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    Default Re: Does being a can girl make you hate men more or has it changed your view on men?

    Majority of sex crimes are done by MEN, that isn't hate or bias BUT a FACT! http://www.oneinfourusa.org/statistics.php 99% of rapes are done BY Men.

    As Jamie Fox says anytime a man say's "hello" or "Can I help you?" he is saying "Do you want some dick?"

    I love men, but in no way to I lie to myself about what motivates them. All females at ALL times must be aware & alert in ANY situation, to be on guard. Men don't have to live their lives that way, WE DO!

    I can't count the number of times I've been stalked, followed, harassed, private parts grabbed by strangers, ran off the road. ALL BEFORE I got into porn.
    Never has a female dropped a drug into my drink at a bar or at a party, but men have. Thank god, my girlfriends got me out of those situations & done the same for them.

    Men don't worry about a bartender or someone at all dropping drugs into their drinks so they can be raped later.

    Do you when driving your car, see a hot man flash him your pussy? Yet, I've had many men flash me their dicks when I've gone for walks. When I see a car drive by more than one time, I know what will happen next. Don't we all?

    It isn't about hating men, as much as being aware at any time, any place you can be assaulted. A worry that men don't have to live with on a daily basis.

    When a man does try to grab my body parts in public, NEVER do other men step in & say anything or stop it, but other females do. NOOO, men come up afterwards saying how horrible & wrong it was. Being wolves in sheep clothing thinking if they sympathize you will let them fuck you.

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    I think that caming has helped me in a positive way.

    Before I started caming and when I was in high school my validation and self worth was based on what I thought men perceived me as. I did a lot of boy chasing, when really I should have focused on school and my goals. My first boyfriend was a really popular guy at school. I was obsessed with him and all I wanted to do was make him happy. I gave 100% and he gave nothing to the relationship. It was heartbreaking. My second boyfriend was the same. Why couldn't I get a guy to put out effort? Why couldn't I get a guy to love me?

    Caming has helped open my eyes about men. I realized that you don't have to be perfect looking and skinny to succeed in this job. After having kids I was really self conscious about my body and none of my cam customers have ever mentioned it. They'll point out what I think are my flaws but they'll be obsessed with that particular body part. This helped me a lot. But is also kind of made me realize that most guys will drop to their knees once you show them a boob haha... us ladies have a lot of power over men and I didn't realize that I had this power before.

    Caming also made me realize how obnoxious and stupid guys can be. If my husband and I do ever get divorced and I enter the dating scene again, never will I ever go chasing a man again. They'll need to give 90% and I might give 10% if they are lucky. I will never go chasing a guy or perform circus tricks to try to get them to care about me or "fall in love" with me again. I also won't settle for someone. It's taught me a lot.

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    YEP! that about sums it up!.. when I say I was sick of the way men acted after dating them for 3 yrs and never finding a relationship with a good guy.. i was 27 when it all began...LOL.. I had lived a very sheltered life. I had One asshole in my life for 4 1/2 yrs and lived with him then I was single for 1 MONTH only and then another asshole came along and I was his girl and lived with him for 6 yrs.. so from the ages of 16-27 I was a KEPT woman!.. I didn't know how to deal with men AT ALL when i became 27 and single for good. Often I just want a man for PROTECTION AND SECURITY , to keep me safe from all the other predators out there on the street.. Thank god I have my son for that he is almost 24 and pretty much goes with me where I go so I do not have to DEAL with what Sam says anymore, alot of the same things happened to me also the last 14 yrs I have been single.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Majority of sex crimes are done by MEN, that isn't hate or bias BUT a FACT! http://www.oneinfourusa.org/statistics.php 99% of rapes are done BY Men.

    As Jamie Fox says anytime a man say's "hello" or "Can I help you?" he is saying "Do you want some dick?"

    I love men, but in no way to I lie to myself about what motivates them. All females at ALL times must be aware & alert in ANY situation, to be on guard. Men don't have to live their lives that way, WE DO!

