious recently.

    Last night I gave him a blow job (without a condom). I pulled my hand off and noticed what I think is a wart.

    Are there such things as non-STD warts that are located around the shaft?

    I asked him what they were and he said that a doctor has seen them and told him not to worry. They are just a growth.

    I wasn't worried last night...

    All the sudden, I am worried. They aren't curable!

    I can make him go to a clinic but how do I know he is telling the truth? Can I really get some kind of proof?

    Help?

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    Default Re: Std scared

    If I was you I'd highly recommend him going to the doctor - or both of you going together - and sharing results. This way everythings out in the open. If he refuses, then condoms only or nothing at all.

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    He may have what are called pearly penile papules. They are benign, non-contagious and certainly not uncommon amongst men. I myself dated a guy who had these. They aren't an issue.

    That being said, none of us know what these growths look like or are really in the position to give you valid medical advice on this particular situation. I know we all do things with new partners because we think we trust them, but you never really know anyone in the early days of a relationship and people of both genders are not always honest about STDs or their history of. I would advise if you do go without protection to just both go and get screened together to remove any doubt.

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    Default Re: Std scared

    It could be something benign but its worth checking it out together with a doctor for peace of mind.

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    Default Re: Std scared

    What Jackie said- I've personally encountered one guy with a pearly papule and know a couple of women who've encountered them too. They can definitely be a little shocking at first (I know I nearly lost my shit until I inspected it further and realized it was a growth, like he insisted it was, rather than a sore/wart) but are ultimately benign.

    HOWEVER, you should insist that he go get tested with you and share the results with each other. I've never had a problem with result-sharing with a partner as long as we've been together during the visits and made it clear that we were indeed sharing results. You can also just request print outs if you go separately and share the printed reports with each other. Until you both get your results back, make any contact condom-only. If he refuses, at least make condoms mandatory but preferably dump his ass.
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    Agree with everyone else.

    For slight reassurance, I have 3 little lumps on my vag that I was TERRIFIED were warts, and they aren't-they're skin tags from shaving, very slightly raised bits of thickened skin not how you'd imagine a skin tag, and they can occur even if you don't shave-and my partner has a couple of similar things on his shaft, and he's been to the STD clinic countless times with me and been checked just through my paranoia, and they aren't warts either-he may well not have them, and if he does, they're treatable it isn't the end of the world if they are warts.

    Definitely go, and good luck xxx
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    Default Re: Std scared

    ....."just a growth"?

    STD or not, you'd think he'd want to get that taken care of right away...

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    Default Re: Std scared

    I always use a condom if I go with a new guy and I don't care what he is saying, like hay I am ok, well not going bare head until I am sure and that is going to take some time, so I make sure I have some condoms around or in my handbag.

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