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    Dizzy Need some advice/honesty/and a little push? Pic included

    http://s297.photobucket.com/user/iih...b04e2.jpg.html sorry ladies didn't know how to directly insert a pic so I made a link! well here's the deal, I had a baby 7 weeks ago. So my body isn't the greatest, (no stretch marks though) I have been working out so my body will definitely improve and become more toned. I really want to get into dancing but it feels like all the girls will look so much better than me. I also don't know how to dance really, so I will probably feel awkward up on stage..not knowing what to do. I really wanna be a dancer, (the money obviously being a single mom ain't easy) but I just need a push and some advice in my situation. Thanks! I'm 19 btw.

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    Default Re: Need some advice/honesty/and a little push? Pic included

    You're pretty, you have a nice body (esp for being a new mommy, congrats!) which will only get more toned as you dance if you choose to do so. I really don't see any reason why you couldn't other than your lack of confidence tbh, which if you fake it long enough it will become real. Just watch YouTube tutorials, read Stripperweb's stickies and Hustle Hut till your eyes bleed, and look into getting a sitter beforehand. Being a single mother myself, I understand the reluctance to leave your child at home but stripping is very helpful in that you usually have a flexible schedule, you can make good money in short periods if you work hard enough and having someone relying on you to take care of them is motivation enough in and of itself. That is what has made me strive to be more ruthless and professional. My son, who deserves whatever future I can build for him. In less than three months of dancing I went from hopping couches to having my own house in my own name, all bills in my own name for the first time and my son hasn't wanted for anything since. That was two years ago (I was 19 when I started) and I'm still going strong. I also have the time to home school my son through pre-school and spend as much time with him as I want.
    I would speak to your doctor about what you are physically able to to at the moment (I know it can take some time to fully heal from giving birth), and during that time try to get together a pair of shoes and an outfit or two, call and inquire about club information in your area and then do it. You have nothing to lose but an eight hour shift and a possibility of gaining a lot.

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    I think you look good for being 7 weeks postpartum. Keep working out and you'll get where you want to be. You can definitely dance now, probably not at an upscale club but with good diet and exercise you'll be good to go in a few months.

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    I so hope I don't sound like a bitch, but some super upscale places may not hire you despite the fact that TONS of men prefer you to a stick any day. If I were you, I'd start at a dive or mid-tier club, that's the best place to learn how to hustle. That way, If you do decide to go high tier down the line, your hustle and dancing will be great by then. Have you watched any stripping videos that are stickied in this thread?
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    wow your body looks great for having a baby a couple months ago! no newbie knows how to dance like a pro, we've all been there. its something you will pick up on the job. just go slow..a lot of newbies will get nervous and move WAY too fast and end up looking kind of mechanical..just relax, have fun, interact with the guys onstage while taking your clothes off in a seductive way throughout your set.

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    you look amazing! you can tell your a hottie just by the structure in your face alone. I would go on a non bread, cookies, anything thats is breaded diet. also start doing squats. squats works the lower abs and legs. you should also go to CVS and use some self tanner. if you do all those things you should be able to bank 1000 and more.
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    Damn, totally not what I was expecting. You can do it! Hell, I don't even look that good and I have 0 kids. Eat clean and bust your ass.
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    You look great. Every day you stay away from the club is money lost. Go get 'em girl!

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    Bloody hell, I wasn't expecting you to look like that!
    You've got a better body than a lot of the girls I've worked with, and your face is lovely.
    As for not being able to dance, I wouldn't worry about it. I just walk around the pole and pose, and so do most of the top earners I've met.

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    You look better than I do. I had my last kid a year and a half ago, but I'm still fatty mcfat because I gained like 6 inches on my hips. Start at a smaller club. Use it to learn a hustle, tone, and tighten up. Then you can move on to better clubs (if there are any in your area). Don't worry about not knowing how to dance. Everyone looks like a deer in headlights their first time on stage, but it is something you get over quick. Watch a couple of other dancers and you can get an idea of what to do. Personally, I strut around the pole and play with my boobs most of the time.

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    Great face, lovely boobs..you're in! I agree with the whole just strut around and model comment..don't do all that horrible winding stuff that I did on stage when I was new!XD l..and same for lap dances, all ya gotta do is just move slowly and do lots of "figure 8's" and play with your hair and boobs.

    As for the baby weight, I have a lot more of a tummy than that and so do lots of chics at my divey club and many girls at the mid-tier I was at last year. However, it seems that the more in shape you are, the more you can appeal to broader audiences. P90X, diet pills, eating clean..you'll be good to go in no time! Get that $$$, girl!
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    Default Re: Need some advice/honesty/and a little push? Pic included

    You look great! And I don't mean you look great for having a baby 7 weeks ago, you look great because you look great!
    As far as dancing, you'll get it eventually. The last place I auditioned at I fell on stage and they still hired me! The majority of managers don't really care if you can dance or not, just as long as you look hot (which you do).
    Go get 'em!!!

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