    I can't count the number of times I've been stalked, followed, harassed, private parts grabbed by strangers, ran off the road. ALL BEFORE I got into porn.
    Never has a female dropped a drug into my drink at a bar or at a party, but men have. Thank god, my girlfriends got me out of those situations & done the same for them.

    Men don't worry about a bartender or someone at all dropping drugs into their drinks so they can be raped later.

    Do you when driving your car, see a hot man flash him your pussy? Yet, I've had many men flash me their dicks when I've gone for walks. When I see a car drive by more than one time, I know what will happen next. Don't we all?

    It isn't about hating men, as much as being aware at any time, any place you can be assaulted. A worry that men don't have to live with on a daily basis.

    When a man does try to grab my body parts in public, NEVER do other men step in & say anything or stop it, but other females do. NOOO, men come up afterwards saying how horrible & wrong it was. Being wolves in sheep clothing thinking if they sympathize you will let them fuck you.

    I never let my guard down. NEVER on cam or off.

    Sam

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    I never understood why girls (or people) in this industry end up hating men, calling them pigs or etc.... I mean, what kind of reaction does one expect when you place yourself in a sexually charged enviornment? No, does not give them the excuse to cross the line, such as rape, but we know men are creatures who's blood rushes only to one head at a time.

    I don't hate men and never will. Because of men, my bills are paid, I've taken nice trips, nice gifts etc etc....Why would you hate your main source of income?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    I never understood why girls (or people) in this industry end up hating men, calling them pigs or etc.... I mean, what kind of reaction does one expect when you place yourself in a sexually charged enviornment? No, does not give them the excuse to cross the line, such as rape, but we know men are creatures who's blood rushes only to one head at a time.

    I don't hate men and never will. Because of men, my bills are paid, I've taken nice trips, nice gifts etc etc....Why would you hate your main source of income?
    Because sex has always been a man's #1 excuse for shitty behavior. There are men who have been polite and respectful to me, spent their money on me, thanked me, and left me in peace. I know it is possible to be a gentleman even when you're horny. I've seen it.

    I have a problem with the 'what do you expect?' mentality. Boys will be boys. They can't be held accountable for what they do when their dicks are engorged. It was wearing a skirt, me wanted it bad. I've heard and had too much of this.

    Pigs are pigs, no matter what the situation is. And the many men who come to ogle me in free chat and bark orders at me, get pissed when I don't do exactly what they say, and proceed to insult me viciously - they are pigs.
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    You have a point, However I only truly hate them when they are not paying me.. I signed up to cam because I EXPECTED to be treated like a sex object. That's NOT the problem.. the problem is everything else. I KNOW why i signed up! to be paid to be a sex object.. but when you are dealing with the lowest of the low!.. time wasters , free loaders, entitled., trolls, blatant immaturity. I think that is PROBABLY WHAT WE HATE THE MOST! I am sure we all signed up for the same reason.. to be paid to be a sex object... OR if you want to explore your own sexuality or are a nympho or something of that respect..but those are few and far between.

    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    I never understood why girls (or people) in this industry end up hating men, calling them pigs or etc.... I mean, what kind of reaction does one expect when you place yourself in a sexually charged enviornment? No, does not give them the excuse to cross the line, such as rape, but we know men are creatures who's blood rushes only to one head at a time.

    I don't hate men and never will. Because of men, my bills are paid, I've taken nice trips, nice gifts etc etc....Why would you hate your main source of income?

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    thats how i feel now and im new at the camming stuff, but after seeing and talking with the guys-my mindset has already kind of changed and i will NOT give myself to a guy with little in return especially attention i spent about 14 years with my husband (in divorce now) and I was neglected almost the entire time but after this new experience i will never put up with that again because if i cant get the attention from who I'm with, but guys on the net will give me their time and money why waste my time.

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    Yea!.. my first relationship i had for almost 5 yrs I was ignored the whole time.. He never talked to me , he never had sex with me .. just nothing.. He worked long hours and would come home and read the ENTIRE NEWSPAPER from front to back.. he would sit there for hours. We never had any conversations ever, we were not on the same level.. He was about 12-13 yrs older than me.. I was just THERE.. and one day i worked up enough courage to just LEAVE!

