I have been 'dancing' for a cumulative few yearsish. I am not self-conscious. I am conventionally attractive. I suppose I can be socially uncomfortable, both in and out of the club, but usually once I settle in or am doing anything I'm fine--and yet, i can be enjoying a conversation, completely oblivious to my surroundings, drunk, or anything and will be told out of the blue, on an essentially nightly and uusallly multiple times a night basis that I am/seem shy/uncomfortable. after many attempts to resolve this in both my personal life as well (hell, I became a <i>stripper</i>) I have finally come to terms with the fact that it is a result of what would seem to be my permanent expression/demeanor--but it EXTENSIVELY affects how much I make. To my knowledge, in any of the dozen clubs or so clubs I have worked at, I have never encountered anyone in my situation, but I'd really like to hear of anyone who is/was. Of course, mainly, I'm pretty desperate for advice at this point. It is both mentally and financially wearing.



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Nobody ever thinks you're shy with huge tits, and even if you are they're too busy staring to care. 


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