There's a girl at my club. Let's say her name is Rosalie ( it isn't, but I'm just using it for the story). I understand that as a dancer at a club, you are competing against every girl in the club, but this one just stands out, I never had things like these happen to me before.
Let's say Rosalie and I are working the same shift. Let's say I'm on stage and a guy likes me and tips me $20, asks me to come over. I say ok, get off stage, go dance with my regular who was waiting for me to get off stage and when I come back Rosalie is sitting with a guy who tipped me $20. I have this etiquette where unless it's my regular, I don't bother guys who are already with girls. So, I move on.
Another day, I'm dancing a table dance for a guy and another guy notices me and wavs for me to come over after I'm done. The guy I'm already dancing for keeps buying dances and by the time I'm done Rosalie is already sitting on a guy who waved at me before. As always, I move on.
Another day a guy who buys dances from me and two other girls in the club comes in. The other two girls he buys dances from aren't working that day. I showed up for my shift late that day, so as soon as I walk in I see this guy...... dancing with Rosalie. I work the room. Then I notice that Rosalie went on stage, I come up to him, we have our usual conversation, I ask if he'd like a dance and dj calls me on stage next song. The guy says that he'll buy dances when I'm done on state, but disappears in private dance area with Rosalie for a while.
Are these just cases of bad timing or is this girl a serious competition? She's very pretty yes, but so am I and the rest of the girls in the club. Guys somehow think that we are twin sisters or substitutes of each other and we don't even look alike!!!! I mean how do you deal with competition? Mentally and emotionally that is. How do you not notice it or not let it bother you?



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And I don't even regard her as competition because that implies that I'm worthy to be in the same category as her and I'm not. I revere her in the same pantheon as Dolly Parton. 



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