    Quote Originally Posted by AutumnRaynn View Post
    thats how i feel now and im new at the camming stuff, but after seeing and talking with the guys-my mindset has already kind of changed and i will NOT give myself to a guy with little in return especially attention i spent about 14 years with my husband (in divorce now) and I was neglected almost the entire time but after this new experience i will never put up with that again because if i cant get the attention from who I'm with, but guys on the net will give me their time and money why waste my time.

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    Yea!.. my first relationship i had for almost 5 yrs I was ignored the whole time.. He never talked to me , he never had sex with me .. just nothing.. He worked long hours and would come home and read the ENTIRE NEWSPAPER from front to back.. he would sit there for hours. We never had any conversations ever, we were not on the same level.. He was about 12-13 yrs older than me.. I was just THERE.. and one day i worked up enough courage to just LEAVE!
    yes! i was married to the dufus for 15 yrs, and he worked/ate/showered/slept/repeat. EVERY DAY. Unless he wanted a blow job or quickie, then I existed. sorry I just had to spew this part, lolol, I feel better.

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    Now I am curious!... did you leave him?? what happened to this dufus??..lol

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    yes! i was married to the dufus for 15 yrs, and he worked/ate/showered/slept/repeat. EVERY DAY. Unless he wanted a blow job or quickie, then I existed. sorry I just had to spew this part, lolol, I feel better.

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    Default Re: Does being a can girl make you hate men more or has it changed your view on men?

    Some men are very nice, considerate, and respectful. And some men are not. This has everything to do with what you attract into your life through subconscious signals you give off (clothing style, posture, tone, emotional state, body language in general, hair color + style, etc).

    Majority of the men I choose to interact with and surround myself with are nice, considerate, and respectful. Majority of my cam customers are nice, considerate, and respectful. I basically demand both groups of men to be this way, through what I'll put up with and what I won't + subconscious signals I give off, and it works.


    The vibrations you give off are the vibrations you get back. Not saying that's true 100% of the time, but its true for the majority. If you come off sexual (like many do in the camming environment), you will get sexually aggressive men in return. Not slut shaming here, but if you go out with a low-cut shirt and big breasts hanging out, you will attract sexually aggressive men because of the signal you are giving off (whether intentionally or not). And if you give off an aura of power... that YOU are in control, you will attract respectful submissive men. That's just how the world works in regards to body language, tone, physical attributes, clothing, etc.

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    I agree this is a very important topic of discussion, and I've loved reading all of your guys' responses. There is, however, more I would like to add.

    I know this opinion is... controversial, but I'm of the belief that the sexes aren't as divided as we tend to think we are. For example, in my studies I've come to believe that women sexually and physically abuse men almost as often as men sexually and physically abuse women. Or at the very least, it isn't as divisive as one might thing. One of the reasons we most often hear of male-on-female sexual violence is rates of reporting (to the authorities) -men almost NEVER press charges when they are raped by a woman. As a culture we have dismissed that as a possibility, unless perhaps the woman was 'ugly' or 'fat'. Even then, the rape often takes on a humorous connotation- the man doesn't want to be the butt of all jokes and therefore keeps it to himself.

    The data is all over the place- rates of reporting, surveys and the like can only go so far. But the fact is that women rape men, they are just as capable of being sexually victimized as we are.

    I just find some aspects of this thread to be surprisingly reminiscent of the slut-shaming that has shamed women for years. Why would we want to do the same for men? Men aren't the only perpetrators of that kind of rhetoric either- women can be viciously cruel about each other's sex lives.

    I know I've touched on some decidedly controversial topics, I can dig up some links to verify my claims if anyone wants, but really, men are too broad of a group to put them all under the same stereotypical blanket. Some are shameless, sick assholes, some are wonderful individuals.
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    Yup, and studies have also shown that gay and lesbian couples are equally likely to commit domestic violence. Gender is not the issue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bitch View Post
    Because sex has always been a man's #1 excuse for shitty behavior. There are men who have been polite and respectful to me, spent their money on me, thanked me, and left me in peace. I know it is possible to be a gentleman even when you're horny. I've seen it.

    I have a problem with the 'what do you expect?' mentality. Boys will be boys. They can't be held accountable for what they do when their dicks are engorged. It was wearing a skirt, me wanted it bad. I've heard and had too much of this.

    Pigs are pigs, no matter what the situation is. And the many men who come to ogle me in free chat and bark orders at me, get pissed when I don't do exactly what they say, and proceed to insult me viciously - they are pigs.
    Well, I clearly said it doesn't excuse shitty behavior such as rape, sexual assault, crossing the line etc.. I am just saying I usually expect their brains to stop working.

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    While you make excellent points, my mind wanders to how do you rape a man?? you can't fuck him if his dick isn't hard.. so no dice there.. you could fuck his ass i suppose.. After reading ALL of this that is all I thought of. But you are correct in saying so because men are humiliated by letting a FEMALE do that to them.. Which is not very manly like at all.. the man is considered a wimp, a pussy, weak.

    Quote Originally Posted by SaraLaughs View Post
    I agree this is a very important topic of discussion, and I've loved reading all of your guys' responses. There is, however, more I would like to add.

    I know this opinion is... controversial, but I'm of the belief that the sexes aren't as divided as we tend to think we are. For example, in my studies I've come to believe that women sexually and physically abuse men almost as often as men sexually and physically abuse women. Or at the very least, it isn't as divisive as one might thing. One of the reasons we most often hear of male-on-female sexual violence is rates of reporting (to the authorities) -men almost NEVER press charges when they are raped by a woman. As a culture we have dismissed that as a possibility, unless perhaps the woman was 'ugly' or 'fat'. Even then, the rape often takes on a humorous connotation- the man doesn't want to be the butt of all jokes and therefore keeps it to himself.

    The data is all over the place- rates of reporting, surveys and the like can only go so far. But the fact is that women rape men, they are just as capable of being sexually victimized as we are.

    I just find some aspects of this thread to be surprisingly reminiscent of the slut-shaming that has shamed women for years. Why would we want to do the same for men? Men aren't the only perpetrators of that kind of rhetoric either- women can be viciously cruel about each other's sex lives.

    I know I've touched on some decidedly controversial topics, I can dig up some links to verify my claims if anyone wants, but really, men are too broad of a group to put them all under the same stereotypical blanket. Some are shameless, sick assholes, some are wonderful individuals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    This has everything to do with what you attract into your life through subconscious signals you give off (clothing style, posture, tone, emotional state, body language in general, hair color + style, etc).

    And if you give off an aura of power... that YOU are in control, you will attract respectful submissive men. That's just how the world works in regards to body language, tone, physical attributes, clothing, etc.
    It never worked for me; had every colour hair, lots of diff clothing styles, and am in different moods also the "im on top of the world/in controll mood" but I get sexualised evertime I set a foot outside the door.
    From whistling, to guys following/stalking me around in theirs cars, bikes, hopelesly trying to get an phonenumber, namecalling somtimes when they can not get done what they wanna have.. groping at private parts when at crowded parties... I have guys trying to "talk me up" and get a fuck out of it in summer at least 3 times a day when I go out for groceries only (30 minutes outside....

    It makes me want to stay inside, feels like I am in freechat all over again.

    Doesnt matter if I wear makeup, or not, if I wear high heels or not, if I wear clothing zipped till my neck. Maybe double EE boobs dont help in this case but I can assure you it has nothing to do with my mood and or mindstate. They will come after me in a sexxual agresssive kinda way, I almost never get the shy cute, or submissive guys (well on cam I do but thats a diff story), but the arrogant, I am entitled to talk to you and you will listen to me as long as I do and follow my lead. And boy I hate that kind.
    Nowadays I just try to ignore, or smile friendly and walk straight ahead without giving them more attention since that seem to get rid of them most quickly (at least if they will not follow me again). With ignoring I always take the change of being called a bitch or stuck up cunt. Yep thats me.

    At cam I just play up teh innocent, friendly, horny blonde since that pays me the most (btw I am very friendly from nature, so it also takes less energy to play that up... being angry and demanding stuff feels draining to me, although I dont deal with guys their bs in real life ill make them shut uo right away). When I choose to be the cheeky, dominant woman it will result in ending up with 50% less money. I just play the part they like the most and deal with their bs since that is what they are paying big bucks for.


    BTW I do not "hate" guys more, since I am brought up by my mother, who always warned me about men and told me straight up as a very young girl they only think with their dicks. In the beginnning of feeling attracted to men/boys as a teen I didnt believe her at first, but she was right all along, and I found out really quickly. Bec of my mother though I only had really sweet and kind guys in my past relationships, since I was very wary and didnt trust anyone quickly. I can pick out the assholes and untrusty men for miles away and sadly enough they almost all are, I could predict for my girlfriends there guys if they were gone to last or not (in my head not out loud, only if they asked my opinion), and none of their guys were loyal which I could see from the start... Good men do excist, I do had my share of good ones but they are very rare.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    Maybe double EE boobs dont help in this case but I can assure you it has nothing to do with my mood and or mindstate. They will come after me in a sexxual agresssive kinda way, I never get the shy cute, or submissive guys (well on cam I do but thats a diff story), but the arrogant, I am entitled to talk to you and you will listen to me as long as I do and follow my lead. And boy I hate that kind.
    As a women who also has big boobs, I have to completely agree. No matter how I dress people always tell me I look like 'a porn star.' It doesn't matter how high cut the shirt and even if I don't have a stitch of makeup on.

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    (Now when rethinking all of it, I just remembered the first sexual atention I ever gotten on the streets, I was when I was around 16 in the summer (thight cropped shirt on), and my boobs back then where not fully developed (I started late) but where at that point a c cup.
    In that summer guys started honking their cars when I walked the street and that first time a guy hung out of his car to keep looking at me I was in shock (terribly low selfesteem so it was kinda empowering too).
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    Now I am curious!... did you leave him?? what happened to this dufus??..lol
    I did leave him. I reunited with my old high school flame. (flame and I are married today) Dufus is engaged to a woman that isn't quite legal in this county and can't marry due to that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    (Now when rethinking all of it, I just remembered the first sexual atention I ever gotten on the streets, I was when I was around 16 in the summer (thight cropped shirt on), and my boobs back then where not fully developed (I started late) but where at that point a c cup.
    In that summer guys started honking their cars when I walked the street and that first time a guy hung out of his car to keep looking at me I was in shock (terribly low selfesteem so it was kinda empowering too).
    Having big boobs is a blessing and a curse (guys only want sex and girls hate you instantly)
    I don't exactly have small breasts, and I have an above average waist-hip ratio as an hourglass shape, but what I do is wear higher cut clothing and look more conservative, more black, and it almost completely stops. It makes a world of difference when I have blonde hair wearing a low cut shirt and yoga pants (tight or revealing clothing), versus having dark hair with a turtleneck and a high waisted skirt (less revealing and not as tight). I've done both. WORLDS of difference in how people treat me, both men and women.

    There's a reason why majority of strippers end up getting large implants and dying their hair blonde. Its seen as sexual, so you attract sexually aggressive men (which is good in a strip club or adult $$$$ setting).

    I've even had friends notice the drastic difference in how people treat me with dark hair vs light hair and dress styles. Whatever is in the media as sexual, if you go against that, you attract less sexually aggressive men.

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    Yea I didn't understand Glamour Rouge's post either, some girls are just magnets for this kinda stuff no matter what happens.. I used to wear nerdy clothes ( cardigan, penny loafers and turtlenecks) and had saggy b cups titties and I had the SAME problems as I did with dd's with bleached blonde hair with a huge err of confidence kicking ass and taking names.. same problems NO MATTER WHAT! guys still wanted to rape the shit out of me NO matter what I did.

    Quote Originally Posted by IvyRose View Post
    It never worked for me; had every colour hair, lots of diff clothing styles, and am in different moods also the "im on top of the world/in controll mood" but I get sexualised evertime I set a foot outside the door.
    From whistling, to guys following/stalking me around in theirs cars, bikes, hopelesly trying to get an phonenumber, namecalling somtimes when they can not get done what they wanna have.. groping at private parts when at crowded parties... I have guys trying to "talk me up" and get a fuck out of it in summer at least 3 times a day when I go out for groceries only (30 minutes outside....

    It makes me want to stay inside, feels like I am in freechat all over again.

    Doesnt matter if I wear makeup, or not, if I wear high heels or not, if I wear clothing zipped till my neck. Maybe double EE boobs dont help in this case but I can assure you it has nothing to do with my mood and or mindstate. They will come after me in a sexxual agresssive kinda way, I almost never get the shy cute, or submissive guys (well on cam I do but thats a diff story), but the arrogant, I am entitled to talk to you and you will listen to me as long as I do and follow my lead. And boy I hate that kind.
    Nowadays I just try to ignore, or smile friendly and walk straight ahead without giving them more attention since that seem to get rid of them most quickly (at least if they will not follow me again). With ignoring I always take the change of being called a bitch or stuck up cunt. Yep thats me.

    At cam I just play up teh innocent, friendly, horny blonde since that pays me the most (btw I am very friendly from nature, so it also takes less energy to play that up... being angry and demanding stuff feels draining to me, although I dont deal with guys their bs in real life ill make them shut uo right away). When I choose to be the cheeky, dominant woman it will result in ending up with 50% less money. I just play the part they like the most and deal with their bs since that is what they are paying big bucks for.


    BTW I do not "hate" guys more, since I am brought up by my mother, who always warned me about men and told me straight up as a very young girl they only think with their dicks. In the beginnning of feeling attracted to men/boys as a teen I didnt believe her at first, but she was right all along, and I found out really quickly. Bec of my mother though I only had really sweet and kind guys in my past relationships, since I was very wary and didnt trust anyone quickly. I can pick out the assholes and untrusty men for miles away and sadly enough they almost all are, I could predict for my girlfriends there guys if they were gone to last or not (in my head not out loud, only if they asked my opinion), and none of their guys were loyal which I could see from the start... Good men do excist, I do had my share of good ones but they are very rare.
    I distrust every guy I walk by on the street.

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    I wish I could explain how when you have *massively* big boobs people truly treat you differently. It is just something you really need to experience to truly appreciate.

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    Drugs, coercion, blackmail. Sometimes sexual assault doesn't entail PIV but other forced sexual acts. Not all women 'put up a fight' when they are raped either. Getting an erection is merely a physical reaction, sometimes involuntary. And I tend to think societal problems like this are the result of many factors rather than a single one. Cultural norms tend to have more than one thread of origin- it's a collaboration of different ideas.

    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    While you make excellent points, my mind wanders to how do you rape a man?? you can't fuck him if his dick isn't hard.. so no dice there.. you could fuck his ass i suppose.. After reading ALL of this that is all I thought of. But you are correct in saying so because men are humiliated by letting a FEMALE do that to them.. Which is not very manly like at all.. the man is considered a wimp, a pussy, weak.
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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous camgirl View Post
    While you make excellent points, my mind wanders to how do you rape a man?? you can't fuck him if his dick isn't hard.. so no dice there.. you could fuck his ass i suppose.. After reading ALL of this that is all I thought of. But you are correct in saying so because men are humiliated by letting a FEMALE do that to them.. Which is not very manly like at all.. the man is considered a wimp, a pussy, weak.
    Sex crimes comitted by women are generally if a woman has sex with a female or male minor... Or a female abusing another female. Not a woman raping a man, I think society is really confused about that one. I'm sure its happened that way before (anyone seen desperate housewives? there was a scene on there like it) but its not common. among female offenders.

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